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I have no desire to spend time with friends anymore. I really don’t give a fuck about those people anymore. Nobody I ever called a friend even talks to me anymore except for the two from sixth grade that were always my bros. But even then I don’t go “hang out” anymore. The only people I really feel compelled to spend time with anymore is my family. Is this just part of getting old? Does this happen to everyone? Maybe I’m a fucking hermit or something. All I care about is my family, crypto, and vidya/anime. Should I make myself go spend time with other people my age? What do I get out of that? I genuinely like you faggots. This is a good board. But people in real life suck outside my family.

>> No.20115635

>>20115630
You need to buy LINK.

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>>20115630
Jesus fucking Christ I said lanymore” a gorillion times. Fuck

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>>20115630
Yo I'm sorry to hear that anon, I'm no doctor but you sound like you might be depressed
I know this feeling well though, and I do think it is a part of getting older
That being said, you should still try to socialize with people even if its not your favorite thing anymore. It's good for your brain

>> No.20115658

Human is opportunistic. He Only ever cares about ppl who gives him true value for his desires.
Nothin wrong with that

>> No.20115662

Welcome to adulthood. Next step don't get tricked by some female parasite who wants to drain you of your resources.

>> No.20115683

>>20115655
Cope. Socializing for the sole purpose of socializing is wasted time.
Only ever socialize if it gives you some kind of value.

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>>20115683
>Only ever socialize if it gives you some kind of value.
t.neckbeard with no friends

OP, the value of socializing is literally the benefit of maintaining sanity.

>> No.20115717

>>20115630
Meet new people

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>>20115717
It’s just boring. The fuck are we going to talk about? None of these people will ever be there for me in a time of need. Only family. That’s all that matters to me.

>> No.20115761

>>20115630
Need bigger personally meaningful goals which naturally connect you with like minded people who share similar values

>> No.20115772

>>20115748
What would be considered meaningful for you dear edgelord? Life? Politics? The universe?

>> No.20115782

>>20115761
I'd build your money, go do cool stuff, will meet cool people, life becomes cool

>> No.20115839

>>20115630
spend time helping out older blue collar men who still work on their houses and cars. when they sit and bullshit, they talk the truth and talk about how to create things, unlike worthless people our age

>> No.20115857

>>20115839
>hang out with hick boomers
Of all the shit advice in this thread, this is the worst. Don't do this, be OP.

>> No.20115884

I had four good friends in my youth. Two ghosted me, one I only talk with once in a while, and other I talk with regularly/play vidya together. LIke you OP I don't really have a desire to meet anyone else. My gf, family, and job keeps me occupied

>> No.20115918

You need to find different sources of joy. Its easy to seek self gratification through isolated activities and family are a given (stuck with you if your a chad or neck beard). The trouble is that these isolated actions give little fulfillment which is why you feel empty.

Sure you will meet some weird/annoying people in group activities but you wont get satisfaction chasing solo tendies. Join a club, mentor someone less fortunate, bang an escort for gods sake but dont give up on trying new experiences.

>> No.20115951

>>20115918
What club?

>> No.20115996

>>20115630
i feel the same. at least you have family. i barely interact with my family. older family members are ok, family members my age are unbearable to be around

>> No.20116013

Dead set it can be whatever you want it to be, i walked past a bouldering club which ive never tried and just started chatting to them. Nice people and im gonna give it a try. I think because i enjoy working with my hands in the past (gardening etc) its a way to watch in real life your progress. like one day i might get 2 meters high the next week 5.

Ive always found working with my hands in a physical activity draws me out from my own internal bs

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>>20115630
>>20115662
ooh a thread I can relate to. found a woman in college circa 2008. she's a foreigner, was very conservative coming from a small town in central asia. this was important to me at the time (and still is). knew within 4 mos dating she was the one. married in 2010, had kid 1 in 2012 and she hasn't worked since. I have a crap government job that pays ok. father passed away in 2018 leaving not-insignificant assets. all this was kept separate, nothing commingled, because shitty divorce laws in commiefornia. I have practically no family left here and want to live where she's from, where the family is larger. I cut most people out after 2018... they're all drinkers, partiers, but have families. just trying to figure out how to get away with petty thievery or getting over on people. seems to be "the american way" where I am in california.
anyway, after spending 12 years here, she's too liberal to talk to about anything with current events - thanks, new mommy forums!

so now marriage is on the rocks, my fault of course. nothing to do with her not wanting to work in one of the most expensive states in the country. she's got a masters in medical biochem so she's not entirely an idiot.

you're not alone, op.

