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Is being alpha something you are born with, or is it something that can be learned?

>> No.12582899
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12582899

If you don't born with the Chad's genetics, it's something you achieve with money.

>> No.12582900

anyone can learn to be alpha. you just have to be real with yourself. once you unshackle your own chains you are free to be an alpha. you dont subdue yourself to anyone but yourself.

>> No.12582926

It can be learned.

>> No.12583001

>>12582899
And yet he is sending faggy texts to a literal whore and will lose another half of his fortune when he marries her. Not a good example of an alpha.

>> No.12583130

imagine this. you are born good looking, you get all the attention from everyone around, and get showered with compliments every day. you interact with girls from a very young age, and have made a lot of friends ever since you were little. How does this person grow up to be?
All beta's like me can do is try to learn how an alpha thinks, acts, speaks, but you will never have as much confidence as a chad, even if you practice daily from the day you were "redpilled". Also being attractive is what makes an alpha. So you could be as confident, easy-going and sociable as a chad, it would all be for nothing, since people would still see you as inferior to chad.

>> No.12583138
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12583138

Alphas are BORN. No amount of money or status can make up for good looks

>> No.12583148

>>12582899
LOL read his incel tier text messages to a post post prime Latinx whore. Plus he cucked a Jew and not a normal guy, the Jew probably liked it.

>> No.12583151

>>12582900
Nope, OP, everyone that says it can be learned lies.

>> No.12583182

there is no fucking alpha in the human species. the alpha you speak of is just a man who has his shit together, and who doesnt sacrifice his mission for anyone, and who is calm and understanding around women. These are traits you can learn, it's just most people are lazy.

I've personally needed to become more assertive because I used to ignore my needs for the good of the group, but ever since I have my own shit going for me I don't really do that anymore and I've been getting people coming to me for advice.

>> No.12583197

Female butt obsession is a gateway to homosexuality

>> No.12583202

>>12582868
If I said yes to your first question and no to the second, would you take it just like that?

Don't ask for permission.

>> No.12583208

>>12583130
lol dude youre treating girls like theyre this holy fucking shrine that you want to worship. girls are people just like guys. they shit, piss, eat, slobber, etc. just be yourself.

>> No.12583227

>>12582868
Who cares, be the Omega. forget Alphas and Betas.

>> No.12583233

>>12582868
Learned. I've known many betas that were Chad in appearances but not demeanor.

>> No.12583237

The times create the Chad. Think of how many upperclass people who come from chad genetics but were raised in opulence that made them limp wristed nellies.

>> No.12583240

>>12583208
wrong, im actually on the entire opposite side of the spectrum. i would love to see all women die the most cruel death possible. still what i said holds true. if you get a lot of attention at a young age, especially female attention, you will live like a god.

>> No.12583336

Grew into the alpha mode. It’s pretry great you can get some mad bitches to do whatever you want. But at the end it’s always the same, pretty unfulfilling stuff these ho’s with D. Find a chick that has enough $ to double your income and you’ll be happy

>> No.12583408

>>12583182
>calm and understanding around women
reddit has truly taken over

>> No.12583484

>>12583240
>my anguish can’t possibly be because of my learned self loathing

go speak to a therapist you fucking lunatic.

t. someone who cares <3

>> No.12583522

>>12583408
it became reddit after moot left.

>> No.12583529

I am an attractive guy who often gets girls to spill spaghetti around them, and often mire me. The problem is I am antisocial and avoidant as fuck, so I don't get laid

Now that I've graduated from college, I dont have any interaction with girls at all. Feels bad man, I'm a wasted Chad

>> No.12583547

>>12583529
So you're Brad. Beta Chad.

>> No.12583564

>>12582868
Yes if your are able bodied, most people can be alpha.

But it takes a lot of efforts so it's best for many to just take the black pill.

>> No.12583569

>>12583227
Based

>> No.12583573

>>12583547
yep

My life would be so different had I not been so avoidant. If I had just joined a Frat for example, I would be in a much different place. The amount of emphasis people put on physical attractiveness is insane when you realize it.

I've squandered the opportunity. Owell. I have had success with picking up girls however, I just ask for their numbers and twice I've fucked them on teh same day. But this is not as fulfilling as having a wide circle of friends and acquaintences I could go out to places with

>> No.12583579

>>12582868
Every male should be the best he can be.

That means:

1) Lift weights 3-4x a week. Boost that god damn test and carve up the body.
2) Dress with well fitting clothes
3) No odd facial hair or weird beards

^
That right there puts you past 75%+ of men. Period.

However, there is a no-bullshit hack to get some nice 7+ trim:
4) Ride a fucking motorcycle
...
.
On that note, any sport, event, etc. that might fucking kill always gets the trim nice and wet.

