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based londonfrog

>>15899660
Londonanon, how many linkies do you have?

>>15899660
Grinding eventually wins out-go to the gym and just grind out workout after workout day after day year after year, save what money you can day after day year after year-life is long you might not be successful now but you can dominate later on.

>>15899724

>Be yourself bro! Positive energy bro! Own it bro! Do it bro! Crush it bro! Radical, bro!

>>15899660
Jeff bezos syndrom
Work hard on something you like
If you have the nerves you will succeed and will win big
You have the all or nothing path of life
Choose

>>15899660
welcome to the ass end of western civilization. lets just hope the collapse is sooner rather than later, so we arent too old to make it on the other side.

also accept Christ as your Lord and Savior.

>>15899732
Nope suffer and grind it out

>>15899732
>bro, you're killing it!

>>15899660
You re completely deluding yourself thinking others are happy. They aint. What you call naivety or magic is a construction You made in your head that you would like to go through and project that others did it. False, most go through that the exact way. They grind, they fake, they go through the hoops because all others do. Yes, some have it easy but they are very few. Most relationships are more toxic than healthy too. If you make it and you are successful meaning you can do whatever you want with your time (even if you do nothin) then my fren you are the 1-2% in the happiness index.
You are 28 so fuck off you young piece of shit. You have 70 years ahead of you

>>15899660
All of that is your own choice.

>>15899660
You should have joined the military after high school. It was a great, but also shitty experience that gave me drive to get a solid education with a high paying job, as well as having motivation to keep a very healthy/fit body. It gives you good confidence too, depending out what you did in the mil. Everyone in my office doesn't know I could kill them all with a pencil or coffee mug.

>>15899660
You sound like a faggot pussy. Why do you want to be a normie so bad. Normies are the scourge of the Earth.

Sit back and relax and watch clown world fall apart and all roasties and s.o.y plebbit freaks mentally break down and kill themselves when shit hits the fan

>>15899924
Is it too late to join at 24 years of age?

>>15899724
not based and not boomer pilled

>>15900025
It depends on your country.

>>15899660
stop wage slaving dumbo no wonder you're poor and sad why are you even on this board

>>15899724
Needed to hear this. Thats exactly what I am focussing on right now, but damn its the most boring period of my life, im bordering on insanity.

>>15899660
try smoking some pot it should help

>>15900063
U.S.
I can still join but would it be weird and would i be mocked?

>>15899732
Tell us what shitcoins you hold or fuck off

>>15899660
>Chad and all women get everything handed to them.
Other people have the same vulnerabilities you do as a human. Your idealizing something you didn't get.

> I totally missed out and now I'm a product of the internet information tsunami. I've gone to the gym, got a good haircut, dress better etc. Any success I will have, if any, will be inauthentic compared to romantic youth.

You ever fucked a girl with a stinky pussy or had to pay for an abortion to kill your kid? Nothing is as romantic as you make it out to be.

>No mystery, no adventure, just drudgery.
You need to activate the seeking pathways in your brain to fix this.
So do new things to create variety. You could at least plot your escape from wagie life.

> will be the result of rationalised overthinking drudgery
Most likely you are avoiding bad feelings by overthinking things. The key is to process the emotions. It's a long topic but the TLDR
Emotions are predictions
Bad feelings are prediction error
You remove bad feelings by reducing prediction error.

You are most likely emotionally blocked, meaning you have stabilized prediction errors. You can fix this via specific techniques.
You want my copy pasta on the topic?

>>15899724
>>15900667
Do you have reading comprehension problems? The OP is already doing all that stuff, and there's no evidence to suggest it will ever make him happy.

>>15901374
Why would anyone want to look at your shitty copypasta when it doesn't even work for you?

>>15899732
gym is better than no gym tho

>>15901404
>Do you have reading comprehension problems?
>>15901413
>Why would anyone want to look at your shitty copypasta when it doesn't even work for you?

You are really full of anger and self hatred...
good luck with that!

>>15899660
go see the joker it will give you one happy night

>>15901374
I want it yes

>>15901480
are those pepsi piss jugs?

>>15899660
An Hero before it gets any worse.

>>15899660
>Chad and all women get everything handed to them.

wrong, cope harder faggot

>>15901529
sorry I thought you would like my pepe, which I chose because I am making myself as vulnerable as this pepe here; showing his new friend his piss-jug collection.