>> No.20116022

>>20115857
Yeah just jabber with soiboys about consooming mass media and products. Sounds great.

>> No.20116098

>>20116018
All that money and you married an ugly gook and had retarded mutant future school shooters. Good job beta idiot.

>> No.20116135

>>20116018
why did you send your genetics down the shitter for an insectioid? fuck man. horrible move

>> No.20116137

A real friend will always text you back and want to hang out, even if you haven't talked to them in years. Sad to say that if a "friend" doesn't make time to hang out when you try to make time multiple times, they aren't your friend anymore. Don't take it personally---most commonly this happens when people start families. When you have a family, your time to hang out with friends is reduced drastically or to near 0.

>> No.20116203

Just go full monke. Today, contributing to society incurs a net loss. Save a bunch of money, buy land in the middle of nowhere and avoid people as much as possible.

>> No.20116314

>>20116098
The women situation in America is very dire. It has something to do with wealth, abundance and propaganda. Also having hyper aggressive circumcised white males doesn’t help at all in the current environment. Did I mention America attracts a lot of male immigrants from all over the world? Some of them are good looking, exotic, hard working and willing to play the current consoomer game, which makes the mating/dating environment highly competitive. Then there is the obesity of course. Also a lot of boomers and kikes are very wealthy compared to the younger generations which takes even more young pussy away from the dating pool.

The middle class is destroyed, hooked on opiates, hooked on materialism, riddled with all kinds of chronic diseases and blah blah blah. The tiny WASP upper class is where it’s at, unfortunately they don’t want anything to do with average males and only hang out in their circles usually.

>> No.20116421

>>20116098
lol

>> No.20116540

I feel sorry for anyone who doesn't have a brother. Anyone with a real brother who isn't a moron knows how worthless friends are

>> No.20116963

>>20115630
You just have a shit group of friends, might be a reflection of yourself desu. When I lost my job I had a lot of my mates reach out to me to find me a new job.

>> No.20117864

>>20115839
listen to this guy

>> No.20117940

>>20116098
>>20116135
kazakh women aren't gooks, I beg to differ. looks asian (win), speaks russian and they have different hair color/texture than the usual "asians." I ended a 6.5yr relationship with a white girl for this one. she's got it all, cept the work ethic. which would be fine if we didn't live in california.
google for yourself - kazakh girls, astana girls, astana. amazingly beautiful city. but it's kind of fake the way las vegas isn't a good representation of the rest of the US.

>>20116314
right, and that's what I saw in her - exotic. at first I didn't even like her, had never been with an asian chick before. the money shot i put, as I said it's separate for good reason. I'm not about to enhance my lifestyle or hers if she's not going to lift a finger and work for a living.

what would you do if you had some decent savings and can't share it with your wife? kinda sucks. and even if she did work, it's just more stuff. I've got guns, modest cars, 3 motorcycles, a job I can't really be fired from, but still unhappy. there's no struggle, no effort. some people dream of the cush government job they can't get fired from, but it's not all that. those who believe the retirement will be there when they reach that age are delusional. after what calpers did to the public agency employees in southern california - cut their pension benefits - because their respective workplace couldn't afford the payments to pers.. they were fucked. there's ~3200 public agencies "promising" a pension to their workers - who do you think is on the hook? taxpayers. what happens when this uncovered liability comes due? one of the many reasons I don't want to live in california. but also having no family here, kz has a nice expat community and plenty of opportunities for foreigners.

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>>20115630
I'm kinda in the same boat. I stopped seeing most of my friends since December last year. They usually reach out to me to hang out but I haven't heard anything. And I'm not complaining because I prefer to be alone. Everything is fucked by corona so it's not like we can do the usual clubbing, concerts, music festivals, etc.
I'm not interested in interacting with my parents or siblings either. I just want to work and invest a shitload of money over the next 10 years. Then I'll retire in Southeast Asia to pursue my personal hobbies.

