/biz/ - Business & Finance

>>15173531
so, its basically lying and stalling progress? how many places have you got fired from OP?

>>15173556
0

>im getting gaslit right now

>>15173556
I should clarify, I don't do this myself but I see it happen all the time in the office

>>15173531
none of this shit works in tightened economic conditions, you just get fired. you're a retard OP

>>15173531
1. Yes, it is obvious to everyone we would be using that program, what I actually asked was...
2. Why don't we have to worry about it? Are you on top of it? What do you have in mind?
3. The cat videos can wait until later, could you be professional and put down the phone for a min? Thanks.
4. I have never heard that phrase since working here once. What exactly is collate?
5. Are you sure? I don't recall it being mentioned and I think we could clarify it more for everyone. This is fairly important.
6. Maybe so, but we need to deal with the monthly planning session first.
7. That is obviously not what I have said at all.
8. Slash his tires after work.

Gaslighting only works if you're a boss. If you're on my level or below, good fucking luck. You're getting called out.

>>15173618

my boss does half the shit on this list

i balance it out by working like 30 minutes a week though

If you did this shit where I work someone would probably kill you. This is not good advice for the blue collar world.

>>15173654
Problem is it happens all the time in the white collar world

>>15173639

based

>>15173651
the tightened conditions are on the way and you'll be one of the first to go

>>15173651
>my boss does half the shit on this list
I have had clients/bosses do at least six out of eight of those things. I pretend to be oblivious to it for $ and passive-aggressively get back by being slow/distracted with work. When I'm left to my own devices and no bullshit is pulled, they get excellent work quickly. Gotta condition them.

>>15173531
No, my current work environment is actually extremely friendly and mostly helpful, but I have been in relationships that felt like that pic.

Ex's father was a big law attorney and he pulled this shit all the time. It rubbed off on her and she would do this kind of thing constantly. For example, that number 7 "Rephrase what people say into something completely different" is a STRONG fucking tactic. if I said something like "I don't want to fight in public, it's embarrassing," she may respond with, "Oh you think I try to fight with you in public? You think I'm embarrassing?" - stuff like that. Just total gaslighting, sociopathic insanity.

If you feel like you're getting gaslit at work/in a relationship, I advise you to get the fuck out. No amount of money/comfort is worth that stress.

>>15173680

i've literally already resigned

used all of the time i was supposed to be "working" to start my own business

you're a proud little tryhard wagecuckie aren't you?

>>15173531
Jesus christ how is there not more cunts going postal?

>>15173754
>"Rephrase what people say into something completely different" is a STRONG fucking tactic. if I said something like "I don't want to fight in public, it's embarrassing," she may respond with, "Oh you think I try to fight with you in public? You think I'm embarrassing?"
lmao sounds like my mom. It's honestly impossible to deal with this in a relationship though, besides leaving and cutting off contact. At work, getting personal makes you look bad and unprofessional. In a relationship, whoever cares less is in power. So "Yes, you're fucking embarrassing me right now and you need to calm your tits" will get you the upper-hand in the long run, while "No, what I was trying to say..." will make you look weak and submissive and she will lose respect.

>>15173531
Anyone doing this deserves to get shot.

So glad I am not a wagie.

>>15173618
Yeah seriously. It's not the 90's anymore. There's a LOT of shit that you used to be able to get away with that you can't anymore.

>>15173807
Yeah my tactic was dumping her. It worked.

>>15173531
>How To Lose Friends And Influence No One

>>15173531
Next job I get this is exactly what im doing. If you actually care about your job and do a good job, you get shit on. thank you op.

>>15173531
>4. When giving instructions, be intentionally vague then blame the person for not understanding
>5. Say a question was already answered (a few weeks ago) even though it wasn't

>>15173926
yeah these are the worst. however, the general public isnt really susceptible to this shit much anymore. we're all far too cynical and loud to tolerate minor nuisances like this

>>15173758
no i'm a junior data scientist and I'll have a job forever

>>15173986
>I'll have a job forever
eternity cuck.

>>15174017
good luck surviving off your LINK stash

>>15173979
I called out the coworker on this and he didn't even answer the question but just started talking how I've been slipping up and that I don't know the company's work processes and that I'm the most junior member of the whole team and that I should never question him and that I showed no progress since I came on board. I literally wanted to strangle the fucker, since I got along pretty well with everyone else.