>> No.12583589

>>12583182
Do they come to you for sex advice?

>> No.12583602

>>12583579
All of this is useless if you are not social

The skinny DYEL hipster with homeless clothes and scraggly beard is out getting laid because he talks his ass off to girls and hustles on insta/social media apps. Just be slightly charming, no gym, expensive clothes, shaving, or motorcycle required

>> No.12583618

I've been a Chad sporadically when I'm in shape. One girl who was pretty hot used to let me piss all over her face.

One time I did this while I had her on her back on her kitchen floor and after I was done I turned her over and rubbed her face in it. Her 3 year old mixed kid was sleeping in the bedroom maybe 25 feet away too

>> No.12583625 [DELETED] 

>>12583618
LARPing done right.

>> No.12583626

>>12583529
yea you had the chance to be a chad, but youre only avoidant because really, you dont have the confidence to be a chad

its ok im a brad too, in some situations i am a chad then a realize it and tell myself i dont deserve chad status and stick to being brad again

>> No.12583643

>>12583579
>Lift weights 3-4x a week.

LOL

get off the internet and step outside. Successful men do not dissipate their energy on pathetic wastes like "lifting weights", you spastic. Chad plays team sports and fucks Stacy.

In before the usual neckbeard response, "u r just 2 lazy lol"

>> No.12583662

>>12583602
>All of this is useless if you are not social
>The skinny DYEL hipster with homeless clothes and scraggly beard is out getting laid because he talks his ass off to girls and hustles on insta/social media apps. Just be slightly charming, no gym, expensive clothes, shaving, or motorcycle required

Listen here cuckrogan.

Pumping iron in the gym is the best way to build confidence for men that don't have enough and...

PROTIP:

One of the best places to meet women over time who care about staying in shape, etc.

Gym confidence increases your social status everywhere. It's a cheat code that most men don't take advantage of (e.g. You)

Men compete. Learn to compete in the game of life on all levels mental and physical.

The DYEL hipster that slays all day is the rare natty - that obviously isn't you - I just gave you the tips to push forward.

>> No.12583676

>>12583662
the last place women want to be approached is the gym.

>> No.12583713

>>12583662
I've been lifting for 3 years. Personality hasnt changed at all, but I would feel a hell of a lot worse if I didnt excercise regularly

>> No.12583715

>>12583643
If you have never heard of or been to a private gym in your city then you don't know "successful men"

>>12583676
You don't "approach" in the gym. You meet people overtime through small interactions/hellos - then ya see them out when ur out and it's on.

Lol

Im outti.

>> No.12583720

>>12582868

After doing a steroid cycle and having low T my whole life, I can honestly say that being alpha is simply having high testosterone. A lot of that is genetic, but with TRT you can become alpha with 1-2 needle pricks per week.

>> No.12583755

>>12582868

You can very much learn it. Just be very attractive to begin with.

t. former beta

>> No.12583763

>>12583676

Women want to be approached everywhere. You're a true beta looking for excuses.

>> No.12583765

>>12582868
skeleton destiny, bitch

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>>12583720
Fuck. I've already suspected it was this simple. Aside from a few behavioral changes, this is really all you need to be alpha.

>> No.12583836

>>12582868
How does that lady even wear pants?

>> No.12583856

>>12583836
>wearing pants

>> No.12583866

>>12583816
you can raise T naturally

green veggies, onions, red meat, ashwagandha and other chinese/indians herbs, reverse osmosis/distilled water

>> No.12583883

>>12583866
The vegetarians were right all along, onions is great for you.

>> No.12583924

>>12583763
>projecting

>> No.12583968

>>12582868

Yall a bunch of beta cucks, 45 replies lol just fap when your horny and get money to build things

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>>12583883
vegetarians are totally wrong, vegetables are basically useless because they have less nutrients and vitamins than meat (by a substantial margin) and are also full of antinutrients like Phytic Acid which means the bioavailability of the few nutrients they DO have is very low. Meat, fat, and organs meanwhile have no antinutrients and have much much higher levels of basically every nutrient. Bonus points for eating your animal products raw or rare. The quality of the animals has a significant impact on the nutrient density too- grass fed/ pastured animals are much much healthier than grain fed. Raw grass fed animal fat is one of the healthiest things you can eat.

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>>12583836
>literally cannot wear pants
>spends all day with her ass hanging out, ripe for a good spanking
fuaaark I want it so bad

>> No.12584729

>>12582868
the secret to being alpha is taking losses really well. Those guys get told no a lot more than you ever have or will in your life being a beta. Its just about not being afraid of rejection, so when it goes through everyone thinks youre big and bad for pulling her. the concept of "alpha" is just a betas cognitive distortion

>> No.12585565

if you're trying to "learn" how to be alpha. . . then you ain't alpha.