>> No.20118217

>>20116018
lol
you married a bug
you reap what you sow; hopefully your kid is more Tim Poole and less Elliot Rodger

>> No.20118277

>>20117940
I need to read more about this calpers situation. I've been applying for government jobs lately, trying to get into public sector engineering in califonia bay area. Working for a small private company has been extremely stressful and the hours are ridiculous.

>> No.20118345

>>20115630
id say ur the average man

>> No.20119123

>>20115630
Seems normal to me
I actually care more about my frens here on biz than people that I used to associate with when I was poor and that's why I shill using AAVE to escape poverty like I did

>> No.20119782

>>20115630
Top fucking Kek that's completely normal. You are the quintessential normalfag, and so am I

>> No.20120038

>>20115630
In a capitalist society like America other people are fake, they are competitors not friends. Go to an ex USSR country and experience SOCIALism.

>> No.20120528

>>20120038
Great advice anon. Leave the greatest nation on earth and go to a literal shithole.

>> No.20120549

>>20115630
>>20115683
were animals dependent on others to survive. There’s a reason people lost literally lose their mind without human contact. I’m on the same boat, I only talk with family. The only thing keeping me social is my gf and her friends. It’s refreshing to temporarily have her friends around

>> No.20120573

>>20115630
Same thing with social. I have no desire to play video games.

I just started working out for the first time in 5 years just to start actively getting laid again

>> No.20120621

>>20115630
Anon work out regularly and find a girlfriend. I was in the abyss at the end of and after college. I met an awesome woman and moved to europe. You're just maturing, I still text my friends but they're all drug addicts and value dumb bullshit. Certain people have intellectual and mental awakenings earlier that make old relationships totally incompatible. Its a rough transition but you will be happy again

>>20118156
>Then I'll retire in Southeast Asia to pursue my personal hobbies
this freak is going to fuck lady boys lmfao

>>20116018
imagine not marrying a white women

>> No.20120724

Same, once I found biz you guys became family I don’t want to get out of here I no longer enjoy hanging out with friends or people who do not know or enjoy crypto I was feeling such a loner even when I was surrounded by friends but now here we are.
P.S. Fuck you moonbois and stinky linkies

>> No.20120769

>>20120724
It's not us. It's just the drugs we are giving you. Adrenalin is a hell of an addiction

>> No.20120784

>>20115658
this

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>>20120528
>mutilate their sons genitals at birth
>greatest nation on earth

lmao

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>>20115630
i know these feels ll too much. been in this state of existence for decades now. this condition, this attitude, it only advances.
i think it is completely natural and normal for some of us to become this way, given the current society and cultural zeigeist

we dont belong in this time or this age. i should have been born long ago, when things were more simple, and real, an not so much empty materialism and electronic digital media mind fuckery turning everyone into bizarrro Clown world NPCs

>> No.20121299

>>20115630
I think is part of getting older. However, it's important to interact with new people and to get out of your comfort zone. New experiences help you prevent dementia.
Some of the things we avoid are the exact things we need.

>> No.20121307

>>20115630
Thats a man

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I think we have been ruined by being here. Can't work without calling ourselves wagie.

>> No.20121463

>>20115630
"Hell is Other People." t. sartre meant

>> No.20121478

>>20121196
This is pretty true for me. A lot of people are saying in the thread I’m depressed. I’m actually not. I’m the happiest I’ve ever been in my life. I am content working hard at my job, adding value to the small company I work for, and doing shit outside of work like working in the yard and on my property maintaining things. Last week a pretty big tree fell in a storm and I had fun just cutting it up with a chainsaw, listening to a podcast, and making some firewood. Meanwhile it’s like all the people I used to hang out with are all wrapped up in the luxuries of the modern world. They still care about partying and having the latest gadgets. I graduated college before most of them, so after starting my first real job the focal point has been to save money and invest for retirement. Not buy frivolous shit. One of them got a job making like 40K a year and thinks he is a fucking millionaire or something - pointlessly blowing money out of his ass and acting like he’s better than everybody else. I don’t even question whether I should be going to see these people anymore because the things they partake in seem childish to me. I thoroughly enjoy going to church too. None of them are believers in the Christian faith, which I think is the biggest divide. I hope to eventually meet a nice woman through church, but if that never happens I don’t really care. Pussy has never been something I was addicted to. I really feel like the most important thing in life is family. And after years of neglecting to care about them in favor of these “friends” who wouldn’t piss on me if I was on fire, I’ve just withdrawn into solidarity or time with family.