>>15173531
I assumed that my boomer boss was just going senile when he pulled this shit. Have I been rused?

>>15173986
lol wagie faggots like this i thought they were a meme
we have an actual "junior data scientist" boys

>>15174463
yeah and I make 120k in an average cost of living area, make fun of me all you want. my life is easy and I have almost 100k in ETH. go ahead and call me a wage fag but I'm doing a lot better than a lot of people here and am only at the start of my career, I'll be retired by 45 at the most.

This has happened to me a few times. I quit soon afterwards and find the next bunch of retards to work with. I really want to work for myself but need to save up. If people are performing tasks without all the social distractions they tend not to do this. Great team and environment generally means getting involved in their social bs and the inevitable gaslighting between them when one gets outed for not showing up at some random social occasion.

>>15173639
Lol I deal with you cunts everyday. I cannot be fired because I'm one of 10 engineers with a specific speciality in the world.. My last boss killed himself. Try me bitch

I'm dealing with that right now, as an accountant. My manager is 20 years older than me, but he still manages to find time to set up a gossip group chat with some of the single mothers in the office. When the work is going "fine" he tries to pretend to be normal, when he can't get something done he tries alternating between giving half truth heart to heart talks and playing a TV sociopath. This week, he's been attacking everything that I say because our IT department forgot to update one of the reports that we both use at the end of the month, even though I have nothing to do with it. Typing this shit out makes me realize that I need a new job, but I figure it'll be the same shit wherever I go.

>>15174563
Print out this comment now so when you’re 45 you’ll be able to have a good laugh at how naive you were

>>15174635
It is the same everywhere, at least to some extent, but there’s something to be said for a fresh start. You get to hard reset all the disfunctional relationships from scratch a little wiser every time.

>>15174563
>”if you’re on my level or below”
>being more important than a random replaceable boss
Might be a good engineer, but not very good at reading.

>>15175061
nah fuck that. it's not the same everywhere you go. there's plenty of comfy jobs out there, which is why you should always be looking for a better job if your not comfy. dont get stuck.

>>15173531
My boss does all of these things.

>>15173531
I think we already covered that subject we are not trying to boil the ocean here let's circle back to that later

>>15173531
They do this shit on purpose? What the fuck is wrong with these people?

>>15175298
nobody does it on purpose, some people are just assholes.

>>15175170
I think we’re in agreement. I’m not advocating job hopping for the sake of job hopping but was instead referring to >>15174635’s specific situation, which seems to warrant looking for something better. If you’ve found somewhere good, stick with it for sure.

>>15175298
>mfw never had an office job
>mfw don't have to deal with office politics and wage cuck baby boomer niggers
>feels good man

I'd tell people how to combat these gas-lighters, but then that'd just even the playing field :)

>>15173531
I laughed really hard at all this. Here's Thot as a reward OP.
Well deserved, bravo.

>>15173556
You guys are fucking great, best laugh in a while.

>>15173531
>I'll spread my shieeet on your car if you talk like that to me again
>We don't have to worry about your next paycheck. .
>*knocks the cucks phone out of his hand* HUH? HUH? HUH?
>I correctly collated your car. You can't go under 45 MPH or it will explode
>Tell me the answer then faggot. I'll fucking wait *kicks feet up and begins streaming CP from his work computer*
>I have 5G hooked up this entire building. We'll see who's pacemaker isn't working
>We're going to reverse the flow of immigrants out of this country and into the state of Israel
>Look at this fucking putz stealing my idea. Look at this fucking troglodyte. *points gun* you fucker. You fucking nigger

>>15173754
Bro, I dated a bitch like that for a while. She loved verbally sparing. She of a bitch in bed too, loved biting me, didn't matter where. Lads......damn was she aggressive in bed. Imagine gettin at it from behind, as hard as you fucking can and she wants it to hurt more. Its like a fucking sprint while lifting the heaviest thing you can think of; you give ot all you got making her scream uncontrollably.

And she still treats you like shit.

>>15176569
>she wants...
imagine caring what she wants

>>15176597
based

Oh wow I do a lot of this shit on accident. I think it stems from my constant shitpost arguments. Everyone thinks I'm a super nice person though and am really smart, I've been told both on multiple occasions its not narcissism. What does it mean?

>>15176597
Based and redpilled