/biz/ - Business & Finance

>>16384402
Stop watching porn and do 3 days of nofap before fucking a girl next time

>>16384402
>What’s the point in making it in business or crypto if you can’t have love?
gives you more power to project your will and ideals onto the world

Viagra

All you had to do was not look at porn, anon. Now, because of your lack of impulse control, your entire lineage is at its end. Everything your ancestors did... it's all for naught now.

Jesus dude. Just lay off th porn for a few days and try again. If she's actually into you she'll let it slide. Fucking over dramatic faggot. It's not even school holidays yet. Sheesh.

Also remember that post 30 your sex drives gets crushed.

>>16384423
viagra doesnt help if problem is in the head

>>16384402
Stop watching porn and take viagra the first few times you fuck her to get your confidence back. That simple.
>>16384426
Your ancestors are all dead they dgaf what you do

>>16384402
It might be more complicated than the porn.. why did you look at porn so much in the first place.. I'll wager that mommy didn't love ya?

>>16384458
your ancestors live inside your cells

>>16384452
this is sadly true, been there and dealt with it, er, dealing with it

>>16384452
Why do you assume the problem is in the head here? It clearly isn't

>>16384473
Including the hand cells that I jerk off with?

>>16384477
how did you recover?

unironically stop fapping coomer

>>16384485
because porn addiction fucks up your head, not the dick, it reprograms you sexually.

just do nofap for month, drink zinc daily, and pushups daily till youre exhausted. after a month youll be like new.

>>16384492
Yes, and the cells you discharge into a dirty sock

>>16384485
most of the time it's in the head.

>>16384493
see
>>16384503

>>16384503
you did that?

>>16384493
i didn't fully. i was trying to get in a relationship with the wrong woman, anxiety, porn, a whole mess of things. i told her the truth about all of it (minus the porn) and she said i can have another chance soon. i'm talking to another one that i seem to mesh with much better, and wondering if that will help the problem go away.

>>16384503
Porn ruins dopamine receptors, something entirely biological. Was a porn addict and I know as a fact that what OP describes isn't a "head problem".

But keep blabbering about shit you know nothing about.

>>16384402
>Letting porn destroy your ability to pair bond
(((They))) got you

>>16384522
yes

>>16384508
>source: my ass

>>16384530
so.. are you healed now? if so, how?

>>16384524
Just think about the guy(s) railing her while she waits for your limp dick. Gets me rock hard.

Remainder All advice about relationship/sex are rife with ill-meaning normalfags in a similar manner all of biz is full of bad investment pajeet advice designed to wreck you.

>>16384532
unironically this

they kill white race by giving men porn and pump and dump tinder chads for women, it does same thing to their heads. its fucking gnarly, we need brave loud voices who can take this issue mainstream

>>16384402
i lost a golden opportunity months ago with this chick i was chasing forever. Probably because of the same reason you guys are talking about.. thats why im interested.. Currently losing weight and exercising now, maybe i'll try to cut the porn lol

>>16384426
>wow, I'm so terrified, I better make more taxpayers/donation generators for the church just like the government and church told me. otherwise when I'm dead I might regret this.

>>16384558
shut the fuck up if you are not willing to help faggot

>>16384530
>dopamine receptors
...which are in the head...

and it fucks up way more things than dopamine brother...

>>16384579
yep. the "psychological aspects" are rarely an issue and most of the time can be fixed by going to a "happy ending" massage parlor to get rid of your anxiety of naked females

>>16384402
It's not your fault anon, Your dick decides if you actually like a girl or not. Next time, pop a viagra or just don't have sex. When you really think a woman is attractive and you feel comfortable with her, You will pop a boner instantly.

>>16384465
i'm on one the anons posting in thread already but what do you mean by this? i have never gotten along well with mom : ( is this why im deep on the porn and other mental woes

>>16384560
>they kill white race by giving men porn and pump and dump tinder chads for women
So you're telling me men with weak genes don't get to impregnate women now? Only chads? Hopefully you can see why the opposite of what end end result you claim will happen. Fucking idiot.

>>16384589
you know yourself it doesnt work like that, civilization needs monogamy and family, chad harems dont last long...

>>16384419
Based rare enlightened anon who understands wealth. You will make it.

>>16384589
Enjoy your violent beta rebellion - exactly what happens in nature in species that have harems.

>>16384602
>chad harems dont last long...
Genghis Khan did a pretty decent job.

>>16384583
this, i've been with hot women where my dick didn't work and chubsters that made me diamonds

it's probably pheromonal/subvocal/nonverbal communication stuff

as for porn abuse and shit, none of that shit has an scientific backing - what does have scientific backing is psychological addiction research, which is what most porn addicts are going through. It's not porn specifically, it's the repetition of a single, tight risk-reward loop with consistent results that fucks with your expectations in reality and ability to exercise adequate motivation or patience.

