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>>15572193
Just don't drink alone. Relax and enjoy the good things.

smoke drug

play cricket instead sir

>>15572205
>brown id

>>15572193
Contemplate what Catholics refer to as the "occasion of sin".

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Occasion_of_sin

In short, here is the idea...

... there are certain actions or circumstances that allow us to fall into bad situations. For example:
> going to a womans apartment alone if you are married
> being around a lot of cash if you are a thief
> being around booze if you are an alcoholic.

Occasions of sin are not sin themselves; but they are a stepping stone to it.

The trick is to know what circumstances trigger your bad behavior, and learning how to avoid these situations so you don't have the opportunity for them to get out of hand.

In your case, I think the place to start is NEVER drinking. EVER. Rather than to trigger an addiction that will be hard to manage, you're better off avoiding it before it starts.

Just drink by the time you hit 30 it's your only escape from this gay earth

>>15572193
People barely ever truly change their bad habits through their life, especially later on, you're in your mid 20's, if you dont take action immediately you'll be stuck for the rest of your life, along with your friends and family who will enable you to continue drinking, same goes for everything else, sugar, porn, weed, any drugs - people who develop a habit are unlikely to change as its deep rooted. You know "what the fuck should you do"
Either do it or dont, its up to you, no one here cares and please stop seeking for external validation online as if there's some holy grail and a magic trick that will open up your eyes, its really that simple - quit cold turkey or have fun being that 40 year old that still thinks drinking every few days is cool while he works a construction job, getting fired every few months because he cant get his alcoholism under control. Chances are you'll end up like your dad - use this negative post as your motivation for starters

>>15572193
leave it all behind. either you change or they do. the question is when.

>>15572193
if you dont have the mental willpower to just not fucking drink then you might as well do it

>>15572193
smoke DMT.
Get out of the environment is a great way, change of faces is usually the best step. alcohol is too rough on your body. Do psychadelics while you're trying to stay away from booze and you can have fun without dependence or addiction and learn something about yourself

>>15572232
kek

I love drinking but had to stop because I have a fatty liver. Hold me frens

give yourself positive propoganda and stop telling yourself the story that youre an alcoholic and stop programming yourself to go too deep into something thats negative.

Realize that it's a really shitty habit, and only leads to shittier habits.

My Dad (was) and my friend's Dads are alcoholics and I've seen it take years off their lives.

If my Dad had stopped drinking he would've lived to see his grandchildren.

So do whatever you want dude, it's your life.

>>15572193
What is defined as an alcoholic? I could be one.

>>15572421
You are if you've to ask

>>15572398
this. im watching my brother die from it slowly. hes 37 and shits himself on a regular basis, has no appetite for food any more, used to be naturally very strong and is weak as shit now and becoming very skinny. hes hearing voices.

youd think that when you have no bowel control and you drink so much that youre hallucinating that you hear voices that you'd try to slow down but its like he doesn't care.

>>15572193
smoke weed all day every day

>>15572543
hell yea brother

>>15572543

>>15572193
embrace it anon
im in crypto for the extra $200 a week I can passively make to spend on booze

>>15572237
>https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Occasion_of_sin

What if i feel FOMO for those occassions of sin because i don't have FOMO for living a perfect life at all and im comfortable being a mediocre person

>>15572193
get into martial arts, i'd suggest either jiu jits or muay thai. it will give you something to do, and it will also help you want to eat healthy and not drink if you train consistently. also smoke weed

>>15572197
That's it. Don't drink alone

>>15572193
I put away 12-14 units a night all thru my 20s. Eventually I just started drinking less. Now I'm at like 6-8 and try to take a night or two off every week. I watched my dad drink himself to death at 63. It all went downhill fast for him in a couple of years once he started day drinking. I'd consider stopping all together but I just dont know what to do with myself. Sobriety is boring as shit. Good luck fren

Im a bartard, on the plus side i dont get hangovers, the downside is these things give seizures if i take too long of breaks

>alcoholic
Its really not that bad. Don't fall for the propaganda spread by uptight old roasties

Talking about xanax btw

Put a few rules into place that you NEVER break.

For me:
> no liquor
> no more than 4 drinks in one day
> no drinking for more than 3 days in a row
> If I feel hungover in the morning I have to do 20 minutes of cardio

If I always follow those rules I stay out of trouble

>>15572466
Right in the feels
God bless you and your senpai anon, i hope it turns around

>>15572193
Just fucking embrace it and stop being a pussy

>>15572193
ayahuasca

>>15572197
Drinking around people is worse.

i just get drunk on saturdays, and only drink a shot or two of whiskey in the mornings,

drink about 750 ML every week of hard liqor

>>15573571
>no more than 4 drinks in one day

how the fuck do you ever get drunk i need atleast 10

>>15572193
start a very serious lifting routine, gains and alcoholism are mutually exclusive, you will look better, feel better, have more confidence, massively increase libido, and you will stop the premature aging process that you are currently inflicting on your one and only body

>>15573571
>If I always follow those rules I stay out of trouble
So, do you always follow the rules?
Attempting to control my drinking with "rules" didn't work for me. Because I couldn't stick to my own rules, and even when I did I was miserable. But often I just said "too late now, I'll get drunk like I want to this time and follow the rules tomorrow."

So I got help and haven't had a drink in six and a half years.

Let me tell you, it's so much easier this way. No more bargaining with myself, no more making promises to myself that I won't keep, no more guilt and shame, no more lying to myself.

Anon there's an easier way to live.

Usually I think how many linkies I can buy instead really sobers the goober

>>15572193
Kys

>>15574686
this too

>>15572193
cheers

>>15572193
keep drinking obviously