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>4 kids
So you don't "just want to make it so I can spend every waking moment with my wife" - you want more than that

>>19763382
Dont know if I should be jealous or contemptuous of men like this. I can't stand being around 90% of the women I've ever met

>>19763420
We want kids, yeah. I love her so much it hurts though

>>19763485
Don't get me wrong...we have our share of arguments and such. But I just find her so adorable. I want to squeeze her

Pjeet reporting

> we will take care of your while you are gone
> she will get a dick. Like promised
> her arsehole will be streched wide open
> her tits will be exposed everyday

you just focus on making money

>>19763485
LOL this, especially at night

>>19763485
This. If you’re not a delusional pushover and you actually deeply care for this woman OP, hold onto her as tightly as you can

>>19763640
how long have you known her? I want this too with my girlfriend of 1 year but I'm afraid, never dated anyone before.

>>19763382
Life is so good since my waifu stopped working. She's so much happier and less stressed
I work from home so we're always together
It's great
Hope you make it too bro

How do you have sex? Is it weird?
I’m getting married this weekend and I’m worried the sex is going to be weird since we’ve basically been together forever but never had sex. I have been jacking off since I was 13 though.

>>19763382
you need to be redpilled by patrice o'neal before she leaves you for being a needy bitch
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6KzCfIYArmQ

>>19765558
it'll be good boyo

>>19763382
oh great just what another female wants in her life an overly clingy effeminate male to spend every waking moment with. you do realize by doing that anon you'll cause the end of the marriage cuz she'll get sick of being around your obviously effemenate clingy beta ass all the time and feel smothered but hey you cling to your little hollywood twu wuv retardity and we'll all be reading your muh wife left me killing myself post on r9k later

>>19763382
It’s funny how you’ll end up squandering all of your money away. She’ll question what kind of worthless man she married and divorce you. You'll see her later dating some guy that invested in Ford.

You fucking failure.

>>19763382
How does this sound gay as fuck?

>>19765724
because op is a overly clingy effemeninate male and thus he comes off as a massive queerboi

>>19763382
>thinking you can make a few million in crypto
>thinking you can raise 4 fucking kids on crypto
dude, please, get a vasectomy right away.

>>19764998
>pajeet
>ass hole getting stretched

Wasn't India the one they found with an average cock size of around 3 inches beaten only by the chinks with 3.2" or some shit?

>>19763382
4 kids? suburbs? If you're not a weak faggot just get some acreage and chickens, hoofed livestock, etc. and you'll get her on having cute animals everywhere to take care of. If you are a weak faggot just kys now and save yourself the heartache.

>>19765558
oh YIKES woah lol. sex can take a bit to be good, hopefully your death grip hasn't ruined your ability to enjoy it, porn can ruin you psychologically to not be as aroused, hopefully she gets you going enough to even have a good time

>>19765790
They used their hands... Remember laura logan? They double fisted her holes for an hour.

>>19765663
this is totally possible but it could be likely his gf is also just as codepedent on him, quite cringy indeed but some people just live like that

>>19763382
Post pic of wife. Backside or whatevs

>>19765558
I guarantee you won't be able to get it up. Your wedding night will be plagued by limp dick

>>19765905
This.

>>19765906
that or it will feel like a hotdog being thrown down a hallway

I just want a wife.

>>19765973
Seriously this.
>>19763382
You don't even realize how lucky you are to feel so strongly about someone. I'm 30, and beyond jaded by everything. I'd love to fall in love again, meet an incredible girl that will be my wife, but I also know that part of me is dead. The only thing left is a shell of a man that wants to make as much money as possible.

>>19766028
Maybe your linkchain will love you?

>>19766236
You say that like it means I'll love them back

>>19763382
>>19763640
Reading this is so wholesome, I almost forgot what it's like to be this in love with a woman

>>19766270
I say it like it means that you invest your time and money into not a single thing that would attract a woman...
i may be broke, but Ive got a set of warm tits waiting in my bed.

>>19763382
Faggot

>>19766292
Wow, you're a presumptive faggot now aren't you? I distinctly pointed out I'm 30, and jaded; I've had several relationships that were 'the one' that have ended for one reason or another, mostly horribly. I have a fantastic career, and do well especially for no degree, live in downtown Columbus a mile away from OSU. All I have to do is walk into a bar near my apartment and there are tits dying to get into an older but not old responsible 6'4 mans bed. None of which implies I'm at all capable of having feelings for another woman again. Also, I have a total of 300 chainlink, enough for a healthy sum if it hits 1k. I'm an options degenerate from /smg, that's how off the mark you were.

