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I asked a female coworker out and got rejected. Everything is awkward now. Is there a way to fix this or should I get a new job?

>> No.20273163

>frog2.jpg
Ah, another redditor with a small folder of pepe images he pulls out when he posts on 4chan to try and blend in.

>> No.20273171

>>20273142
man I know this shit, this only gets back to non awkward if both can relax. so even if you can play it off, as long as she plays the awkward game your in this silly position. chances are females do this on purpose to get rid of you

>> No.20273175

>>20273142
talk with her, tell her no hard feelings, just be "friends" or coworkers

>> No.20273196

>>20273142
You are a fucking idiot.
>>20273171
>>20273175
It is possible it can go back to normal but this dumb piece of shit shouldn’t have ever tried shitting where he eats in the first place.

>> No.20273200
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>>20273163
>Ah, another redditor with a small folder of pepe images he pulls out when he posts on 4chan to try and blend in.

>> No.20273245

>>20273142
I've seen this exact thread before

>> No.20273271

>>20273142
This happened to me, I went after the only girl who didn’t seem to be interested in me. Just power love it and be confident and treat her friendly and you’ll be good

>> No.20273275

You re fucked mate. I had this happen in Uni and it was living hell, she ll try to make the people around you take her side. You gave her power over you and she knows this, now she s going to abuse the hell out of it

>> No.20273284

>>20273142
Never ask someone out, tell them you are doing something and tell them to come with you. They are way more likely to go with you tell them to instead of asking, and then even if they don’t, you just tell them how much fun you had and they missed out. Then they feel awkward instead of you, and the next time you tel them to come with you they will

>> No.20273288

>>20273200
Straighten your life out.

>> No.20273322

>>20273142
might as well rape her because she's going to accuse you of it

>> No.20273344

>>20273284
Example: hey I heard about this great restaurant I’m going to check out this week, come with me, they are supposed to have the best XYZ.

If they say no, you just talk up the restaurant the next time you see them and let them know they missed out.

>> No.20273358

>>20273142
Just tell her you read the situation wrong, and want to stay professional.

>> No.20273365

>>20273284
Brilliant 4d chess move. Wish I was that smart

>> No.20273377
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>>20273288
>Straighten your life out.

>> No.20273389

>>20273344
This. Though I would add to stop pushing if they say no the first time. Women who like you will jump on the opportunity. If not act like the cool friend who is not bothered

>> No.20273406

>>20273377
Is this what a chad looks like?

>> No.20273428

>>20273142
It's only awkward if you make it awkward. just chill out bro it's not a big deal. if you keep being weird about it you're going to get a harassment complaint

>> No.20273429

>>20273377
based and responsibility pilled

>> No.20273451

>>20273142
Rape her, she will have the best orgasm in her life

>> No.20273461

I did the same thing last week OP. This 6/10 girl I've had decent conversation with for about a year. I asked her what she does on weekends and asked her to go to the drive in with me. She said no. Fucking whore.

>> No.20273472

>>20273142
Let me see if we can save this. How did you ask her out? Dinner? Coffee? Some activity? Or did you sperg out and actually say, “would you want to go out with me sometime?”

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>>20273200
>>20273377
These never get old hahahahah

>> No.20273581

>>20273461
>The drive in
How wholesome and traditional of you.

>> No.20273627

>>20273389
True, and you are actually better off inviting a bunch of people from the office out for drink and not inviting her, and when she finds out say I thought you didn’t like going out

>> No.20273628

>>20273461
What timeline are you living in? Are you a kind of doo-wop spill your beans to a girl kind of guy?
Fuckin fags I swear

>> No.20273669

>>20273142
Get a better looking girl and show her pictures to make her jealous

>> No.20273678

>>20273142
1 other piece of advice OP. Never use conditional language. Would, could, and should all have an implied “but” attached. If you ask, “would you want to see a movie this weekend”, they will naturally process that question as: I would, but....

You are literally putting your own rejection into their head.

>> No.20273692

>>20273627
Holy shit that will burn her. Unless she s a psycho who will get revenge at all costs until she walks over your corpse. Been there before

>> No.20273728

thats very brave OP. i told my friend i really, really like him and he doesnt talk or hang out with me anymore