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>Never taught me anything
>Never complimented me for anything
>He was around in the house, but was still invisible.
>Didn't care I graduated masters in finance and passed CFA I
>Still demands investing advice from me while at the same time claiming he knows more than me.
> When he does address things I have accomplished he just says I inherited it from him.
>Have way more money than him then when he was my age (25).
>I still shilled him Link at 15 cents.

It's honestly heartbreaking to see the relationships my friends have with their father, being supportive and cheerful while at the same time being disciplined. Inb4 people say he gave you a roof over your head.

>> No.16549042

>>16549001
he gave you a roof over your head

>> No.16549053

he gave you a roof over your head.

>> No.16549087

>>16549001
He gave you a roof over your head

>> No.16549089

>>16549001
he gave you a roof over your head.

>> No.16549103

>>16549001
he gave you a roof over your head

>> No.16549137

he gave you a roof over your head.

>> No.16549151

>>16549001
Just remember to be a better father for your kids than your father was for you.

Also he gave you a roof over your head

>> No.16549157

>>16549001
Mine left me with a mentally I'll mother and walked out when I was 2.

It's a pretty bad relationship

>> No.16549167

>>16549042
>>16549053
>>16549087
>>16549089
>>16549103
>>16549137

This is all boomer advice, none of this actually matters

From an evolutionary standpoint, the number one responsibility of parents should be to ensure that their children have sexual/reproductive success. Otherwise their genetic line is over. If your parents try to cockblock you or surpress your sexuality, like my parents did, it fucks you up in the head.

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16549192

>>16549167
Okay zoom zoom.

>> No.16549201

>>16549157
Anon... he gave you a girlfriend.

>> No.16549211

>>16549001
Previous comment did not post under the sea of 'roof over head' comments.

Put bluntly, you need to move out the house.

Parents will never take risks because they have effectively sacrificed a desire to take risks to raise you. Hence why they try and claim your success as the success they earned or contributed to.

Your best option is becoming rich and then if you still care towards your family, treat them to a holiday or a nice retirement home or something.

>> No.16549354

>>16549001
>>Still demands investing advice from me while at the same time claiming he knows more than me.

Sounds like he values your education and your accomplishment in your field as he trusts you enough to consult with you.

But sorry man. If it helps, my dad is on the flipside of complimenting me too much so I have a shot esteem where I don't feel like I'm smart enough around anyone.

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16549445

>>16549167
And how did they cockblock or suppress you? Sounds like you're blaming other people for being beta.

>> No.16549460

>>16549001
get the belt?

>> No.16549495

>>16549001
You sound like a little bitch. No wonder he doesn’t show you respect. You don’t deserve any.

>> No.16549720 [DELETED] 

>>16549445
>religion

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16549792

>>16549001
>strong men create good times, good times create weak men, weak men create hard times

Boomers are indisputably the weakest generation in human history. My dad meant well but was a beta that caved to women’s demands and got divorced and tried to make me follow his sports ball dreams yet never really taught me anything valuable about women, the world, being happy etc. I had to find out on my own, question is OP are you going to sit around like a victim or lift yourself from the ashes and create a world you would want to raise a kid in?

>> No.16549949

>>16549001
I know how it feels to be treated better by friends parents than your own. Even complete strangers are more welcoming and honest.
Father's are supposed to teach you honor.
They are not supposed to introduce you to feeling shame out of association.

>> No.16549957

>>16549001
>king of the pity party

>> No.16550044

>>16549792
Holy shit, are you me? My dad did exactly the same thing except he pushed swimming on me.

Also my dad is weak as fuck. My mom has always been crazy. When i was 5 she borderline kidnapped me and moved to the other end of the country and my dad didnt press charges because he hates conflicts. The other time the weak man failed me, was when i lived in his house at thirteen and his new wife started groping me. I told cps and my dad after it had happened several times, but he believed her over me, and he made the cps dissappear with horseshit excuses. Other than those two massive failures he is a good but weak man trying his best.
> also my two sisters that grew up in the house with him and his wife have severe mental illnesses

>> No.16550114

>>16549167
My parents would go through my messages and tell me I didn't know what love is and I cant see these chicks blah blah blah. I was 13. Haven't loved since lol

>> No.16550237

>>16549001
your whole greentext applies to me aswell.
but i managed to steal 5 figures from him without him knowing it. would inherit it anyway....

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>>16549001
Those are all his fault and his problems. Imagine neglecting your family because you're too weak and pathetic to face them? Don't you understand how much of a loser he feels like and is? A CFA is kinda a big deal. He probably doesn't like being around you because it makes him feel so inferior.

>> No.16550301

>>16550237

man dont do that shit

>> No.16550365

i hated my dad for beating my mom, being a drunk, not paying attention to his kids.

the only thing of value i took from my father was one piece of advice.

'don't ever depend on anyone but yourself, not even me."

best advice ever....i live by that and i've done pretty good. don't overthink it he probably had his own personal demons he was dealing with. give him a break. when you become a father you'll know and maybe you'll forgive him.

i still love my dad.

>> No.16550376

>>16549201
Please delete this comment it’s disgusting. Moderators please delete this.

>> No.16550406

He gave you a four over your head.