>>19766280
>I almost forgot what it's like to be this in love with a woman
I'll let you in on a little secret. After a number of years she turns into a time sink, a gains goblin (physical & mental), and an emotional vampire. It doesn't matter how strong your love is in the first years of a relationship, this is the reality of what happens when you spend so much time with one person. The only worthy reason to stay with a woman is to raise children.

test

>>19763382
All in VRA. Hold 3 years / staking until you're 30. You either hit 100x on the way or crypto dies. Worth the risk.

>>19766383
How fucking delusional are you. Look faggot, you think that you could
Just waltz into some snake pit and walk out with pussy on your arm yet you are alone. You are a failure who is too scared to get a woman.

Enjoy that cold bed, and wash your sheets you fuckin slob ass bitch.

>>19766427
Snake pit? Sure, if by snake pit you mean upscale bar in the German Village, yeah, I know I can. Here's my only post-lockdown hookup, not my proudest moment but was locked out of the bar scene for too long. This weekend will be about quality.

>>19766465
Nice larp faggot. #foreveralone

>>19766516
If I was larping, I'd use a way hotter chicks pics.

>>19766571
That’s a man.

>>19763382
I hope your dreams come soon true anon. I hope you can spend every moment with her and not have to worry about any of the bullshit in this world. :3

>>19765625
Based. If he had crypto it would be FUND.

My gf told me that this is her desire

>>19763382
>I literally get separation anxiety at work
>We want kids, yeah. I love her so much it hurts though
>But I just find her so adorable. I want to squeeze her
Listen man, I'm not gonna shit on your parade because I can see you're in that infatuated as fuck phase, sounding gay as fuck, and I can only imagine you killing yourself once/if your dreams get crushed, but what I have to tell you right is don't you EVER fucking tell her those things you just typed in this thread. To her or to ANY woman.

>>19767352
You are the biz meme son. You fell for the all women are whores meme cultivated by incels whose only contact with women is porn. The majority of women are reasonable people who want a lasting marriage. Or at least there are enough of them to find them if you aren't looking on tinder

>>19763382
No advice from me but i hope you get to spend time with your wife

>>19767416
>not being aware of the mind game power dynamic between spouses
>not realizing this power game isn't just played by a few fucked up nutcases, but played subconsiously by avg people

>>19763382
>I literally get separation anxiety at work
Kek, if she leaves you and she probably will because she'll get tired of your shit eventually are you gonna kill yourself?

>>19763640
>we have our share of arguments
Oh no no no it has already started.
They're gonna get worse and worse until she leaves and you blow your brains out. See you on r9k, love it when a normalfag gets what he fucking deserves

>>19767416
"Son", you are fucking retarded. Nothing of what I said suggests I think that there are no quality women out there. In fact, I think that the women that are actual human trash are few.
What I'm trying to tell to THAT anon in particular, is that if he keeps this shit up, he WILL lose his woman. The kind of behavior that he exudes is extremely unattractive to women, and I hope that it's some shit that he comes to spout on 4chan, and that he isn't all "I can't breathe without you" in real life with his woman, because she might find it endearing for a while, but there will come a time where she will hate his fucking guts and the question of "Why am I with this fucking pussy?" will constantly be in her mind.
This is what women do, subconsciously and not maliciously. They bitch you the fuck up, just as she has done with this dude, as we can see here.
And in general, there's no such thing as unconditional love. Let's see how attracted and loving he's going to be to her if she pumps out 3 kids and becomes a fat mess because you can absolutely tell from 2 fucking posts of his that he doesn't hold her accountable for shit.

I too wish to leave this fake and gay world OP. When Link moons I'm buying a house and land away from urban centres, already learning how to be self sufficient as a wagie. Going to take my gf there, marry her and start a big family.

>>19765217
Just don't be blind to her flaws, and make sure she isn't lying to you

>>19763485
Jealous Tbh. If you csn still stand 10% of them it's good odds, better then me and I'm with my dream girl, 99%of girls today are just subhuman and i genuinely wish the worst on them. 1% are angels and make their mens' lifes better

Good luck OP I truly hope this doesn't blow up in your face but if you never command power over her to some degree it likely will. You can't let the adorableness allow her to get away with bullshit. It sounds like she is molding you to her frame when it should be the other way around.