>> No.20121538

>>20121478
I'd say you are on the right and true path for whats good for you and your loved ones. I wouldn't even question it for a second.

It's the falling in line with the lost, directionless pastimes of our so-called "peers" (normies, if you will) that leads the average person into mediocrity, waste and ruin

>> No.20121686

>>20121478
This actually sounds pretty pathetic. The whole girl from church meme really throws it over the edge.

>> No.20121727

>>20121538
I’m not going to act like I don’t engage in useless pastimes. I’ve always played video games, even if it’s much less these days. And I recently started actually getting into anime after thinking it was gay for years. But the bulk of my time is spent working and helping family with shit or just hanging out with them. It just feels much more fruitful. My parents stuck through me being a total asshole through high school and college. Now that I’m not an immature little cunt, I actually enjoy being around them. They’re not going to be around forever, ya know? And my dad is a fucking goldmine of knowledge of how to be a pretty fucking strong husband and father. I just feel like they’re aren’t many people left these days that live like my family does. They are wealthy as shit. That’s no joke. But they don’t keep their children up. They don’t spend money on dumb shit. My fucking dad, as wealthy as he is, drives an old 2004 frontier because he believes vehicles are the dumbest investment one can make. I just respect them and their way of life. And I’ve noticed that because they choose to live that way, they don’t have many friends either. They aren’t going to yacht parties or wine tasting parties. They’re content living a simple life and being left the fuck alone.

>> No.20121759

>>20121478
Church would be nice. I just can’t get past all the “superstition”, I’m the kind of person that takes everything literally, and I can’t play “pretend” that I believe. I have to live with my own internal integrity or it gives me anxiety. It sucks because there exists no like minded group of people that I can associate with.

>> No.20121803

>>20121686
So what I am supposed to do? Be “normal” and chase material things? Hang out with superficial people? Find a girl on tinder that has taken more dick than Vietnamese hooker and spends her time showing her tits on Instagram? If that’s what I’m supposed to do to be “normal,” I’ll keep living like a hermit.

>> No.20121822

>>20115683
Based

>> No.20121836

>>20121759
I would recommend you honestly give a southern baptist church a shot. If you find one with a based pastor, it isn’t a bunch of fairy tale shit like outsiders think. I didn’t start understanding it until I read the Bible myself. When I took the initiative to understand it for myself, it clicked. I always hated church growing up. Felt fake as fuck, especially the people. I’m not your average church person. I don’t really take a lot of the stupid bullshit some churches push very seriously. I think Christ is what you should strive to emulate and it’s that simple. A lot of the semantics aren’t of interest to me. There’s some genuinely solid and nice people you will meet at church. Especially the older crowd. There’s some old men you can meet that will fucking school you on a lot of shit in life.

>> No.20121903

>>20121727
yeah, most of us have dome time wasting unproductive vice like anime or vidya, whatever. got have some fun or distraction, thats healthy too in moderation

>> No.20121917

>>20121686
NPC normie detected

>> No.20121997

>>20115630
I don’t know, I used to feel like you all the time and started doing stuff just for myself, and a little for my family when they need it. But for some reason a lot of my older friends, including my older brother, decided to settle as FUCKA with single moms and not have any kids of their own. My other friends that actually ended up having their own kids aren’t doing much better. One relies on his wife to do anything responsible. Another is so delusional about how much debt he has and has a spending, drinking, borderline gambling addiction, (like most of society). I always come to the idea that these are the people that get burned the worst when things take a downturn, which they have and are only getting started, and these people think they’re already out of the woods. I can totally see where you’re coming from when you say you don’t want to even deal with people anymore.

>> No.20122710

>>20121836
Yeah, some churches get way into magic water, magic beads, or magic underwear, finding Mary in a grilled cheese sandwich or w/e. It’s all about the values to me. And the church needs to stay out of your sex life and your children’s sex life. Sure, monogamy is a good thing, but beyond that it’s none of their business.