>>15901448
Keep coping and hoping.

>>15901559
Except he's right:
https://www-1.thenewstribune.com/latest-news/article208532389.html

>>15901561
>which I chose because I am making myself as vulnerable as this pepe here
You seem cynical...

I'm going to have fun in IRL for OP an future anons

TLDR
You want to apply therapy techniques to yourself or with a therapist that trigger a type of neuro plasticity called memory reconsolidation.
The therapy techniques I recommend are:
EMDR
Internal Family Systems
Coherence therapy

Memory Reconsolidation in a Nutshell
https://youtu.be/cJrfsjT35UE

Bruce Ecker, MA, LMFT: Memory Reconsolidation
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vpqyvm0fM3Q

http://www.iaan.com.au/wp-content/uploads/2019/02/IJNPT_Vol6_issue1.pdf

Internal Family Systems (IFS): A guided meditation
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ew2w561Ge80

Reflections on The Cutting Edge of Trauma Therapy with Dr. Ricky Greenwald
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DCv7Ed7ETMM

Stress and How to Short-Circuit It with Amy Serin PhD
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gIsFxG6oydM

Why and How Consciousness Arises Mark Solms PhD
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F7WF5gzPG1k

Mark Solms, PhD: The Animal Within Us
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JfqVIG9bejU

>>15901594

>>15899660
>Chad and all women get everything handed to them.
Not necessarily if they 'became' Chad. Don't assume this later in life. Late bloomer Chads are ultra-chads generally because they experienced the introverted growth phase that early Chad never did. Besides, high school football QB Chad is usually a fat retarded faggot at age 30.
>Any success I will have, if any, will be inauthentic compared to romantic youth.
Quit living in the past. All that matters is now and immediate future. Besides, people view their younger years with severly rose-tinted glasses, but the reality is never even close, and they always wished they did x,y & z no matter how good things were. Go watch some movie or listen to some album you obsessed over back when. I doubt many pass the test of time.
No meme, take the /fit/ pill. Find an outdoor activity you enjoy that will also challenge you on your own terms. Stick to it, watch the depression melt away.

>>15899660
>hoping that I spontaneously stop feeling sad
This really got to me, fuck man.

>>15899660
your problem is that you idealize the normal life too much. Whatever fairy tale you think the chads are living, it's not like it is in your head, and your idyllic comparisons are what's really responsible for your unhappiness and unwillingness to try.
Life is ugly even when it's good.

>>15900025
you can join up to 39 and get waivers past that if you're in good shape.

>>15899845
>Dude just suffer for 70 more years then die to be reborn into the same existence, lmao

>>15901736
Lifting doesn't work you dumb faggot.

>>15899845
Did you even read anything he wrote? He's talking about a specific set of life events that can only truly be experienced when you're young. The ship sailed for those experiences by his early 20s, let alone late 20s.

>>15902388
Hahaga lol
Sent From My Beer

>>15899660
i've seen this copypasta before.
...its my own life

>>15899961
this

You „kids“ are weak shit. He‘s complaining about something for most unachievable. Likely cause society makes it easy for you and hands you now everything on a silver plate. Im just disgusted by the degeneracy of the west and its weak males. No wonder we are going extinct.

>>15899724

what is your age

>>15899845

This is just cope, do you even know zyzz and raves? op has one thing of zyzz but lacks the rest that let him to fake it until he made it

>>15899924
>Everyone in my office doesn't know I could kill them all with a pencil or coffee mug.

KEK, you are deluded, the military doesn't teach anything about hand to hand combat anyway, probably two months on a very rugged mma gym would make you better than any military fag at fighting

there is only thing the military does good and is making you completely unaware of how shitty you are

>>15899660
Meh some people just aren't meant for the normie stuff, ive been to many parties and events and the majority of the time I wished I was at home cooming, smoking weed and watching anime instead

>>15899660
Are you a slow learner? Should have made this post around 8 years ago, it was already over by then.

>>15901559
That's not what coping means you absolutely retarded faggot. Coping would be claiming Chad's life is just as bad (it's not) to feel better about yours.
Holy shit kill yourselves you retarded zoomers who can't even use your own buzzwords properly.