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She said it should be a joint account so she can use it to. She does not work and basically wants to shop with it. Wtf do I do.

>> No.14322154

>>14322144
Just say no, she’s only a gf, not your wife.

>> No.14322163
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>>14322154
Ya but then she will dump me for sure

>> No.14322167

Shit larp, you already know where you're posting this thread and what the answers will be

>> No.14322169

did you put a ring on it? if not, dont worry. Imagine how upset youre gonna be if you did give her access. Remember, girls cant help themselves to take. Thats all they know

>> No.14322184

If she's just a gf then why would you give her so much access? 0/10 larp

>> No.14322187

please stop with these shit bait threads

>> No.14322198

>>14322163
Bullet dodged

>> No.14322212

>>14322144

You say “fuck no”. Get a new gf too

>> No.14322276

>>14322163
you'll be glad it's now and not several years down the road

>> No.14322379

>>14322144
Tell here you're saving for your kids. Why does she wanna spend it?

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>>14322144
>someone I occasionally put my penis in wants to spend all my money
>is this smart?

>> No.14322423

>>14322144
Ditch the bitch

>> No.14322424

>>14322144
that's a sell signal bro

>> No.14322425

have sex and dump her

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>>14322163

>> No.14322489

>>14322144
I have a credit card with a small 1k limit that my gf keeps and uses
It keeps her from blowing too much off my money

>> No.14322494

Have a join account but actually keep all your funds in a crypto wallet.

>> No.14322499

lol why you dating such a worthless hoe in the first place?

>> No.14322513

>>14322163
congrats op, you managed to catch a good for nothing gold digger.

>> No.14322515
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14322515

Open her own account and give her a monthly portion of your paycheck. Just enough to keep her happy if you think you will marry her.

>> No.14322549

>>14322167
>>14322184
>>14322187
Based and red pilled

>>14322163
>>14322169
>>14322212
>>14322276
>>14322379
>>14322406
>>14322423
>>14322424
>>14322425
>>14322494
>>14322499
cringe and blue pilled

HIDE BAIT THREADS
IGNORE BAIT POSTS
DO NOT REPLY TO BAIT POSTERS

>> No.14322687

>>14322163
So she is with you only for money, fucking cuck, dump her

>> No.14322700

>>14322154
not even your wife

>> No.14322713

>>14322406
........Dr. Phil??

>> No.14322764

>>14322154
>>14322169
>>14322515
>giving your wife your money
Why the fuck would you ever do this? Open secret bank accounts, put savings into crypto, open a shell corp in the Cayman Islands, just do whatever the fuck you have to do to prevent your woman from spending your wage bucks. I had to click 50 captchas to tell you faggots this so take my advice seriously.

>> No.14322769

>>14322144
lol imagine being so cucked to allow a girl access to your finances

>> No.14322886

the whorr just sent you the bill a little later. and you thought by having free sex in the meantime you are better than us. haha fuck you.

>> No.14322896

Not even if she was your wife and the mother of your children.

Also, get someone who isn't such a financial liability. She gets pregnant you're fucked.

>> No.14322899

just open a new bank account , put some money on it, voila

>> No.14323526

>>14322764
>click 50 captchas

lmao

>> No.14323551

>>14322886
lel

>> No.14323593

Go all in on Resistance dex and manage your finances on that platform.

girls can't crypto anon, everyone knows that.

>> No.14323656

Fuck her arse red raw - then kick that slut to the curb

>> No.14323711

Even if you were married a joint account is a bad idea as it reduces your credit score and availability

>> No.14323906

>>14322144
Anal

>> No.14324107

>>14322144
Only when she gives birth can she have that.

>> No.14324211

>>14322700
This guys got it.

>> No.14324249

>>14322144
make a new account with a CC and auto-wire a monthly allowance to it. Give her the CC and have the CC on your own name. Don't sign anything allowing her to officially access your account.

Or just autowire allowance to her own account

>> No.14324567

>>14322144
If the pussy is worth it tell her you'll do it when you're married. If not find better pussy.

