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Long story short, exactly 1 year ago, me and my gf broke up because she and her parents wanted me to marry her and buy a home to live together. An average price of an apartment at that time was 420 k euro, and my gf proposed that we each pay half. She was aware of my investments in crypto as I told her that I do want to marry her, and I don’t even need her to pay half of the appartment as long as she is willing to wait a maximal of 3 years. At that time in my opinion LINK was at the absolute lowest and I will never ever sell my 500 k Link at that price.

I was 27 then and she was 26, I rationalized that it is still reasonable to get married at the age of 30 with the financial situation all figured out for the future, instead of living paycheck to paycheck stressfully.

However sadly after having discussed this many times before, we finally decided that the timing between us just wasn’t right anymore, I gave her the feeling that I was only dragging for time, and that I didn’t have plans for the future, unlike some of her friends who are getting married already at 26 and have bought an apartment as well as had beautiful weddings. I told her a couple of times already that was she is seeing from her friends are only superficial and that deep down their situation is probably far from as rosy as it seems, but she didn’t seem to believe it...

Zoom out a year later, and my 500 k link stack is now worth 1.6 million euro’s , if she was still here I would have gladly sold 150 k of my Link for an apartment as well as a fancy wedding or whatever, but she is not here anymore and I am still heartbroken deep within.

I feel guilty but at the same time I am a man who follows my own conviction. I am now aware that I will never find a girl anymore that loves me for who I really am and neither will I love a girl anymore with my heart.

>> No.14539243

Why has biz suddenly become a place to make blog posts? Summarize that shit in 2-3 sentences, faggot! tldr! This isn't plebbit

>> No.14539249

Tldr; my gf and I broke up because I did not want to sell my 500 k link stack at 0.48 cents, now I will probably be stinking rich but I will never find true love again, did I do good?

>> No.14539293

>>14539249
buy in avg price???

>> No.14539316

She would just cheat on you and divorce to take half your shit, are you a pleb??

Fuck women and fuck love, that shit is fake and never works. Never tell anyone your profits don’t be a beta bitch

>> No.14539319

>>14539249
Go get her back!

>> No.14539327

>>14539249
Dude you made the right decision, congrats on that. I have a similar link stack and nobody not god himself will separate me from it.

>> No.14539348

>>14539249
And when you get her back, make her parent's suck your balls for 100 LINK a piece.

>> No.14539375

>>14539213
Sounds like she didn't love you that much anyway. You were not worth waiting for.

>> No.14539377

>>14539213
Dodged a bullet there

>> No.14539378

>>14539249
Yeah, if she loved you she would have waited. But women cant love.

>> No.14539393

>>14539213
You’ll find love bro. Find a good woman, don’t let her know about your earnings until you FULLY trust her. Don’t go back to your ex, you’ll only have hell to pay.

>> No.14539407

>>14539213
You are retarded. Women will never love you for you, but what you offer. They are hypergamous by nature and all whores.

>> No.14539415

>>14539213
>I feel guilty
that's what they do, fucking whores
now cashout half, buy a nice house and a comfy car, buy few things you really need and let the rest ride free
find a new girl, she already got a bbc at this point

>> No.14539421

>>14539249
find another girl. they out there bro!

>> No.14539424
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14539424

After you made her comfortable when you woo her back into your life, you face fuck her, and cum right in her mouth/all over her face in a violent manner, and just throw her on the ground and leave her there and never contact her again.

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>>14539213
does she know what its worth right now?
if she doesn't, you should tell her.
Pic related

>> No.14539448

>>14539213
Good job anon, you stuck to your beliefs. Very few men like that around these days. I'm sorry things didn't work out, it sounds like she was a bit short sighted, sometimes girls want to get married asap for the sake of getting married, not caring about the sacrifice. One of the reasons why there are so few marriages that last these days.

You will find a girl who loves you for who you are. Don't splash your money around, and never tell anyone how much you're really worth - if word gets out, the bloodsuckers will be after you and you will never be able to find an honest women.

You did good anon.
Godspeed.

>> No.14539463

>>14539213
>7 year GF
>western faggots in a nutshell

>> No.14539470

Women are all psychic and can tell the future. She knew you would be a millionaire if you didnt sell your stack, and since this would afford you better women than her she sought to sabotage you. Conviction is all you have in life fren.

>> No.14539475

>>14539293
First buy in was 100 k link at 24 cents presibos and second buy in was at 0.15-0.17 cents after the dump, i went all in and bought 400 k extra and literally pumped the price with 2 cents.

