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So I'm 35 now. Locked all my twenties to one relationship, then going separate ways, then only mostly working last five years. Now have been in nightlife scene again and thinking on going out a lot until 40, Ibiza and so on.

So question is what happens after age 40. How the 20 something girls see you? How things change for you? Is it over once I hit 40 and I should just focus on science or whatever, how you are being looked in nightlife scene.

Thanks!

>> No.16197414

>lookin good tonight ladies

>> No.16197433

How do the 20s treat a 35 year old boomer? I can’t imagine it’s any different than a 40 year old boomer

>> No.16197437

>>16197403
People who go clubbing and shit after age 23 are cringe but if you're not fat and bald then you could probably get laid

>> No.16197439

>>16197403
Mid 30 here.

If I was gonna go out...I'd just rent escorts.. go on cool vacations and just buy whores? Young ones

>> No.16197454

>>16197403
as long as you get your hair treated (grey hairs) you look pretty much the same as you did at 25 or 35. Assuming your weight is holding steady. Only difference is you may not want to take on as much risky events in your life (rock climbing or sky diving) as you get older.

>> No.16197471

>>16197437
this desu

>>16197403
OP do you want a wife and family? Or are you just trying to get laid? You may want to figure out your priorities before wasting $ trying to impress roasties.

>> No.16197472

>>16197433

35 is totally good, I'm healthier than in age 28 anyway and more confident because of having finances.

>> No.16197476

>>16197414
>then just walk away

>> No.16197488

>>16197454
Thanks!

>> No.16197514

>>16197471

Wanting wife and family is not working for me, just communicating with women and seeing what happens is working. I am not a long term leader for a one woman by my experience and I learned that in my 10 year relationship.

>> No.16197526

>>16197403
>Locked all my twenties to one relationship
why no marry? There seems to be an epidemic of men sucking the youth of females in a monogamous relationships than abandoning them after they are approaching the wall.

>> No.16197532

>>16197526

She left because she wanted to travel and be free. That says it all.

>> No.16197538

>>16197514
Looks like an excuse to drop a near-wall woman after using her up

>> No.16197592
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>>16197532
its all so tiresome

>> No.16197610

>>16197403
After 45, everything starts going downhill. 35 is probably a man's prime in looks. 55 is your prime in terms of finances. So don't wait too long or only golddiggers will be left available.

>> No.16197630

>>16197610

point taken

>> No.16197642

>>16197403
Why do you start a LTR if you're not gonna have kids, srs?
I went the kids route, but had I decided to wait I'd just focused on work and fucked the occasional hooker.
The middle of the road sounds cringe as fuck.
As is a thirsty boomer in a club.

>> No.16197660

>>16197538

Well this came to me in one day notice and she had this all quietly figured out herself before telling me so that came to me as such shock cause we never had any fight so next few years after that I was only in some kind of work-automatron mode figuring things out for myself.

And now I'm back and player.

>> No.16197685

>>16197642

Well, I was right on last final step to get financially well for all of this and there it all went.

And it is all history and rather not topic of this thread any more.

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16197702

>>16197403
>late 30s
>ibiza
pic related

>> No.16197719
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>>16197685
Alrighty then.
I'm still in my 20s but from what I've seen
>oldfags can bang teen 10/10 thots no problem
>none of the 10/10 thots are mentally stable, they either have daddy issues or some extreme insecurities, emanating in gold digging. The bubbly cute young girl you'd love to be around wants someone her age.

>> No.16197721

>>16197702

Pic related is kind of plan for next few years.

>> No.16197727

>>16197660
>we never had any fights
You sure you are not gay? First roasties love to fight and have drama, second no non gay man can hang around the same cunt for years without getting into any fights

>> No.16197768

>>16197727

Well we were both kinda deeply introvert types.

>> No.16197772

>>16197727
There's a type of an ultra-submissive girl that cannot start fights as much as she wants to, maybe she was one of those.
This type of girl is also extremely easy to manipulate, not just by men but friends, too. Some hoe she calls a friend would brag about her vacation in Vienna and boom - there goes a 10 year relationship.

>> No.16197778

And stubborn. We never talked since also. Just abrupt cancellation and that's it.

>> No.16197792

>>16197721
Have fun I guess. IME, even if you're dealing drugs and pulling a lot of strange it's a very dissatisfying lifestyle. Did it in my late 20s and wish I had spent that time doing just about anything else with anybody else. Can't imagine how much worse it is in your 30s.

>> No.16197794

>>16197772
>10 year relationship.
this is utterly retarded. the woman is completely fucked by OP now because he didn't marry her. Basically scammed her and she couldn't take it any more if she was the one that walked away.

If I was her father I'd have a "talk" with you.