>> No.16550465

>>16549001

he gave you a roof over your head

>> No.16550527

>>16549001
>when i was a todler the highlight of the day was hugging him when he got home
>wasnt the same football(soccer) team as him so he never explained soccer to me
>started travelling for work when i was in primary school
>from like 9 upwords he was as much away as he was home
>when he was home he never shared anything with us
>when i was 15 he left me, my brother and my mom alone, when she hasnt worked in years to take care of us
>literally was skinny from not eating that much
>he came back and left again when i was 18
>he and I have completely different world views, i hate him for what he did to our family, yet i still hang out with him just to feel like i have a male role model

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>>16550527
Do yourself a favor and reason by first principles for any of your acts. You don't need a role model if you have the right philosophy and knowledge. Don't kid yourself, you need it read some stoicism or Plato or some good shit and learn how to act from people who actually thought about it

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>>16550044
Many of us share the same story my man, pathetically weak boomers completely pussy whipped that let (((society))) raise us because they were too busy being bugmen zoning out to television instead of being involved in their kids lives left us to the wolves to fend for ourselves. My dad got cucked by my mom and is currently getting cucked by my step mom but is either willingly ignoring it or he’s really that clueless. I try not to be bitter about it, my dad is a good man at heart but damn near an NPC. We could have been the same way had we not had the internet to help us step outside of the (((cave))). We won’t make the same mistakes, we will rise above it and make sure the young men of tomorrow aren’t as misled as we were. Mind, body and spirit anon. I pray crypto gives us the resources to turn this clown world around.

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>>16550613
saved

>> No.16550667

When I turned 39 I realised that, even though I had achieved little in terms of career prospects, relationships or family, at least I wasn't someone who would smack a little kid around.

I don't talk to my father, I don't think about him, or care about him. When he dies, I will not go to the funeral.

>> No.16550690

>>16550667
Ok boomer

>> No.16550704

>>16550667
Maybe its my egotism kicking in but wouldn't it be far superior to help at his funeral and show that you're a better man? It would seem sour if otherwise on the outside too.
In my case I anticipating helping at the funeral a lot and admit and be honest that I have a responsibility to take care of my family even if my father was not good, he may have been very ordinary and underwhelming and decent, not good, but I'll still take the burden. Theres more honor in it

>> No.16550705

>>16550613
>We could have been the same way had we not had the internet to help us step outside of the (((cave))). We won’t make the same mistakes, we will rise above it and make sure the young men of tomorrow aren’t as misled as we were. Mind, body and spirit anon. I pray crypto gives us the resources to turn this clown world around.
My thoughts exactly. Cheers, my friend. I'm in this with you.

>> No.16550741

>>16549001
Bro I am on some next level shit where our family dissolved, sister ended up being adopted, and I pulled myself out of poverty and homelessness with a full ride, then did crazy shit by investigating and reporting a criminal ring, and both parents still just think I’m an entitled douchebag schizo (literally).

Really couldn’t be more ballsed in this moment.

Like Imma vent real quick.

I have straight up manipulated psychopaths into offering me a position as a pimp and usually just live in terror that balance out by being wholesome and supportive. Home got invaded, bike got stolen, life was threatened by strangers on multiple occasions, asked for a favor and they were disgusted by me.

If somebody came by and broke my knees with a hammer they still probs just tell me I’m an idiot.

Smh senpai at least I have a gf

>> No.16550753

>>16550741
*and balance that out

>> No.16550801

>>16550704
I knew a lot of people who’ve buried their father and didn’t shed a tear, then never thought about them again, very successful older men who have families, businesses, and genuinely love people.

Shit just happens like that senpai.

>> No.16550826

>accomplish nothing
>dad still says he loves me
>still says he's proud of me

Idk how to feel

>> No.16550885

>>16550741
You are nigger

>> No.16550890

>>16549001
test

>> No.16550894

>>16550885
Help

>> No.16550914

>>16550376
Want to die?

>> No.16550973

You are able to be a better man than he ever was. You read the horrible stories posted on here, and you can feel the hurt. Yeah, people lie on 4chan, but I’ve been here so long the stories are always continuously similar throughout the decade I’ve been here. Most of them are true, and some are half truths that people still can’t talk about because it hits a nerve to deep even on an anonymous image board. You have the greatest resource to make it as a father than he ever did - the internet.

>> No.16551013

>>16550973
>le internet will solve your problems

Thank god for my link stack

>> No.16551035

>>16551013
When you’re a brainlet your only hope is for crypto to make it so you don’t have too.

>> No.16551083

My dad tried to dissuade me from find a PhD in stem, telling me I would never amount to anything. Now I make more on a year then he does in 10 years so he has shut up.

>> No.16551106

>>16551035
>full ride
>consultant
>sponsored

Ight senpai

>> No.16551123

>>16551083
Just as keikaku

>> No.16551130

>>16551106
Tell me again in 10 years zoomer.

>> No.16551131

>>16549001
He gave you a roof over your head and enough food and care for you to grow up to be a blogposting faggot. Maybe he should have abandoned you in a dumpster

>> No.16551169

>>16549001
I have the same relationship. He's very damaged goods, probably blames you for the relationship breakdown he had with your mother (presume?).

Best thing to do is to accept that he is the way he is and thats your card. Move on and leave him behind or put up with it.

>> No.16551173

>>16551130
In ten years
>access to accnts
>phd (fast tracked and mentored)
>unleashed

>> No.16551233

>>16551173
You need to go through the ten years first before you get your cookie anon.

>> No.16551250

>>16549201
Kys

>> No.16551412

>>16549151
except OP probably wont have kids because his dad never taught him how to get a woman

>> No.16551691

>>16549001
>Inb4 people say he gave you a roof over your head.
People that say this are retarded. That was his fucking job when he choose to have a child. If what you wrote is true anon, I'd ghost him.