>> No.20122848

>>20122710
See, I think the problem with church is that it’s been infiltrated by nefarious forces seeking to corrupt it from the inside out. I think that’s especially true for the Catholic Church. You definitely run into nutters in any hobby. There’s a lady at my church who decided she’s a prophet of God and does all types of cringeworthy annoying shit. Everybody just laughs at how fucking nuts she is and ignores her. I do believe in Christ, but I think if nothing else church is an important cornerstone of cohesive society. I think it can be beneficial to people as an instruction manual. Because let’s be real. Christian doctrine really is a good manual for how to live a good life. If people followed its general ideas (in the western world at least) things would be a lot better and communities more tightly knit. I am a Christian, but I don’t go off the deep end with it. I think religion is a personal thing and shouldn’t be shoved down anyone’s throat. You’ve gotta make those decisions in your own. I did. Nobody telling me I needed to find Christ ever convinced me of it.

Definitely see if you can find a down to earth church. Avoid mega churches and modernized sects like the Methodists who allow women and fag pastors. They’re all capitulating to the modern world’s standards. It’s not gotta be super dogmatic, but it needs traditional structure. As for the sex thing, nobody I’ve met in church really cares. Yeah, you’re supposed to be chaste before marriage. But I don’t think anyone’s going to seriously evaluate or judge your personal life.

>> No.20122863

>>20122848
Fuck, my ID changed because I’m on mobile. I’m not trying to samefag.

>> No.20123012

>>20122848
Yeah the problem is two fold:
1) infected with lying, manipulative, possibly pedo leaders
2) naive members who will follow the most manipulative leaders to their death and the death of others

>> No.20123079

>>20122848
It’s because every church is associated with the WCC, world council of churches. Except the Mormon church and the Catholic Church

>Its members today include the Assyrian Church of the East, the Oriental Orthodox Churches, most jurisdictions of the Eastern Orthodox Church, the Mar Thoma Syrian Church of Malabar, the Old Catholic Church, the Anglican Communion, most mainline Protestant churches (such as the Lutheran, Mennonite, Methodist, Moravian and Reformed) and some evangelical Protestant churches (such as the Baptist and Pentecostal).[1] Notably, the Catholic Church is not a member, although it sends accredited observers to meetings.

>> No.20123104

>>20123012
Right, I agree. And I know it’s cliche, but don’t throw the baby out wit the bath water. I seriously don’t think church itself is necessary to finding faith in Christ. I think often it does more harm than good for most people, souring their opinion on the religion. I still am not super into church. I don’t really get involved in all
The stupid ass after church activities they do. I go for the sermon and that’s it because our preacher is a really down to earth dude who knows the literature really well. I often get the most out of just that. Not the faggy wannabe rock star music or the cringy people. It’s a selfish endeavor, but my life improved once I started considering it. The wake up moment for me came when I realized how much evil was in the world - especially the abundant connections and symbology between the elite, pedophilia, and what I can only interpret like Satan worship. I think it helps explain a lot of stuff happening in the world that has no logical explanation.

Not all church leaders are shitbags. I’m also living in a small community with a small church. I wager that the bigger the church gets the more likely it is to have shitbags. So depending on where you’re at, your experience might be exactly what you’re describing.

>> No.20123108

>>20115655
>It's good for your brain
what is this meme
I consistently regret talking to other people, every time

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OP it sounds like youve become a hyper judgemental individual that cant spend time with old friends. I'm not sure if youre hyper judgemental because you dont respect their lifestyles or their personalities or because you attend church and they dont but I'd warn against this line of thinking. If those people were truly a detriment to your life and moving on is healthy then I seriously doubt it would cause any kind of internal conflict. Or maybe the conflict is a result of doubt about pushing into adulthood alone without any friendships to enjoy. 4chan definitely doesnt breed social personality traits and if you spend a shit load of time on here it's probably not healthy. Building new friendships is difficult as an adult but not impossible. However, if you believe that youre such a special mature snowflake that there's nobody out there to befriend then you will find yourself very alone and for no good reason. Understanding your fellow man and empathizing with their shortcomings is part of real maturity (and christianity for that matter). GL fren, it sounds like youre just doing some soul searching which is healthy but I think it's a mistake to attempt to go through life friendless.

>> No.20123364

>>20123346
nice projecting there Doctor Freud

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>>20115630
The entire concept of what a woman is is retarded. What was the cosmos thinking when it created women?