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>>14322144

Create an account on another bank , and make a regular deposit there naming it " Job wage XXX Company you work".

dont tell her about your finances , if she divorces you put it all on monero and exit that bitch

>> No.14325616

>>14322144
Repeal & replace

>> No.14325659

After one recent thread on biz, I'm eager to believe that your GF is just shittesting you. By yielding, you fail and give her the signal that you are a spineless walk-over. You also give her pussy the signal to remain devoid of any moisture while you are in her vicinity

>> No.14325692

>>14322144
With revolut you can set her maximum spending allowance or only allow spending over a certain amount if all the girlfriends agree.

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>>14322163
Imagine being this cucked. Men needing to be in relationships even if they're dysfunctional and women worship in general is fucking disgusting.

>> No.14326515
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Dump it

>> No.14326612

>all these replies

You should be ashamed of yourselves

>> No.14326840

>these incels itt with their incel protips
yeah keep all the money op why should she have any fun you faggot

>> No.14327327

>>14326840
watch out we have a soiboy over here

Dont give your girlfriend money for "shopping". If she wants to go shopping then she has to work for the money.
Ofc if she would be your wife AND the mother of your children you should care for her. But as long as she is only your girlfriend dont give her money.

I want to emphasize the word "AND". Even if shes your wife, if you two dont have children theres no excuse for your "future wife" to dont have to work and earn money

>> No.14327401

I don't have a join account with my wife. That's retarded, we just split responsibilities. She has her money and I have mine. I give her money only if she gives a reason.

Imagine giving your fucking gf money.

>> No.14327411

>>14322144
NO.

>> No.14327438

You people literally believe everything that's posted here

>> No.14327467

>>14322764
> Secrets
Me and Wife have separate bank accounts. We outright respect that we earn different wages and she spends her money, and I spend my money. When we want to make a joint purchase she sends it to me. When we want to pay rent. She sends her half to me. When we want to do anything; we discuss how to handle the finances and move from there.

/biz/ needs to grow a fucking backbone.

>> No.14327505

>>14322144
>Wtf do I do.
Say no. If it's your money, you're going to control it. If she does stuff for both of you like clean the house every time and other important things then maybe give her a fixed allowance (into her own segregated account), and then anything exceeding that, you decide case by case.

If you give her access to your own accounts, it will likely count strongly towards you being treated as married by common-law, meaning, she can divorce-rape your wealth as if you were married.

>> No.14327532

>>14327467
Huh? But I’m the provider desu

>> No.14327570

My fiance said we're going to have a joint account when we get married. I make 2x as much as her. She's not a gold digger but I don't want to do this. Have any of you guys had a wife make this request?

>> No.14327596

Hey OP. I'm the kind of guy that has to learn the hard way. So with the obvious response being FUCK NO, I figured I'd find out for myself

it's just a bad fucking idea all around, I mean it's an absolutely horrible idea

t. someone who got fully immersed in a financially cucked relationship

I became a hard worker. The hardest worker you'll ever meet. That's the one good thing to come from it. Everyone loves a hard worker

But I lost a lot of money and I haven't had sex in almost 5 years now, in a 10 year relationship. It's actually pretty fucked up. We used to see eachother kind of casually. 5 years ago I started getting sick in my lungs. She stopped coming to see me cause she didn't want to get sick (well, I had a cold, and whatever sickness is in my lungs just made it much worse) and a few months passed and she started asking for money. I had a bad feeling, but I was really into her and wanted to spend my life with her and I thought I'd just fucking roll the dice and see what happened. Well I sent her like $1000 for artwork and she never even gave me the artwork (she lives 1hr away). Then she said she needed some kind of surgery. I started sending her EVERYTHING. I mean I was sending her every fucking thing I could. It went on for years. After a while she said she'd had surgery but still needed help cause she didn't have a job yet, and we kept making plans to get back together and she kept finding a reason not to. I cut contact. about 6 months later I started thinking of her like crazy and I texted her happy birthday. She wasn't responding and I finally drove to her house, she would only crack the door for me, said I broke her heart and I fucked her over etc. I sent this woman everything I could while working 80 hrs per week minimum wage no time-and-a-half racking up debt, and I fucked her over

it's just bad all around anon, never give a woman money, well at least have kids first

>> No.14327598

>>14327438
This shit happens every day. I've seen grown men beg their girlfriends to be able to use the money in their own checking account LOL

>from behind my retail counter

JUST

>> No.14327600

>>14322144
Demand she gives anal daily for two weeks and then you'll consider it.