>>14539316
I am redpilled about women and she wasn’t that kind of women. She had no social media, no instagram, no snapchat and no facebook. Also during our first year of dating she told me all she wanted to do was get married and start a family to which I replied np. At that time I was still of a wagie mindset working a part time accountant job.

>>14539319
Haven’t spoken to her or checked on her during the whole year after we broke up, I don’t believe it will ever be the same again even if I got her back. Just heartbroken.

>>14539327
I want to believe that I did, but everyday just 5-10 min I will think about that time and feel sad, sigh.

>> No.14539485

>>14539243
no fucking shit, this place sucks cock now

>> No.14539561

>>14539213

the true nature of women.
Thats kinda why i went through a phase of banging older women in my mid 20s. I dated a chick in her early 40s (asian, looked younger) who never had kids and made great money. she got super attatched to me and idk why but i went into a relationship with her for a while.
Although i wouldn't do that again, i look back kinda fondly on it because she was with me for me and that was it, for validation from me and because she liked me and liked the fucking. i was broke, she knew it, and she didnt need or want that from me.

Girls my age now are the opposite. all looking for cash and status. Cant find a relationship without feeling like im selling out.

>> No.14539563

>>14539249
>>14539327
how did you faggots manage to get such a stack is beyond me, I've been all in since nov 2017 and I only have 55k.

>> No.14539619

>>14539433
I did tell her, but she probably forgot the next day anyway, she does not really care about these stuff, the very mention of investing stresses her out because her dad had lost 30 k investing options before.

>>14539407
That is why I don’t believe I will find anyone anymore for the remained of my live , well at least I still have you fellow marines right ?

>>14539421
I will just let the things be and see what fate has in store, will definitely buy a dog though, any recommendations?

Thanks for the pep talk all other anons.

>> No.14539620

>>14539213
also op, marry some other girl and send your ex pics of your mansion and 18 year old wife, the roastie was about to hit the wall and she had to lock in a beta faggot and she left you because she wasn't certain 100% of your commitment, do you fucking understand this shit? she supposedly loved you and all the shit that comes with it loyalty etc. then she dropped you like a rock because of statistics... if you think she doesn't deserve to suffer, you need to rethink what she did in another perspective.

>> No.14539622

>>14539475
trustfund baby or larp then ..

>> No.14539638

>>14539561
Same story here except it was a hot passing tranny instead of an old roastie

>> No.14539654

>>14539475
So if you didn't leave on bad terms, why don't you talk to her without telling her of your link or other gains and see how it goes.

>> No.14539674

>>14539319
this is the WORST advice anyone can ever give, or anyone has ever given, PERIOD

op dont listen to biz

>> No.14539695

>>14539249
>true love
ahahaha you fucking idiot

>> No.14539700

>>14539638
go on

>> No.14539711

>>14539654
yeah just buy an appartment tell her its yours and never talk about link even when asked.would be fun

>> No.14539749

>>14539213
>parents ensure their daughter isn't straight used by some retarded man-child
Great seeing families start to operate in a more traditional manner. Helping their daughters discard nigger-tier men.

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>we finally decided that the timing between us just wasn’t right anymore
lmao wtf does this even mean. OP, like most women, your gf was retarded for not understanding long term returns. Stop being a little bitch and start thinking of the things you can achievement with these upcoming gains from not having to pay for half of that whores fantasy house

>> No.14539784

>>14539619

I feel bad for you OP

>> No.14539789

>>14539620
I don’t feel hate towards her, I understand her point of view and if I was in her position I probably would have done the same.

When link hits 100$ I would never buy a mansion or anything like that, I have long realized that I only need a comfy bed , a comfy chair and desk and a comfy room anyway, all the other stuff in the apartment is wasted space to conform to other’s expectation.

I do want to generate a diversified cash flow, I will operate a node for staking, I am doing research on fully automated supermarkets, I plan to open a small fully automated supermarket under every apartment for cash flow once link is over 100$, also properly 8-10 apartments in the city for rent using airbnb.

