/biz/ - Business & Finance

Women are a depreciating asset.

Buy BSV.

>>14025080
Yeah fucking whores are, not a traditional innocent girl from a good family

>>14025087
my wife was the same anon
really special girl that i loved dearly
she still left me when I hit hard times
but at least I kept my links in the divorce.... if she really loves you she'll understand. you will never get another shot at LINK

LINK
oh and get a prenup
if she can't fucking wait then getting married is just a childhood meme to her, as if your relationship is anything less than it was before besides being officially recognized by the government and God.
>setting yourself and your family up for generational wealth or getting married one year earlier than you should because of muh emotions

>>14025063
Seems like a good girl. Nice catch. I suppose she was also a virgin.
I'd say both of your options are OK. So whichever you prefer is alright. Good job, you succeeded. I suggest postponing the marriage date at a fixed date. Express your concerns about current investments and tell them you need time, also express this will help your new family. They must understand.

>>14025080
fuck off subhuman

>>14025063
>implying you actually have a gf at all
I'll throw you a bone OP.
My grandmother from Croatia told me this, "It is never the right time. So you might as well"
And she applied this in the context of getting married, having kids, etc.
Basically, there is always going to be a better time, and it's always going to be in the future. It's all about priorities.

If she's a Christian, I would marry this girl if I were you. Judging from the content of your post, which I read very little of, I would say that you're a smart enough guy to figure a way for it to work out.

Just remember to factor in that your girlfriend might want kids right now too, so if you keep her waiting for LINK (of all things), it might taint your relationship because she'll always remember how you made her wait 9 years to get married. Throwing that our there for your consideration.

>1800/mo apartment
>600/mo car
>32k ring
Nigga, you will NEVER get your financials in order with that attitude.

>>14025063
Link

>>14025131
not everyone is such a depraved faggot as you that there are members of the opposite sex that find them attractive and like them, their family too.

you fucking basement dwelling fags deal in absolutes because you HOPE (cope) that everyone is a pathetic cuck like you

Why is the ring 32k wtf is wrong with americans

>>14025151
he got memed

>>14025063
honest advice; don’t go all in on link just do half of that. You can make it with way less

>>14025148
>>14025063
Maybe I wasn't clear enough. It's never going to be the "perfect time" so just do it now and work through any problems that may come up together.

>>14025098
I am so sorry for you anon...
She brought this up 2 years ago and waited patiently, but because of peer pressure from her family and her girlfriends and friends around us getting married, I can feel she is starting to get stressed out and impatient because of this, Everytime I see her now I feel guilty as fuck because I am hesitating in the thing she really fucking wants and I should be happy instead of the current state I am in

>>14025119
Yes, this is what I keep on trying to explain, but her family can’t understand it and it brainwashes her

>>14025063
>$32k for a ring
Why that much for a fucking ring?
>$600/month for a car
What kind of car do you NEED that costs 600 a month?
Apartment/house expenses I can understand. Everything else is overkill. If you cut both the ring and car costs in half, you wouldn't even notice a difference.

>>14025063
Divorce your wife. Marry the game. Its what she wouldve wanted, yo.

>>14025063
I'm in the same situation, more or less. I told my GF I will never marry or go into any serious debt because of pressure from other people. I said I need to get my finances in order and then I'm more than willing to do all of that. If she really loves you, 2 years is nothing. If she needs this more than anything, it's a huge red flag. Bail on her. This is actually the best situation you could hope for. You will know, with all certainty, if she's worth it or not.

>>14025063
Dude, don't let this girl go, don't get a 30 fucking thousand dollar ring, you can literally propose and not set a date for the wedding just to make everyone happy,,, plus u don't need 159k link to.make it, link WILL go above 100$ guaranteed many link Marines will make it it's just the bigger the stack the shorter the wait

>>14025168
Just propose to make everyone happy and you can just push the wedding forward

>>14025148
>implying LINK will ever be worth more than 1.20 again

The only faggot here is you.

>>14025080
Fpbp

>>14025168
With 170k Link you could start your own playboy mansion
Dump the harpie

If she's not happy with a $500 ring fuck her off.

>>14025063
32K for the ring? Buy a nice 6 k one. Why kn earth would you pay 32K for a ring?
Otherwise great set up. You can be fine with marriage you're more than set
T. Married

>>14025168

It's simple Anon.