Now I don't want to be a dick or anything but it looks like you're all fucked up since you talk like a fag and your shit's all retarded.

Godspeed

OP I truly hope this doesn't blow up in your face but if you never command power over her to some degree it likely will. You can't let the adorableness allow her to get away with bullshit. It sounds like she is molding you to her frame when it should be the other way around.

Now I don't want to be a dick or anything but it looks like you're all fucked up since you talk like a fag and your shit's all retarded.

Godspeed

>>19768733
>>19768733
>>19768745

Weird first time said it didn't post

>>19765558
Don't worry. She'll walk you through it. She's had plenty of practice

>>19765004
That’s when your dick should be in her

>>19763382
Simp

>>19765873
that was egypt

>>19765217
OP here. We met 7 years ago. Got married 2 years ago. She was my first girlfriend too. We knew in a matter of months that we were soulmates and would be getting married. When you know, you know.

>>19763382
>>19763640
I'm so fucking jealous. This was me with the only gf I ever had. I wanted to be with her every waking second, not talking for a day hurt so much.

I'm also 27 but now I have no chance of finding someone else. I'm ok on everything else in life, but it's impossible to find another girl to love me like she did.

>>19765858
She's down to live on a farm actually. She has always wanted a pony. I'm kind of weak though, yeah. I don't know if I can butcher chickens and stuff.

>>19765558
The porn addiction might be an issue. Porn gave me psychogenic ED. If you love her and can fully relax though, it shouldn't be a problem. Just take it slow and don't feel pressured.

>>19765878
Yeah, this is correct. We are both very co-dependent, so it is a match made in heaven.

>>19765905
N-no

>>19766593
Thank you :)

>>19767438
Thank you :)

>>19768733
Thank you. We have both molded each her to an extent. I have redpilled her quite a bit.

>>19769646
what happened between u 2 fren?

>>19769706
We were young and immature. I was very controlling and she was depressed because she couldn't get into the universities she wanted, and thought we were holding eachother back. She was right, in hindsight, it was probably the best choice in practical terms, but I still haven't loved anyone else, or been loved back since. I was 23 and she was 18, this was 4 years ago and I still don't know what the fuck I'm doing regarding relationships. I've studied abroad, worked in multiple countries, have good money, now I live near the beach, but still alone since then.

>>19766325
Only good post in the thread

>>19767416
>You fell for the all women are whores meme cultivated by incels whose only contact with women is porn.
This

>>19770219
Daily reminder that ((((they)))) want white men to have women.

fucking kill yourself

>>19770219
>>19767416
Yep. Daily reminder that ((((they)))) want white men to hate women.

>>19770219
They already start showing porn in school nowadays though. You're out of the loop, Anon. Yes, there are many more virgins the same way there are more disgusting sluts as fallout of this anti-social degeneracy. But you're underestimating the rapid pace at which all this advances.

>>19765021
literally this

>>19765021
>>19770682
Thanks, bros. I will. I goddamn will.

>>19769518
Is there a substantial difference between cultures.

I've read all this thread, and I'm also 31 and jaded like the anon above

>>19766028

It just never seems to work out. I try to be a good respectable guy, but I guess I'm always meeting the wrong women or searching in the wrong places.

Honestly OP, in some ways, yes you do come off as a little bit of a beta that may possibly be cucked and divorce raped. As long as you don't lose yourself, and always respect yourself, you should be fine. Sure, some people can say that, as you seem to exude the attributes that women seem to inevitably loathe after time.

But I've also seen relationships where two people have been in love forever, and seem to continue with it. These have been couples from college, and they seem to still be going. Obviously that's not me.

The only thing I can say is fuck it, do what makes you feel right. It's one life, don't live it worrying about the future. Good for you man. I think we secretly want what you have. So just enjoy it and live it up.

Anyways, I'm going with the wholesome side. Good for you man, enjoy it.

>>19763382
>How much money is needed to live a comfortable middle class life and raise 4 kiddos in suburban America? We're 27.
>>19763382
>I just want to make it so I can spend every waking moment with my wife
Well what is it? Do you want to spend time with your wife, or do you want to be comfortable middle class? Which do you want more? Because you can literally quit your job today and spend all the time in the world with your wife. But that's not really what you want, is it?