>>16384583
boomer the post

>>16384439
My sex drive is higher now than when I was in my teens/20s

>>16384627
>i've been with hot women where my dick didn't work and chubsters that made me diamonds


thats because your self esteem is equivalent of fat ugly whore

>>16384626
fuck off nerd

>>16384402
bro, your dick is smarter than you are. if he doesn't like her, there's a reason. RUN

>>16384589
Chads don’t impregnate women or form families. They just have sex and pump and dump. Evolution kills off chads children because there’s no way for them to survive with a single mother.

>>16384402
Buy a bottle of tadalafil from rasa research. It’ll give you a nice hard boner, no matter what. Also, jerk off way less. Probably part of it is anxiety more than anything else. I used to take an antidepressant which killed my boners. Even once I was off it, the fear of not being able to perform could ruin everything. My sex life currently the best it’s ever been. There’s hope bro.

>>16384402

How old is she?

>>16384643
no, i have been there too. things change when you actually like the grill

>>16384402
Maybe you‘re gay?

>>16384507
Nice. Just discharged 100k relatives.

>>16384402
It's ok, fren. Not all is lost. The first time I was going to bang my gf I could't get hard either. Nerves. We ended up just talking and making out some more. Now she's my wife and we've been together over 10 years.

Unless you started crying and apologizing about your dick or something. Then you're fucked and should just cash out enough crypto to buy an exit bag kit, because you'll never recover from that one.

I watched porn multiple times daily until i lost my virginity. and still watched porn while i was dating the girl and after. Only had a little trouble getting it up when drunk or wearing a condom. other than my dick always worked fine. Not watching porn is a meme, doesn't affect real sex at all.

>>16384780
top kek but also very true legit post. i'm glad you made it with your wife. i have had this problem fucking a few women the first time then it pretty much went away, glad i'm not alone. unfortunately i'm back to tfw no gf

>>16384585
It looks like it. Do a google search on mother issues and sex addiction.
Many things pop up.

>>16384780
>Unless you started crying and apologizing about your dick or something. Then you're fucked and should just cash out enough crypto to buy an exit bag kit, because you'll never recover from that one.

Not going to lie, that’s pretty much what I did. Didn’t cry but got near it. I was just so frustrated I fucked up again. Every relationship has been a failure and somehow I always fuck it up. For years I’ve just always fucked everything up. It’s all so tiresome.


I’m 30 and girl is 22 years old and in college.

Thanks for all the replies biz bros. Every single person has been helpful and I will save this thread and internalize a lot of it. Just finished binge eating at a diner where I filled myself up with as much carbs and sugar to mask the depression. Now currently taking a huge shit so I’m able to read all the replies.

>>16384780
Nice bro you got any kids now?

>>16384865
tfw also load up on carbs and sugar to try and mask the pain, but the hole you dig has only gotten deeper

>>16384439
it really does not, only if you are starting to have signs of early heart disease like OP has. calcification of arteries start to show early on if unhealthy lifestyle and bad genetics. penis veins are smallest thus show effect first

>>16384402
classic case of anxiety
this won't go away unless you talk about it or perform good at least once.

>>16384865
Damn 30 almost crying or losing your cool while naked is not the best position to bounce back from.
But it can be done i think.
I would apologize, not for the limp dick but for the uncomfortable situation and how you handled it not in a begging manner but matter of factly.
Then explain that you're going through some things but that you're ready to move on and preferably move on with her.

>>16384865
Also how did she take it OP?
Also had a limp dick on first night once. Turned out to be prostate infection related.
But the girl became totally insecure while i was like "bitch shut up who cares about you not being a 10/10, my fucking dick isn't working! There might be all kinds of things physically or mentally wrong with me.

>>16384402
just bought 1000 shares thanks OP

>>16384641
Same

>>16384402
This same thing happened to a friend of mine. The girl left not long after many failed attempts at sex. He is now a 27 year old virgin.

ewww, porn is ok u too much nervous , relax and fuck her pussy dont nervous think she is some porn actress or sex doll

>>16385161
>just think she is some sex doll
>healthy advice

>>16384402
Haha I got performance issues as well in bed. Probably cause of fapping every day to hot women in porn. Either I'll cum fast if I'm super horny or go flaccid when situation positions (usually cos the girl is not as hot as the porn girls I fap to).

>>16385196
he sounds like a loser, obviously roastie wont to fuck beta which dont know how to use cock

>>16384986
Damn that sucks anon. I mean she said it’s fine and was cool. I think all women are usually chill about it. One girl like 4 years ago did once go “noooooo” when I busted after 20 seconds (oh yeah I bust quick too).