>> No.14539806

jesus you sound like a teenager drama queen, when are you going to realize that AWALT anon?
hurr durr muh true love is gone so will think about her while she gets that BBC

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>speculator
>heart
>no makes

>> No.14539875

>>14539700
It was pretty much a similar story to the other anon. I met her at my old job during a class all new employees had to take, asked her out without knowing she was trans, before we went out on our date, an old roastie approached me and told me "her secret", probably to bully her and see my reaction. I went out with her anyway, waited for her to tell me which she did on the second date, told her what had happened with the roastie and that I didn't care, she cried, we fugged, then started dating, it was a very nice half a year thing. I have to say it was the best sex I ever had, and probably the most interesting conversation as well. Very loyal, great cook, smart and hot, we only broke up because of distance she lived a two hour drive away which eventually took its toll on the relationship. It's fair to say men can be better women than actual women.

>> No.14540007

>>14539875
>she
damn 6 months ... did you suck her cock?
also, a little jelly desu

>> No.14540077

>>14539249
Dude go back and try start smth with her do not tell her about your money and sign a pre nup with the only stipulation being any and all money you have or will put into crypto and all money you have/will remove from crypto asset gains.

Tho this may raise your local countrys tax regulator.

>> No.14540107

>>14540007
>did you suck her cock?
Nah, I mostly did anal on her and a little of crotch to crotch rubbing with clothes on. >she gave great head and also would rub >her own dick. desu I avoided the dick, it seemed to make her uncomfortable for me to know it was there, very often would turn her back on me to fuck so I wouldn't even see the dick.

>> No.14540158

>>14539424
FINaLLY this trip fag says something worth following.

>> No.14540175

>>14539249
She didn't love you, she wanted to trap you with marriage like a fucking spider. Once she realized the fly wasn't going to land in the trap, she moved her web. Get it? Women are only capable of loving two things: Themselves, and their children. You're a disposable effort pool they can draw from. They are VERY good at manipulation because they've literally evolved to be good at it. Don't fall for their tricks.
Also sell 100k right now, holy shit.

>> No.14540186

>>14539249
>true love
>broken apart by impatience
that's not 'love' dumbass. she is a high time preference whore who wanted to lock you down. you are lucky to have split up because you would forever have to deal with her unreasonable short term expectations that have no purpose besides 'me me me me me me' all while she blames you for being selfish. go pound out some hooker gash and do whatever, you'll be fine.

>> No.14540187

If you're worried about being loved for your money instead of who you are, just find a rich girl.

>> No.14540233

>>14539789
>i don't feel hate towards her
you're a faggot then, sex is and should be reason enough for a woman to be loyal to her man and be with him for life, marriage was just fucking and witnesses witnessing the fucking, all this expensive wedding and take half your shit is an addition, if a woman is with you for 7 years then she is already your wife, the rest are formalities...
i hope i'll make it with my 55k stack, been with gf for 2 years and we had our ups and downs, i will probably leave her when link moons and will travel to some shithole and do drugs until I OD, I used all my brain power for years to find a solution to the woman problem but just couldn't, evolution made them as powerful at cheating and deception as men (more but we have other tricks as well) and all the mental gymnastics in the world couldn't make me accept this and just enjoy it for what it is.
let's say you find a loyal woman, she can either be a 1% unicorn or she can be a 1% sociopath that will never make a mistake or get caught, those are the extremes when you'll think her loyal and good, but you're still flipping a coin.
some stories on plebbit about men in their 60's finding that none of their kids is theirs make me shit my pants in terror, how the fuck can someone you sacrifice everything for do this shit and lie about it for decades is something I will never have the IQ to comprehend.

>> No.14540239

>>14539470

Lots of truth in this post unironically

>> No.14540300

>>14539213
you did well anon, she was a bitch.
IF she's not willing to wait for you she did not deserve you.

>> No.14540433

>>14539213
Honestly if you had sold for the apartment you would resent her at this point, and since you wouldn't sell she left you. This was a no win situation. Schrodinger's Sergey.

>> No.14540464

>>14540186
>short term expectations
>waited 7 years for the nigger to do something
absolute state of melanin-enriched men

>> No.14540513

>>14539475
>she wasn’t that kind of woman

Good luck OP, you’re in for a treat

>> No.14540528

>>14540433
I never thought about it this way.. thanks for giving me more perspective, it is interesting

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>>14540107
You are a disgusting faggot.

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>>14539875
> she
> her

>> No.14540871

>>14539213
OP im also thinking the same thing, i never can have a girlfriend because she will too dumb to DYOR

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>>14539875
>probably to bully her and see my reaction
She was trying to save you from pic related, but didn't know you were a flaming homo hungry for man ass.