>>19767596
Sorry incel but there's no such thing as an argument-free relationship.
Or if you've actually never had an argument with your s/o, that means you have zero (0) passion with each other.

>>19765305
>Life is so good since my waifu stopped working. She's so much happier and less stressed
Sigh. This was my wife for about a month. Then she started getting pissy about everything else in life.
>Wife always pissed off at everything
>Blames work
>Tell her to quit
>She quits
>Is happy for a month or 2
>Starts to get fucking pissy at TV shows, her family, me, working women, stigma of being a housewife
>I realise she's just a cold, bitter cunt
We've decided to separate. I'm moving out in a week or 2 once I've found an apartment. Good luck with your lives people..

this thread makes me depressed

>>19768745
kek
Listen to this anon, OP
"theredpill" womanizing shit is mostly pathetic, but it's true that you need to be the one with the pants, who makes decisions. My relationship of four years almost ended recently because I was letting my gf push me around and it was making me miserable. I moved to the shithole san francisco of all places because she wouldn't move to where I live (portland). I put my foot down and she's moving here now and we're buying a house soon and are both much happier.
Just one example but often girls don't know what it is they actually want

>>19763382
fuck you you're so fucking lucky fren

>>19769559
I'm really, really jealous. I'm 27 and never had a single relationship where the feelings were mutual, only time I ever felt "love" for a girl was in my teenage years, I haven't felt much but lust at best for women in my 20s. At this point the only thing that makes me feel anything close to what I felt when I was a teenager are some scenes in movies or anime (yeah yeah cringe I know). I don't know if I have ridiculously high expectations or if I've just been unlucky but recently I honestly started thinking I might be alone for the rest of my life even though being in a relationship is one of the things I want the most.

>>19772197
>she wouldn't move to where I live (portland). I put my foot down and she's moving here now and we're buying a house soon and are both much happier
How do you figure, you fucking idiot? She doesn't want to move there, but agreed to because she had a choice between that or ending the relationship. She'll resent you for the entire time. My uncle did the same thing and it took 15 years of marriage, but his wife eventually won and now he's in bumfuck Virginia. How the fuck do you figure you're 'both' happier? The naivety

>>19763382

> retiring both of us
> both of us
> 2020

cuck

>>19772257
You're making a lot of assumptions there, anon.
She begged to move to san francisco, because some of her friends are there. I told her how awful it would be, I at least asked that we lived somewhere in the bay outside of SF.
Despite us making good money, all we could afford was a cramped 600 square foot 1 bedroom in a shitty neighborhood. It was $2600/mo. The barber I frequented had a shooting a few months before we moved there where multiple people died. She hated being in our neighborhood and often didn't leave the apartment for a week at a time because she can work remote if she wants.

She loves portland, she was just being stubborn and said it wasn't fair that we lived where I grew up - even though she was fine with me uprooting my life to move where she had friends and family, and I had none.
SF is a shithole and she realizes that now and also realizes she was pulling a massive double standard. I just didn't put my foot down when I should have and as a result of that we were both miserable for the year we lived there.

Girls often don't know what they want and need the man to make decisions. It isn't sexist to say that. They're just more emotionally driven creatures than we are.

>How do you figure, you fucking idiot
and calm down dude jesus christ, take a fucking xanax

>>19768437
I see what you're saying here, and some if it is on the right track, girls fully commit to the womb memes

but there isnt a set 'attractive behaviour' mould. yep they dig leadership traits, generally speaking.
yep they dig provider traits, generally speaking.
etc, you know the list

there is more to the 'we just click' shit than you may think. its matching attachment levels, which is veeeery important, ask literally any shrink. more needy than her and she will feel smothered, less needy and she'll feel unstable. both cases make other option appealing.

you may have read a internet dude attract grrls blog or two

but uh...

you realise those guy all have incredible dismissive attachment disorder vibes right?

i'm going to fuck OP's wife and teach him a lesson in not being a pussy.

>>19772478
>afford was a cramped 600 square foot 1 bedroom in a shitty neighborhood. It was $2600/mo


Jesus Christ

>>19772478
Portland, SF, I get some bad leftard vibes. Good luck cuck