>buy a ring under $1K. I forget what they're called but it's not a diamond it's some other type that is just as brilliant etc. and it's dope she'll never know (tell her if u want)
>get engaged and set a date for the wedding in 1-2 years after LINK moons
>go mostly all-in LINK and don't have to worry about her complaints anymore

>>14025206
>>14025200
>>14025170

The 600 is including all the insurance, maintenance and fuel for transportation.
Yeah I am pretty pissed about the ring as well, but it’s stuff her family thought was important.. I can probably get away with a 10 k ring as well, but it feels bad

>>14025063
Marry her, you fool.

Chainlink and all erc20 tokens are going to zero.

>>14025063
lol at 32k for a ring. Stupid stupid. Nope do pay that. $3500. Tops for a ring.
Put the rest in investment.

>>14025119
Bullshit. They've been together for 7 years. It's high time he married her. If everyone is pressuring him like that family pressure may get her to leave.

>>14025063
Live your life- seriously. All the money in the world is useless... im literally in the same situation i choose a 10k LINK stack(because if it really is the chosen coin, 10k is enough) now i have a house, land, stable job, a loyal women who cooks ,cleans, and wants the same goals as me... wedding in 4 months.

Trust me, companionship is invaluable... go live. If LINK moons you shouldnt need 150k. Dont lose what you have. LINK mooning is not promised- and ulitmately "making it" is a mental attitude.

My life is rich. I wouldnt trade it for the world.
>Auf der Heide blüht ein kleines Blümelein
Und das heißt, Erika

>>14025063
I think your gay

This thread reaks of curry.
Fuck chain link shills.

>>14025063
There are so many red flags in your post your obviously larping or baiting

Anyway , thanks for some of the honest advice anons, it feels good to read real and good advice. I will probably propose and set the wedding a 2 years in the future if they can accept that, I don’t really know how that stuff works. Always thought that you have to marry immediately after proposing. I can probably live with a 75k stack of link as well while doing compromising on some on the above stuff.

Not sure if larp. 32k for a ring? Did you mean 3.2k which would still be outrageous? The kind of ring my gf wants costs 300-500 €, but she's not retarded and knows how to spend / save money (no, we're def. not poor).

If no larp and she's really one of a kind as you say, then explain the situation. Investments tied up, but marriage in the next 2-3 years after LINK moons. Also don't put so much money into LINK. Doesn't matter if you get a few million less.

>>14025229
Are you marrying a jew?
My wife is more than happy with the 6 K ring I got her and everyone gives her compliments and respects her for it
32K is a downpayment on a house. That's insane.

>>14025063
you can get married without doing wedding m8. u dont even need to live together.

>>14025236
$12k ring tops. Saves you $20k.
You could use that savings to pay $600 a month for the car/fuel/maintenance for nearly 3 years straight.

>>14025236
Forget about her family. I jumped through hoops for 7 years for my GF to be happy and they never stopped complaining about me. If they are already pushing you into something instead of leaving you to the right thing, they don't trust you nor will they ever. They'll turn on you the minute you don't meet their expectations. You can difuse the situation if you propose now but this shit has written "failure" all over it. Love for life is a meme. You will marry her, have some happy moments but she will eventually suck your soul dry and her family as well. You will become bitter because you will think "I could've been a millionaire if I waited 1 year". This chance will never present itself again in your life. Don't be stupid.

>>14025271
Yeah , I didn’t mistype, it’s 32 k... but she never said she needed such an expensive ring, its just one that she really liked. But she is good with everything except everything that has to do with money/finance except not wasting food/electricity/water etc, she always buys organic food, buys lots of clothes (not branded ones) doesn’t know of any important financial news or politics that are happening in the world, basically she just doesn’t care about stuff like that, all she wants is a family

>>14025318
Then get her a good quality ring under 10K. Wtf was she thinking?

>>14025233
unironically this

lol man no woman is worth a million dollars if you don't already have that sort of money. There are plenty of better women than the one you're with currently. Once you make it big then just get a much younger gf and wife her (don't let people know you're well off if you go this option and stay nominally employed so you don't attract gold-diggers)

>>14025063
If you marry her you'll unlock new abilities for making money.

>>14025328
>>14025324
Yeah, I think it’s more like I was thinking if I was gonna marry and propose to her anyway might as well do it good and get the 32 k ring she really wanted as a big middlefinger towards her family for giving me all that pressure, she herself never specificAlly said she wanted such an expensive ring. Her requirements are just around 1 carat diamond ring.

>>14025348
>Her requirements
Anon, I...

