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>>15443998
If you like her, just take her out for dinner/coffee/something. You can do it fren!

If you have to ask, she’s just being nice.

The good news is that you’re not too ugly for her to be nice to you.

>>15443998
fuck off to /r9k/ not business related

>>15443998
What are your intentions with said girl

>>15443998
how fuck money make prostitute

>>15444011
Could be OP is autistic.
Honestly, I took a girl out on two fun dates and didn’t know bc I hammered, “she’s just being nice to me,” so hard into my skull so hard that I couldn’t see when a girl actually liked me.
OP, it’s better to go for it and be a little embarrassed than just assume the worst and do nothing forever. This is doubly important bc girls almost never ask guys out, so the *only* way to know is to ask yourself.
If you’re brave enough to get your financial advice from a Mongolian basket weaving forum, you’re brave enough to believe that a girl could like you.

>>15444011
god damn

>>15444006
I've suggested hanging out and doing stuff on the weekends but I've just gotten vague responses.

>>15444015

gf

BIZ RELATED, HOW???? FUCKING VIRGIN PAJEET, GO HAVE VIRTUAL SEX WITH CHATBOTS IN DIFFERENT FORUM...

>>15444012

sorry, I get banned for off-topic posts but I always find a way around it so I just keep making off-topic posts when I feel like it. /biz/ is my home board

>>15444063

but there has to be clues?

>>15444068
Vague=uninterested.

The longer you leave it the more you slide into friend zone.

Make your intentions clear, theres plenty of other women, stop being a beta virgin.

Like anon said if you have to ask then she is just being nice. Usually when a girl wants you they become overly annoying. So bad sometimes that even if they are hot as fuck you just want to gtfo asap
Or maybe it's just me. Maybe I don't like it when a girl WANTS me herself lol

>>15444160
>Like anon said if you have to ask then she is just being nice. Usually when a girl wants you they become overly annoying. So bad sometimes that even if they are hot as fuck you just want to gtfo asap

This actually all makes perfect sense now.

thanks

>>15443998
Girls will let you know anon, Girls are face value, If they aren't happy and ditsy around you they don't like you. The first girlfriend I had was in HS and she was friendly at first and then after a month she ramped it up. Her are some things I remember she said to me a week prior before I asked her out.
>"Anon for the rest of the year im gonna make flirting jokes with you!"
>"Hey anon, Whatcha doing on your phone!"
>"Hey anon, Wanna listen to music?"

We also listened to music together in class and she would always put it on some songs talking about love. The one thing you don't want to do with women is worship them. A good body and a chill attitude by being yourself can land most women. If you really want easy sex, Go to the bar with a friend and if you're attractive enough women will sit by you and you can ever buy them drinks.

>>15444160
And as this anon said, Women will be overly annoying too if they like you and its pretty easy to tell if they are.

>>15444095
>but there has to be clues?
She will touch your arm or leg at times when she talks to you. When sitting, she may sit in a manner where her toes point at you. She may mimic your movements or certain speech patterns.

>>15444011
>If you have to ask, she’s just being nice.
this

>>15444191

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>>15444202
Yep, Smiling too. Girls also sometimes talked in a more seductive or higher toned voice I've noticed when talking to me. It's like a ditsy flirty type of voice. Also if a girl likes you, She will touch you or even get close to you. My first GF laid her head on my shoulder before we were even together.

>>15444202
Oh my god this
Whenever i see this i get a weird feeling and want to just gtfo

Am i gay?

>>15444210
I'm actually 22 years old not a boomer yet.

>>15443998
You grab her by the pussy duh

>>15443998
if she files a police complaint and restraining order, she was probably just being nice

>>15444214
You should embrace it and smile, It's normal to be anxious and nervous. It takes time to get used to flirty affection especially when its your first time.

>>15444068
Have you asked her out?

>>15443998
that's not how the game is played, you cuck

this guy's advice >>15444118 is god tier and I'm pretty sure he FUCKS. Too bad for you that he cba to get into more detail, so I guess I'll have to just to illustrate his point. I won't use myself as an example to avoid the usual "hur durr LARP"

One of my professors in college had a friend who used to fuck EVERYTHING. His strategy was borderline retarded (and i'm pretty sure it was on autopilot), but it worked wonders.
When he saw a girl he liked he would go to her and basically be Bronn from GoT
>"Hey girl, I'd fuck you"
Obviously every woman would go like
>"Oh my god you asshole, how dare you?"
at which point he would kinda back down and be like
>"Don't worry, babe, I'm sure we'll get to be great friends once we get to know each other"
What he would do next is extremely important. He would actually act nice and friendly. This fucks with the woman's brain. On one hand she knows that this guy wants to fuck her, she knows that he's pretty confident and based for stating his intentions outright, but on the other hand he's acting nice around her. wtf is going on? Is he acting nice for ME? Am I special?
What happens next is brilliant. If the woman continues the interaction, she basically knows it will lead to fucking (he already stated that intention). If she doesn't continue the interaction, she won't get to feel special anymore. Eventually they all caved in and ended up getting fucked.

Now I'm pretty sure this doesn't work for everyone. It has to fit your personality, you have to be somewhat Chad and confident. I can only imagine the cringe this strategy would generate when it was used by some beta incel on a roastie that gets 300 DMs per day that inflate her value like some shitcoin.

The moral of the story is that it's not up to the women if they like you or not. That's something that you control by stating your intentions early and acting in a certain way. You have to become the guy that can pull that off

>>15444228
I am 30 years old it is not my first time. I just quit the girl when i see this. Idk man... maybe i am just afraid of commitment. Women are so clingy. Maybe i just haven't met the right women. And i guess deep inside i don't want to settle down, the idea feels like death

>>15444246
You could try getting drunk and talking to a girl, It always helps me to be slightly drunk. I go to the bar with my friend and I've brought girls home who were ready to fuck when we hit the couch to "watch a movie". I fucking love getting drunk.

A woman never likes you. She likes the way you make her feel.

>>15444259
That requires me to actually want to have sex which i don't. And girls are not really good for anything else now are they?

>>15444241
as an addendum to this, the reason why beta faggots don't fuck is because they do the opposite of that story. First they act friendly and nice and then months or even years later they state their intentions to fuck. Imagine how cringey, creepy and hypocritical this seems to a woman. Imagine if you (as a guy) met a guy, hanged out with him for months/years, even thought he was your friend, only to find out later that he was just acting nice to get money from you. You'd tell him to fuck off immediately.

By framing it as: "hey, i'm the asshole that tries to fuck you, but I'm actually gonna act nice around you because you're worth it" actually implies some effort and is somewhat endearing. Obviously the execution matters a lot. It has to be playful, genuine, there must be sexual tension, etc. That's why I said that this is not a magical recipe for fucking, but instead you have to become the guy that can pull that off.

>>15444279
This is the opposite of white beta incels.
Good job. I agree.