>> No.20123493

>>20121803
Have you actually talked to a young church girl? They are degenerate as fuck. Only like 1 out of 20 is a believer.

>> No.20123502

>>20115707
can you help me understand this?
normie talk makes me want to die and they seem to hate talking substantive ideas

>> No.20123519

>>20123364
how is he projecting, you dumb motherfucker? using the word “projecting” with no meaning or context doesn’t take anything away from what he said. ironically, your response is what’s “projecting” if anything.

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>>20115630

Welcome to your 30s.
Time to get a wife and kids anon.

People dont stay the same for decades.
People change and prioritizes changes, some get family and kids and some move along and get another social surrounding

>> No.20123698

>>20123493
You’re not wrong there, man. Most are total blown out whores. I have encountered a few that were very strong believers and due to mg own degenerate past in my late teens/early 20s I never thought theyd be interested in me. I think pretty much all white women are hopelessly lost and useless. I would unironically like an obedient Asian woman.

>> No.20124191

>>20123519
nice projecting Dr Pavlov,
careful with that, your gonna give yourself an aneurysm

>> No.20124502

>>20115630
without pushing your boundaries you will never know what you are capable of. do you want to progress or stagnate?

>> No.20125023

none of you idiots are even listening to the op.
op is purrsuing his own interests and advancing himself at work and at home.

all you faggots are projecting your your own shitty limited presumptive conclusions on this whole thing.

read ops statements again. op is not hiding at home cowering under a rock being afraid of people and the world.

op is following his own path and choosing not to spend time with "people" that don't support his own paths goals.


stop fucking projecting

>> No.20125718

>>20125023
Damn, you’re the first one that seems like they actually read it. It’s like they interpreted it as I’m a proto-autistic retard with no social skills. I’m out in the real world daily dealing with people due to the nature of my work.

>> No.20125808

>>20115630
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=7lDkJahcarY

Ignore fat mans laugh it’s acquired taste.

>> No.20126263

I ve tried socialising with normalfags and after some time it was the most unbearable thing ever. All the shit they talk about is so meaningless to me and their goals they talk about and pursue died inside me when I was 12.
Being on /BIZ/ discussing potentially world changing technology that could lead to change billions of lives and the world all together is the only thing that excites me.

>> No.20126292

>>20126263
same here

>> No.20126336

>>20115630

You need to stop playing video games and severely reduce the amount of anime you watch. They are quick dopamine hits that prevent you from feeling anything real. Clearly you are unsatisfied with your life so it's time to make drastic changes. What those changes entail is up to you.

>> No.20126395

>>20126336
Everybody missed the point in this thread. I am NOT dissatisfied with my life. I’m happier than I’ve EVER been. I was just wondering if there was something wrong with not wanting to hang out with people anymore or if I’m just getting old.

>> No.20126400

>>20123502

We don't recommend you associate with zombies who can't process an original thought even if you slam it in their faces. Their programming won't allow them to take in data that isn't state/media approved. There's plenty of individual thinkers out there, you just need to find them. You won't find them in places where conformists gather, so forget about
>people who enjoy super heroes and comics/games
>people who play video games all the time
>people who work for the government/are in HR or journalism

It's hard and I've struggled with this myself but the crowd you're looking for are generally the philosophers and other thinkers who can evaluate an idea without accepting the premise as absolute truth. Sadly most people will simply have a violent reaction to any new information.

>> No.20126453

>>20126395

If you're happy, why are you here asking about what to do? Clearly you must want someone to tell you what you already know. Avoiding hurt and failure is comfortable in the short term but unbearable in the long term. I'm a little older than most here I think and trust me, drowning yourself in entertainment is a sure way to end up in a nihilistic hellhole of your own making.

At the very least keep yourself occupied by learning real skills, such as cooking, growing food, reading great works of literature. You can't stop improving yourself as a person or you'll rot away before you notice it. It's very hard to recover from such a situation.

>> No.20126503

>>20126400
>generally the philosophers and other thinkers who can evaluate an idea without accepting the premise as absolute truth.

Imagine thinking this is what it takes to be friends with you. Hope you don’t die alone buddy. This is such a cynical and borderline autistic view of people

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>>20115630
too many redpills bro.