>> No.14541015

gold digger useles cunt, just get a better bitch with that money

>> No.14541129

>>14540464
melanin-enriched women, ftfy. if she couldn't figure out how to make it work for 3 more years until he could retire them both for life then she's a braindead yasqween

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>>14540881
kek

>> No.14541261

>>14539213
>Long story short
>Writes a fucking novel

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You did good, OP. The bitch should have known you were never selling your linkies. She didn't deserve you or Link

>> No.14541274

>>14539213
Fuck Bitches, Get Money.

>> No.14541321

>>14539249
You did fucking great. I wish I had my 500k link stack still, sold mine around 50 cents like you were going to. It hurts like hell, I've just been staring off into space the last few days thinking about how I fucked up. Missing out on that might have even caused a fight between you two and led to a divorce. Don't have regrets, you made the right call.

>> No.14541420

>>14539213
>spending 50k on Chainlink
>living from paycheck to paycheck

>> No.14541472

>>14541420
It sounds crazy, but it was the best thing you could have done financially

>> No.14541519

Nice blog post, faggot. Now buy more LINK.

>> No.14541547

>>14539213
op you're the party at fault here, your girlfriend was 26 and her biological clock was ticking. She had maybe 10 years left to have kids, after 35 the rate of birth defects (esp. Down's syndrome) start to go up exponentially. You literally chose money over having a family.

There's no "love" that's degenerate feminist bullshit that both genders fall into. Marriages made for calculated reasons (common goals, economic or political interest that marriage helps) are stable and last very long. Marriages made for "love" end up in a divorce.

The law system heavily favors women and destroys marriage by making divorce profitable, but that's a separate matter.

>> No.14541628

>>14540528
OP you will be able to find another woman out there, especially with the wealth you will have. If you can get her while she's young, she'll have the same family mindset as your ex did. Hang in there

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>mfw the never fucking selling meme ends up ruining /biz/'s IRL relationships

absolutely fucking based.

NEVER fucking selling.
Not at $1.
Not at $5.
Not at $10.
Not at $50.
Not at $100.
Not at $1000.
Not even at $10000.

NEVER.
FUCKING.
SELLING.

YOU FILTHY KIKES WHORES, AND REDDITORS WILL NEVER TOUCH A SINGLE ONE OF MY LINKIES.

MY LINKIES STAY SUPER STINKY

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>>14539789
Hey OP, I'm pretty close to being in the same boat as you just a year earlier. I'm starting to feel the strain on my 6 year relationship and it's playing out the exact same as your story.
Advice time-
It's good that you understand her POV, since for women they have very strong economic & biological pressure to settle before hitting the wall ~30. The good news is there are still good women out there, and it actually gets EASIER to find them the more time/money you have, despite what people may tell you.

Since you're so well grounded financially, you have a low risk of attracting gold diggers and shallow people. Just don't flaunt your wealth, focus on self-improvement and try what the world has to offer. Women are people, and people aren't too different from one another when you meet a lot of them. Once you are comfortable with the man you have become, find someone who enables you to be your best person, and don't settle for any less.

PS don't tell anyone here or IRL about your link stack, it makes you a target

>> No.14542082

>>14539475
>part time accountant job
>100 K USD just laying around
never change biz

>> No.14542530

>>14539213
Girlfriend and I broke up last week because of LINK. 6 years. I got rich before she got skinny. I just couldn't do it anymore. I will fuck hookers the rest of my life instead of fucking another fat chick if I have to.

>> No.14542739

>>14540107
I fucking love this senpai. Are we rich yet

>> No.14542815

>>14541547
I understand that, she told me this countless times as well, but according to her that rate goes up at 30, the deadline i set guarantees that if link amounts to nothing in 3 years, I will just marry and settle with an apartment... houses were selling at ath prices as well at that moment, I just didn’t see why there was such a rush

>>14541628
This probably will be the case, but I just feel guilty knowing that if maybe I used that effort on her instead of this new girl, things might have changed at the end..

>>14542082
At that time a lot of shitcoins were mooning , I just had the sensibility to shift all the p and d’s into link at the right moment.

>> No.14542879

>>14541777

Checked, thanks for the advice, apart from my ex the only person who knows about my Link stacks is my best friend who started his own business. I told him about Link as well in 2017 but he only managed to buy 27 k link. So far telling him has been a mistake already haha, so I don’t plan on telling anyone about it anymore for the rest of my life.

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>>14539213
We have truly achieved peak reddit

>> No.14543120

>>14539213
Well she definitely didn't love you as she put the peer pressure of her friends and family over you op. You did well find someone new now

>> No.14543142

>no proofs
Fuck off.