THIRTY TWO THOUSAND DOLLARS

>>14025324
Fuck that
If she isnt an 11/10 get her a goddamn ring pop

Again, thanks for some of the advice here, it really cleared my mind and took away some of the stress I have been having. If I didn’t create this topic, I really won’t know what would have happened. My thinking was starting to become very biased to one side and I was thinking the whole time might as well be single again if all I get is this pressure. But some of the stuff said by you guys really made me realize the good things as well however strange that may sound as the topic is still very new

>>14025365
Don't treat your wife cheaply and poorly. That will ruin your relationship.
But don't be a ficking retard and blow over 10K on a ring.

>>14025366
You think your under pressure now. Wait till your married lad.

>>14025379
Stop scaring me lol

>>14025348
Post link to the ring? I'm sure you can find something very similar at a much better cost.

>>14025366
This topic hits home to me. I wish you the best of course but also beg you to get some LINK for yourself. 50K will do wonders for your life. Don't go all in marriage and neglect LINK.

>>14025388
It gets better when you're married if you've got a good girl. From my experience at least.
Make sure you knock her up good, anon.

>>14025063
>cuck yourself with a roastie whore and her bratty spawn vs. get rich af and then settling down with a nice tradcon 18year old and having 10 white children.

>>14025063
Why does it have to be that expensive of a ring? Just ask her to marry you with a cheap ring, if she asks why (she shouldn't) tell her it's bc you're saving money for the future and broke. Then set a date at least a year off and don't spend so much on other shit and still buy your link even if you only spend %80 on it. Use your fucking brain

>>14025407
Its a easy decision for some if us. Lol

>>14025366
it's really a very simple question, anon. Would you rather have this woman, or $10 million dollars at age 30? Personally, I can't imagine loving anyone so much that I would give up a life of leisure and enough money to do whatever I want, whenever I want, until I die. But that's because I'm emotionally broken and likely will never find true love.

>>14025080
Maybe BSV isn't so bad after all...

>>14025440
>I'm emotionally broken and likely will never find true love.
No one in this modern age will find true love. This is the age of self love, which is the antithesis of true love. True love is dead.

>>14025236
Whtat the fuck that is so sick. We bought 90 usd rings... Not because we had no money but because that is so fucking dumb to spend all your money on a ring.

>>14025063
>32k for a fucking ring
abort
that's a shit idea, if they would rather have you blow money on some lame ring than be financially secure it's not worth the risk

Imagine spending more than 1k for a fucking ring. If your wife can't accept a modest ring, drop her. It's such a boomer fucking kike meme. Just tell her about your finances without necessarily mentioning crypto. The 30yo deadline would be perfectly acceptable unless her family are cunts that just want to see you and your kids future ruined for social conformist bullshit. If they're not happy then play dumb and tell your father in law you need money from them for the wedding etc maybe you will gain some time.

>>14025495
this.
In the shallow, western culture, women attach their personal value directly to their material possessions. They are only as good as what they own or what their mate owns. Pathetic fucking society. And this cucked OP falls right into their trap. Although, he's larping, which is obvious af.

>>14025063
>32 k one time cost for the ring
>32k for a ring

Cuck

>>14025348
Imagine letting her have 'requirements' on something as insignificant as a fucking wedding ring. Besides, the price comes from the diamond which have no actual inherent price or value, just perceived value that the merchants conjure up. At least gold has real value to it.
If you're willing to pay 32k for a ring in your financial situation just to 'show' her family you're never going to make it - besides, what is she going to do if the ring isn't satisfactory: leave you if all she wanted was a family?

>>14025570
>Besides, the price comes from the diamond which have no actual inherent price or value, just perceived value that the merchants conjure up. At least gold has real value to it.
Nigger what? How does gold have real value and diamonds don't?

That family and whole situation sounds annoying. If such a ring is required and must be acceptable according to get family and friends, imagine what else they'll try to dictate all your life. Throw them a curve and tell them you're leaving and fuck off

>>14025588
The value of diamonds was created as a marketing campaign by debeers to sell the shit. They're not worth as much as they say and scarcity is artificial

>>14025588
Gold has actual use cases because of its electrical conductivity, also it cannot be created from carbon with high pressure (even if its an expensive process)
Yes diamond can be used in cutting tools because of its hardness but then you can again refer to the 2nd point I made

don't buy a fucking ring worth that much jesus christ. Spend a maximum of $500 on a ring, do a court-house wedding and don't tell her about your crypto. Have kids, force her to breastfeed so you don't have to buy formula, hold a diaper party and baby shower to get all the free shit you can. You'll get the 2k child tax credit per KID. If you spend over 1000 on a wedding ring your a fucking dumbass who loves debt or to waste money on shitty wasteful things like fucking JEWELRY.