>> No.16197805

>>16197772

Yes you are talking about her, she had bad girlfriends and part of the blame is for me for not saving her from them, mix that with uprise of feminism and stuff but well she made her choice. This was at the beginning of 2014. Just time when society started change a lot.

>> No.16197812

>>16197433
I’m 32 and get more looks and attention than I ever had I’m my 20s. I don’t look anywhere near my age since I’ve always moisturized and used sunscreen on my face. I’m fitter than 99% of people everywhere I go, stay on top of my own sense of fashion, and wear a nice cologne. It’s easy af. Younger women love older dudes that don’t look like shit and take care of themselves.

A nice cologne will take you far. Don’t buy cheap shit.

>> No.16197843

>>16197772
>bragging about vacation in Vienna
There is nothing to brag about a vacation in Vienna. But nontheless isn't that the wallflower type, simply saying "no you stay, forget about travelling" like being a bit dominant keeps such a woman were you want her to be. Overall OP comes over as a fag that will fail with the party girls and settle for a gold digger and secrete gay bath house visits as the bottom

>> No.16197844

>>16197794

Maybe you are right, maybe you are wrong ... who knows...

>> No.16197847

>>16197805
People like you are literally responsible for raise of feminism. If a woman is sweet and submissive, she is used up and scammed by men who linger on in "relationships" for hilarious amount of years, wasting her youth.

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>>16197794
> the woman is completely fucked by OP
Sure, he's at fault for not taking the next step. Then again I married a 26 year old girl who just dumped her hs sweetheart after 9 years of him playing video games with no explicit plan on how to start a family.
A hot and smart girl with a kill count of 1 in her 20s is a nice catch imo (couldn't have asked for more, personally), so if the bitch in question gets her shit together she'll find someone. Then again...
>>16197805
This type of doormat with 0 self esteem will always be reactionary, and will never be able to plan 1 year ahead. She'll probably find a moron whose quality of life will worsen because of her, but imho OP dodged a bullet by being passive.
If he learns from his mistakes and does better for his next and better gf, things will work out.

>> No.16197863

>>16197843

That may be the case, I've stopped taking life seriously at this point and just take it as hilarious adventure. Because things change every year, you never know where you might end up.

>> No.16197902

>>16197863
Okay you are gay. Forget wasting money on party girls. Get yourself a young latino boi pussy and have fun. 35 I guess is perfect for getting out of the closet

>> No.16197916

>>16197902

You have made 3 posts mentioning gay in all of them. Maybe you are on, maybe we both are. Maybe we should meet.

Jokes aside, I'll never fucking ever fuck a man.

>> No.16197973

>>16197916
I know I'm not gay. I'm a bar skunk fucking vocel that stays with the same women for at most a few months. It is always just about having fun for me and for them it is often to get over relationships with cucks like you.

>> No.16197979

>>16197610
doesn't mean you can't keep a good look, if you actually care about your health (diet and exercise). except if you got shit genes. sorry for you in that case, but in general you can stay relevant for very long, some men still look good past 60. you need money however after a certain age.

>> No.16197992

>>16197403
lock down a good wife asap, bro

>> No.16198016

>>16197992

Well if I happen to find one naturally (without any purposeful wish for dating) then I will. But this time it has to be fate.

>> No.16198052

>>16197610
Wrong, nothing gets me wetter than a hot 40-55 year old daddy, or even older. Young guys look like boys, are immature and have small dicks. Big boomer cocks isn't a meme.

>> No.16198084

>>16198016
>fate
Top Kek. Have an honest advice. Go to one of those gang bang parties, if all the other erect dicks around you don't make you uncomfortable you are at least bi. Find out what you want yourself before wasting more years and money in some relationship that will end up the same as the last

>> No.16198107

>>16198084

Your writing style comes off as one of those aggressive trannies. Not my kind of crowd.

>> No.16198141

>>16198084
How can one man project so hard

>> No.16198185

Also why Ibiza you might ask. Because my music is and has being played there for years. So there is much more going on.

>> No.16198208

>>16198185
Don't think anyone cares. From what I've seen, Ibiza is for people who want to pose as "cool" and "in it" while clearly being not

>> No.16198339

I'm 44
I found that until 40 - I could still pull hot mid 20's chicks that weren't sluts.
That definitely changed dramatically post 40-41.
Grey hairs - weight harder to keep off. And you can't party like you used to
Your tolerance also declines.
My advice - is lock in a decent bitch in her mid 20's when you're 38 or so

>> No.16198353

>>16197403
it depends how you look and act socially

if you dress smart for your age and have the talk when you do it you won't have problems
imagine a hollywood actor at 40+ vs. a closeted fat autistic boomer at 40+

so just hit the gym and work on your social skills, granted you already know how to dress

>> No.16198401

>>16198339
>>16198353

Sound advice, thanks.