This was the second night hanging out. The first night I played it cool and she didn’t think anything of it. This was the 2nd time, and I got frustrated at myself and lost my cool. She still was ok, but I’ve been down this path before and in the past it’s usually over at this point. So mentally I was preparing myself for that and got all withdrawn and just kept thinking fuck I gotta get out of here. I stayed at her spot that night but it was awkward.

>>16384402
Pop a cialis and stop watching porn, you'll be back in a couple of weeks.
t. been there

>>16385256
Ok thanks and this has been the advice of other anons as well. I think it’s time to lay off porn for good. It’s been a tumultuous wild ride, but I’ve been mentally scarred for my whole adult life and I feel ruined. Maybe this is finally it. Thanks bros.

>>16384477
Found the boomer.

>>16384986
>But the girl became totally insecure while i was like "bitch shut up who cares about you not being a 10/10, my fucking dick isn't working!
Haaah. I had a girl break down into tears because I didn't cum during sex. She blew me, rode me, we fucked till I was tired and had to just stopped. She was whimpering about how she was a bad lay, how loose her pussy must be.

I was (and still am) on heavy antidepressants. In my case, Prozac made so I couldn't come at all from regular sex. (Jews stealing part of my dick for their blood libel probably didn't help here.) Like I could barely make myself cum if I beat it viciously while using an "extra sensation" ribbed onahole, and it was still tiring. So I would stop taking it 3 days before I thought I might have a chance to bang, to let it get out of my system.

Well, it didn't pass enough and I was still dicklocked by that evening. Porn-stamina is another jewish lie.

>>16384872
No. I regret not breeding her when I had the chance. But, I keep telling myself it's probably for the best; we're both bad stock. Her maternal line for the last 4 generations has some degenerative arthritis that keeps getting worse every gen. Each child has it worse than the parent, with an earlier onset. And I've got my own health problems.

I can still be a net-positive to secure the existence of our people; instead of adding more of your own people you just have to remove more of theirs.

Been on no fap for a while, it truly works wonders

I found it much easier to maintain when I was on keto/carnivore diet for 16 months. Just recently I went back to a normal diet due to a family gathering, and my urges for porn immediately came back within two days. Diet is everything, and carbs just make me want to fuck fat roasties and edge to sexts with tinder matches. Thankfully I am seeing a qt that has her own money and is enjoyable to be be around so I won’t fall into my normal bottomless pit, but I would highly recommend cutting carbs out of your life. I lost my dandruff, increased my stamina in the gym and in bed, cut coffee out of my life and lost mostly urges to fap.

As gay as it sounds, I hated fucking girl and then not wanting to cuddle or be around them after. It killed me inside, regardless of how incredible the sex was. Good luck fren

>>16384402
You still have christmas to hit just stay off 4chan till then and workout dont be a faggot, etc..

>>16384626

How long did his state last for? Oh that's right, until he died, then it fell apart.

>>16385383
>Not impressing your women by making them cum but refusing you waste your seed except to give them a baby, making them work for your long term approval

>>16385454
>his state
States rarely last all that long without significant change anyway, but I'd say being the ancestor of a non-fractional percent of the human race barely a few hundred years later is pretty fucking successful and greater lasting

>>16385464
.... fuck, that's good.

I have the same issue OP but for me it’s all because of that fat Russian scammer. Can’t get hard anymore after I fell for that scam called chainlink

>>16384402
>he didn't go down on her for like twenty minutes of cunnilingus-induced orgasms while working up a boner

Don't feel bad. I brought a random girl at a bar to the bathroom for sex, and when she ripped her panties down, turned to the wall, and stuck her hot, naked ass & pussy out for me to fuck, I just instantly came on the floor. I then fingerbanged her while trying to get my erection back, but, despite her ardour, I was just DONE.
>why didn't you go down on her?
I don't do that to girls like that whom I just met... well, I did eat out another girl the night I met her at another bar, but she was younger & cleaner and her pussy tasted almost divine.

>>16385527
You are a walking std

>>16384402
who cares, she was not a virgin anyway

>>16385553
>he missed the "u" in "stud"

>>16385527
>and stuck her hot, naked ass & pussy out for me to fuck, I just instantly came on the floor.
You deserve a Darwin award, anon.

>>16384402
I had that same problem with my first gf (I was 21).
Good news for you, anon: it's all psychological. You're just nervous. You'll get better with practice.

if I dont jack off how do I make sure my prostate remains healthy

>>16385684
Just accept you'll die off of prostate cancer

>>16384780
your wife needs to get BLACKED ASAP buddy

>>16385684
Have sex.