>> No.20126768

>>20126503

See, here come the zombies now. They can't even process basic interactions outside of their programming and must immediately attack you without even addressing the substance of anything you said. It's boring. Everything must be about recent events, celebrities or the weather for them to be able to converse. It's sheer repetition of the status quo that makes them feel comfortable. Haha yes, the latest hollywood movie sure had big explosions!

Look at how this particular soiboy immediately implies I'm autistic and that I'm going to die alone as a pathetic preprogrammed effeminate response mechanism. Probably the product of a single mother with feminist tendencies. It's so sad. He probably thinks he's self-aware too. Such is the fate of the NPC. Pity them, but don't waste your time with them beyond general niceties.

Find real individuals. People with opinions they can elaborate on when pressed, who might have viewpoints you disagree with. NPC garbage like TRUMP BAD tends to break down when you ask "why", or they simply start repeating what CNN said. There's no challenge. You never learn anything from those interactions. All you've achieved is wasting your time, that's why it's something you want to avoid.

>> No.20127508

>>20126768
>See, here come the zombies now.

you need to see a mental health professional before you go off the fucking deep end.

pretending people aren't going to make mistakes and must be greek statute philosophers to have the privilege or your time is a guaranteed way to alienate people and be an insufferable weirdo

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>>20115630
You're unhappy because you're ugly. Look into getting an:
>orbital box osteotomy
>lefort 1-3
>Bimax
>MSE
>Chinwing
>brow ridge implant
>orbital decompression
>canthoplasty
All doors in life are open when you're good looking. You feel like you have no one besides your family because no one wants to be with you because you are mediocre/ugly. Get looks boyo.

>> No.20127625

>>20115630
About same here. I tried to befriend a group of people before the quarantine, but it seems i cannot stand them. They are so mediocre. You will say i'm a boring fuck, egoistical, looser. I don't think so, i do sport, read, /biz. I cannot see those normies anymore. They are useless, unreliable, have bad taste in music (latino music), don't read, and most annoyingly, , they think they do you an immense favor by letting you in their 2 bedroom flat for their little shit parties. LIke it's VIP reserved. Like it's a splendid castle, and that you have a chance to be invited, and should be grateful. Fuck them.

>> No.20127632

>>20115630
Based, just like me

>> No.20127663

Finally a thread I can relate to and not some curry eating cunt shilling Haircomb or some scam shite

>> No.20127696

>>20126768
You are 12 or severely underdeveloped

>>20127508
>replying to above poster in all seriousness
Why did you do that?

>> No.20127715

>>20116018
>he fell for the asian gf meme
you deserve it, honestly. There is nothing I more than seeing some pasty balding IT guy looking smug because he has some fugly chink on his arm who acts like a psychopathic 8 year old girl.

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>>20116018
your son will look like this

>> No.20127755

>>20120549
Well you can socialize by doing sport, or with the family.
These normies are not worth shit, and in case of a real dramatic crisis, they most likely would drag you down, and it's mostly you that would have to sacrifice yourself for their sake. They don't have any do it yourself skill, they cannot hunt, cannot fish, cannot farm, live in small citycuck appartments, work in worthless tertiary sector jobs. They are worthless. Now, if you befriend the autonomous farmer with whom you go hunting, that's a valuable friend. But those citycuck service workers are worthless.

>> No.20127799

>>20118277
hm if only there was a way to contact you outside here. maybe m-f ~730a-430p in #4chan on rizon irc? look for user boojahideen. I know a lot about public employees retirement law in ca and can try to help you make a more informed decision about government employment. hopefully you took the "exams" to place on a list before sending out the apps?

>>20118217
they're girls, not sure who elliot rodger is, but I'll be damned if I raise some sjw who thinks protesting on i5 is a good idea.

>>20120621
the white women in and around the sacramento metro area who would be worth marrying are very few and far between. for a good one I'd imagine needing to go fishing in the state of jefferson up north or somewhere in the midwest. small town girls have a particular charm and sensibility regardless of their country of origin. then if to consider my age range, damn. american gals just don't fit the bill.