>>14025063
>>14025063

"Well son, that kid who keeps beating you in sports because he has professional trainers, and is fucking your girlfriend behind your back, and whose father has a nicer car than me and with the extremely hot wife who bore two times as many children as mine did... you know what that monster did? he made his wife wait an extra year before they got married! so next time you get jealous of the family across the street, just remember your father knows how to treat a woman ;)... after all, can't have the in-laws mad at me! heh! Well, off to the Amazon warehouse. Have a good day at Mc Donalds!"

OP is so gay today i can't even stand it. I just broke up with my girlfriend because she wouldn't be able to handle all the money i have. 60k LINK holder here never selling fuck kikes etc.

OP loves kikes, that's his problem

>>14025610
this desu, I can't imagine bringing a kid in to a family like that, they'll probably force you into all kinds of shit

>>14025610
This post sounds about right.

You can either have your freedom and money, or you can lose it all but in exchange you acquire overbearing in-laws and a "qt waifu" that will just get old and fat in 10 years. The kids might be worth it though, but why would you sacrifice the future in exchange for the here and now because some idiots demanded you do so?

OP you came here not for advice, but for people to talk you out of it. You already KNOW this is a mistake. So man the fuck up and tell them they they can wait until YOU'RE ready or they can shove it up their ass

The problem isn't the LINK or the girl OP, the problem is the ring and the car. Fuck buying a ring that expensive and fuck buying a car that's 600 a month. Buy a 6-8k ring (if you want to spend that much, that's still an expensive ring for most) and a 2-4 year old car. And buy your LINK.

32k for a ring? Is she Eastern European or Asian?

Marry her retard

You can still invest why is this being looked at in black/white

All you need is 10k link. Jesus dude. Women are hard to find especially good ones

OP has heavy bags of gold he wants to unload nobody buys that expensive a ring when their financials otherwise are poor

>>14025087
>Nawalt
Haha

>>14025080
+15 rupees

>>14025063
Fren, how much do you have ? You really dont need to go to 159k. Aim for around 80-100k. I think you will be okay :)

On the other side, if she really want to marry you she should support you and respect your opinion on the matter, do not get forced for marriage because usually it wont end well.

>>14025063

don't get married. you don't need a contract with the government to prove your love to each other.

>>14027039
This + you should want to make it before you get married. If you make it after, 50% of your profit be her.

>>14027039
>you don't need a contract
What about the Smart Contract ?

>>14025136
A lot of this.
>Your mortgage does not need to be more than 1k
>Your car doesn’t need to be more than 300 IF I you even need a new car at all
>If your girl is as honest and modest as you imply a 2k ring would suffice.
And then real talk get married this month or in less than one year from today. There’s no need to wait any longer. Go buy a 50k LINK stack lock it up and never look back. You’ll be married and happy and you will have a nice little Sergey blessing. You don’t have to all-in anything. You don’t have to do everything in the most perfect way. Just do it now get it done and start easing up on yourself. Stop having so much on your plate and enjoy life. Look into statisficing/maximizing and try to maximize less.

>>14025642
Gold is also objectively rare

>>14025168
Okay you won't believe me but I am in a similar situation at 21. I'm telling you, give her the LINK pill. I did with my gf and now she holds 3000 linkies herself bought for 1000$ and I keep her updated sometimes. She wants a kid and get married already but the cost of that would be my entire LINK stack. I maybe have till the end of 2019 to prolong the wait, just explain to her and assure her you are going to do all of this very soon and spend 10x the money on the wedding or whatever. Just be honest with her, try not to sound deluded. It worked with my gf, she didn't go full marine but said "okay I understand and I trust you.". Of course, for women this effect won't last too long and they will want that instant gratification (shiny ring and shiny car) right in that moment soon but it buys you time and gets her on your side. Your life sounds like a dream! You're not in a bad situation, both outcomes are great you just have to balance it right now. Make some compromises, give her exact dates in a end of 2019 and if chainlink doesn't get out of the shitter until then, okay you probably have even more time to accumulate till 2021 or something. If it moons, great go for a big wedding and make your wife happy. Have 4 kids, it's the best number for a family. We are all in this together :)

btw don't fall for the diamonds meme! Explain to her that diamonds can be faked and probably are all faked! Either that or some poor kid suffocated in a mine during the process of getting it out of the ground! Get her a tasteful but more affordable ring. Go for full gold or have a more charismatic stone like Amber worked into it.