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is there a cure to adhd and ocd perfectionism, being neurotic.

im struggling with multiple substance addictions like cocaine and alcohol since a teen and destructive impulsive repetive behaviour caused by ocd.

im 24 now and im going mental. i need a therapist i believe but talking to somebody wont change shit.

i been struggling with absolute mental ocd retardation like: you relapsed cocaine on 2nd june so you have to keep going until you can restart fresh on 1st july. people will say its lack of willpower and addiction. its a mix but mostly because something is terribly wrong from the start.

i threw away my ultra rare pokemon cards at age 4 because they had slight scratches. i buy a football soccer shirt at 6 and dont want it after a day because it didnt look new anymore. i dumped my first girlfriend at 15 because she wasnt a 11/10.I get lost in absolute irrelevant micro details which have zero positive impact on my life.

this list goes on and on. thousands of such things which are torturing me.

i was very popular in high school and have ghosted every single friend, male and girl because all my mental focus is concentrated on dealing with the pressure and there is no space anymore for social interaction because it would blow up everything twice as bad.

>inb4 have sex
i did

>inb4 plebbit spacing
on mobile

>> No.14910813

>>14910798
Have sex

>> No.14910824

Nice blog faggot.
Have sex.
Go back.

>> No.14910837

>>14910824
>go back
where? i been here for years. atleast shill me another board to blog

>> No.14910875
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>>14910798
>all my mental focus is concentrated on dealing with the pressure
Define that pressure, from where or whom does it stem from?
Also be happy that your not physically addicted to something that would kill you if you stopped outright. Just suck it up and stop, lock yourself in your room and delete your dealers number.
You can quit fren, that's going to be a colossal first step in the right direction

>> No.14910878

no solutions for you but bumping for a potential solution to the perfectionism problem
I have the same weird habit where I push back potential changes I make to arbitrary dates (like the first of the next month, or my next birthday, or whatever) but I know it's retarded and unhealthy and I have no idea why I do it
I start law school in a month and I'm worried it'll cause me to fuck up my grades, especially since I've never studied for anything in my life before

>> No.14910967

>>14910875
>Define that pressure, from where or whom does it stem from?
i have no clue. its an inner deep desire to be perfect and live perfect in all aspects which obviously is not physically possible. i only feel truly rested mentally when i sleep in 5 star top tier hotels, have a shredded physique, insane amounts of money etc.

i have come very far financially but it didnt lift me up even 1%, because there is always something out there which i will be bigger, faster, stronger than me.

i need to stop living in the future and stop chasing. the drugs are just a product which came with the money and a way with dealing with this pressure but it made everything worse longterm. i know my deep issue and it is ocd.

>> No.14910997

>>14910798
God I wish that was me. I'm not joking, I want to kill myself because I'm male and I'm hoping to make it with crypto so that I can afford the surgery to turn me into even an approximation of a passable girl because my current existence is unbearable.

>> No.14911019

>>14910997
nice

>> No.14911042

>>14910997
>because my current existence is unbearable.
same. but stop watching porn anon. that might fix your trap phantasy issue.

>> No.14911048

>>14910798
>plebbit spacing
have sex and gtfo

>> No.14911061

>>14910798

Yea, Um, Who is this

>> No.14911092

>>14911061
alexis ren

>> No.14911121

>>14910967

obviously this is part of your personality OP.
So you shouldn't get rid of it, but channel it. Try to find something you really care about and focus your ocd on that. You do not have to always win and be the best in everything OP, try to relax and have fun and appreciate the small things in live.
Also just stop doing the drugs OP. Live is already difficult enough... Adding drugs to the mixture is like playing a videogame on the insane difficulty. Also, exercise and eat well to feel powerful and healthy all the time. Dont do it because you want to be the biggest prick, do it because it feels good.
Also, since you are loaded, help an anon out, some donations for my advice please:
0x01c619AFAD41fAf6c87b6Cad7427E6c62e277586

>> No.14911124

>>14910798
Dialectual Behavioral Therapy (DBT)
Alcoholics Anonymous.

They are the action oriented, self improvement therapies proven to work. You get out what you put in in both

>> No.14911155

>>14911124
AA doesnt work.
Its cure rate is the same as spontaneous remission about 5%

>> No.14911168

>>14911121

with drugs I also mean quitting the alcohol. Its obvious you cant handle it, your are not strong enough at this moment.

>> No.14911189

>>14911155
I have yet to find a cheaper, 24/7 alternative. Have you? Besides wanking to animu in the basement?

>> No.14911206

>>14911121
kek

>> No.14911216

Well, you could be in Somalia.
OCD, ADHD is a Jewish conspiracy
YOLO, OP.
Try not to waste it.

>> No.14911227

>>14910798
Once my linkies make me one of the owners of this planet i will nut so hard in this sex angel her saliva will be my cum

>> No.14911239

>>14911227
why is link shilled so hard? what's makes it better than any other alt coins out there?
For me, it's doge coin.

>> No.14911241

>>14910798
An Hero before it gets any worse.

>> No.14911254

>>14910798
Find an Ayahuasca center near you. There you will be healed.

>> No.14911262

>>14910798
quit throwing yourself pity parties. this thread is a perfect fucking example of what you do on a consistent basis. stop feeling sorry for yourself. you are actively destroying yourself through pity. get over it. you fucked up. now make it right. stop drugs with pure willpower. channel your autism into something useful that will help you in life, like a new career. be the change you wish would just happen. discipline is freedom.

>> No.14911279

>>14911216
>OCD, ADHD is a Jewish conspiracy
i wanted to believe this, thats why i refused therapy help the last 5 years
>yolo op
i did anon. i did to the point where im nuked out of 4 substances laying in a brothel with romanian whores with wads of cash in my pocket risking getting killed, for 2 years straight.
>try not to waste it
what exactly shouldnt i waste? life? its been hell.

being sober is pressure because im not drugs
being high is pressure because im not sober

i cant find moderation. only black and white.

>> No.14911305

>>14911121
Thanks. I needed that today.

>> No.14911412

>>14911262
>willpower
man i wish i could beat this autism and addiction with willpower. i been trying a hundred thousand times until my impulsive brain snaps and i become a different person.

anti depressants are used for ocd. i dont know if its worth a try or will make everything worse.

>> No.14911457

>>14910798
try meditation and not being a pussy?
start going to the gym 5 days a week, hour of weights, 15-30 min of cardio.
It's fucking tough, I have ADHD and OCD, i forced myself to beat it. Gym, yoga, meditation, starting to read an hour a day, it'll help you beat all of this. It's far easier to be distracted than it ever was...

Also, suggested book: millionaire fastlane by MJ deMarco, just because i think it's a good book.
Good luck anon.

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>>14911279
Fren, I struggled with drinking and smoking cigarettes.
Here's the thing: you've lived without it before. You need discipline. You need to find peace. There isn't a fucking 10 step program and if there was whoever invented it would be a billionaire.

You got any pics of those romanian whores tho?

>> No.14911488

>>14911061
>Yea, Um, Who is this

Who? That isn’t a who. I think you meant to say what sex object is this.