>>20127715
I didn't fall for any asian gf meme. i was trying to get with her room mate, a spicy spanish fly who was in some upper div classes with me. she passed me off, basically. as i said, wasn't interested at the time. the girl asked if I wanted to take a dance class at the experimental university, figured what the hell wouldn't hurt to learn ballroom.. that's how it started. im not pasty or balding. my wife isn't ugly, chink looking, and kazakhs certainly don't act like children. especially if they remember being in the young pioneer program. as previously mentioned, this was the appeal.

>>20127752
if only I had a son lol. looks familiar tho.. like the son of a coworker I had.

>> No.20127841

>>20127799
Dude you’re new aren’t ya

>> No.20127917

>>20115658
>Nothin wrong with that

The problem is some people have no limit regarding this behavior. Their worldview is that everyone is an asshole/evil/exploiter, so it's their right to exploit other people too, and they do it to an extreme degree. When called out, they play the victim card.

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>>20123364
Anon, he's right. Be patient with people because everyone is dumb to an extent and most certainly be careful with 4chan, some of these boards will give you the wrong mindset if you are not discerning.

>> No.20128164

>>20120038
USSR was bolshevism. It was state Capitalism. Still, i have a few good friend from there, and usually they are more sympathetic and reliable than the average westerner.
>>20120528
Hubris.

>> No.20128217

>>20126336
Do you even read what op writes you dopamine monkey

>> No.20128277

>>20128095
I used to browse pol a lot back in college. Realized it's most likely a coordinated psyop to blackpill and demoralize you. I really only browse this board because it's genuinely pretty decent. I loved crypto before I found it, so finding it was a real gem. I always assumed it was a literal "business and finance" board in the sense you guys strategized about and discussed your business or something. Don't know why I thought that, but I've stayed here for the last two years. Very rarely ever go to pol anymore. Place fucking sucks. It's trump dick suckers talking about Q anon, people talking about how the west is dead, and people posting nigger dick threads. It sucks now

>> No.20128513

>>20115630
>muh friends
Did you just graduate high school or something? Real life isn't like sitcoms or TV shows - friends are just people that you grow to like from spending time together, usually because you HAVE to. The main reason that you form "friends" in the K12 school system is just because you have nothing better to do. Once you graduate and that common experience is gone the last "second chance" you have to make friends is in your early years of college. After that, you're an adult, and adults do not have friends. We have colleagues and networks and dates but we do not have friends. Everyone on the "normal path" of society will be too preoccupied with their work and dating, later on this will switch to being too preoccupied with their career and building on their family legacy. If you're a dead-end loser in some dead-end job/neighborhood your development will be arrested and you might grow attached to your colleagues but such relationships are transient and eventually they will move on or go away or simply start talking to you less and less until eventually you realize you don't know them at all. If you managed to make friends before your mid 20's and then managed to keep in touch eventually you will grow further and further apart and be preoccupied with family & work, and eventually you will be nothing but a faint memory for them and them for you. In the end, we all live alone, and die alone, with relationships being nothing more than a series of temporary blips in this solitary journey; necessary, but ultimately brief, meaningless, and ephemeral.

Do with this information what you will.

>> No.20128632

>>20128513
Globally true, but still limited to the citycucks service industry workers.

>> No.20128732

>>20128513
Do you happen to live in an urban area? I've found people in large cities tend to follow this line of thinking.

>> No.20128761

>>20128513
despicable mentality
but reality for normies living in the USA

this is NOT reality for most of the world today or most of the world in history

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>>20115630
Demoralization thread.

>> No.20129163

>>20128761
>this is NOT reality for most of the world today or most of the world in history
Aww. It's nice that you care about your friends kiddo. Honestly, it's probably better for you to believe and cope - it simply makes life easier. Enjoy it and have a good time - once you hit your late 20s and your 30s see how many "friends" you have, see if you are alone or not.

>> No.20129459

>>20129163
can you read
i think your mentality is historically despicable but normal for the usa
what part do you think i got wrong
why do you normies always turn everything into some nasty competition when im just noticing how things work

>> No.20129512

>>20128513
i think this is true a couple decades ago. young people now are not building families or settling down at nearly the same rate as their parents. thus there will be way more young people mingling and doing things.

i would even say its easier now to make friends because of this lack of settling down.

>> No.20129626

>>20115630
Probably a lil depressed, nothing a little prozac and exercise can't fix, fix it before it gets too much. I no longer remember happiness.