>> No.14327610

>>14327570
>My fiance said we're going to

>> No.14327633

>>14327570
The compromise is make an account you share that you slip some money in each pay cycle

>> No.14327651

Tell her only wives get joint accounts and if she's serious she should bear your kids and marry you.

>> No.14327663

>>14327596

What did it take for you realize you were a cuck? Damn feel bad for you anon.

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>>14322489
>I only let my gf fuck jamal once a month, aren't I based?

>> No.14327736

>>14327663
I knew what I was getting into before I started, but I thought I could just live as her little bitch boy and I would be OK with that. But I didn't know she would never actually want to see me again. I thought we could like move in together and she could whip me and shit like that, or something, I mean anything. Not just live an hour apart and just talk through texts and money wires.

Basically, women don't respect men who cave into such requests. But I thought she could be above that and still be able to see me. But I guess she didn't have the gumption. It's disappointing honestly. The saddest thing is she's old and she used to do drugs and she's got a face not many can love. I would literally eat her shit. And she's letting me go, and probably gonna die alone, she just has an old dog that's on his last leg, but she can't bring herself to see me again it seems. It's mind boggling but I can't dwell on it

>> No.14327803

>>14327596
ARE YOU REAL

>> No.14327825

>>14327803
yes 100%

my feet hurt

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>>14322144
(((((Gf)))))
Hahahahahaha you got played my friend
Mfw

>> No.14327976

>>14322144
Kick that fold digger to the curb. Plenty more in the sea of fishz

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>>14322163
>My gf wants access to my bank accounts
>If she doesn’t get them she’s going to dump me
Lol wtf is this, a robbery? It sure sounds like it haha
Bro just walk away man
Just ((((walk away))))
>best advice you’re ever going to get
https://youtu.be/m8Gt51tu-ls

>> No.14328114

Just say no, you’re not even married with her

>> No.14328253

>>14327438
We knows if fake, we reply for fun

>> No.14328274

Tfw my parents have had zeparate finances. It's only natural for me to continue, get money tangled leads to disaster

>> No.14328334

fake and gay. I have had some gold-digger gfs (eth OG chad here) but none of them asked this kek. I paid for silicone and restylane tho :)

>> No.14328391

>>14322154
>implying theres a difference between sharing bank accounts between wife and girlfriend

>> No.14328498

>>14322549
B A S E D

I think you retards enjoy these threads since you can relate to the cringe and bluepilled LARPs

>> No.14328691

>>14327600
>Demand she gives anal daily for two weeks and then you'll consider it.

Checked. Knowing you are going to tell her "NO" after those two weeks will make it feel even better. Also parsley ____ rosemary and thyme.

>> No.14329540

>>14322163
I can see you have a real solid basis for your relationship

>> No.14329613

>>14322154
lol not even wives should be allowed to do that.
its the case where i grow up.
man and woman make their own money, but they keep it seperate.

>> No.14329741

>>14322163
If she does You'll know she was in just for the money

>> No.14329778

>>14322144
you're probably an effete weakling.
if you were moderately strong you'd have the balls to tell her "no". and calmly walk away. women will usually do fucking anything you want when faced with this prospect.

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14329944

Good thing I have a based INTJ Latina gf, if anything shes the one that pays for my shit. Must be depressing being with a white roastie in 2019...

>> No.14329983

>>14327651
This is so simple. Joint bank accounts are for fully committed partnerships. Obviously the only reason you would partner with a woman is to have children. The fact that you gf wants access to your money now, despite having no good reason to spend it that would be in both your interests, is a very bad sign. You gf is a whore and not wife material.

>> No.14330104

Can we stop replying to OPs bait and come up with some good ways of seperating your money and assets from your gf/wives?

Are trusts worthwhile? Just keep everything in crypto off an exchange? What would /biz/ do if they were in a relationship and didn't want to risk everything on a roastie.

>> No.14330135

>>14322144
>So my
>So I
>So
fuck off stupid plebbitor

>> No.14330152

I gave my gf access to use uber with my credit card...that was bad enough.

>> No.14330200

>>14330104
All in Monero.