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How many anons here are married/ have gfs? Whats the best thing about it? Whats the worst thing about it?

I'll try to keep an open mind reading the answers

>> No.12146694

>>12146641
Married here. Best thing is to have someone that takes care of you. There is a reason why married men live 3-5 years more than single ones. Also you build thing with that person you are married to (a home, a family). It gives satisfaction.

The worst thing is that, while not willing to share your woman,you want and biologically need others, and that shit builds up. I wish the ratio men to women in nature was 1 to 4 instead of 1 to 1, it would make everybody happier.

>> No.12146709

The best thing about it is when she’s outta the house, am i rite fellas

>> No.12146721

>>12146641
you don't biologically >need< anything of the sort. and unless the word choice was mere habit, please fuck off with your pseudoscientific shit, you idiocratic cancer.

>> No.12146725

>>12146694
Blaming your urge to cheat on your spouse on biology doesn’t make you any less of a scumbag, kek.

>> No.12146732

>>12146641
if you don't have money then you'll probably need a wife, but if you do have money then you probably wouldn't want a wife

>> No.12146740

>>12146641
I have a gf for 3 years and feel trapped. Its a meme. Stay single till you are 35.

>> No.12146743

Lonely here. Life sucks

>> No.12146747

>>12146641
best thing about having a gf is she always has your back unlike any friend could because you're fucking her and living with her. it's nice to have someone you can always count on and go places with. not to mention she's hot af eye candy to look at

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>>12146641
nope

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>>12146740
you say that cause you are used to being with her, be single for about a year and you'll be craving a gf again. or your gf just sucks or isn't hot like mine

pic related, my gf

her ass is 10/10

>> No.12146782

oh and worst thing about it is she sucks up a lot of money and is a responsibility you have to take care of. you have to do things you may not want to sometimes but in the end it's all worth it

>> No.12146790

>>12146761
Imagine actually posting a pic of your gf on 4channel

>> No.12146796

>>12146790
you cant dox her from this pic so who gives a fuck

>> No.12146799

>>12146641
>Whats the worst thing about it?
I got divorced 2 years ago, its cost me over 200,000 so far (home, investments, some income).

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>>12146790
imagine not having a gf to post on an anonymous board

>> No.12146814

Engaged anon here, so far best decision I ever made. I'll have more to report after a decade of marriage, but I wouldn't have it any other way so far. Times can definitely be hard, but you'll find it easy once you meet someone worth it.

Don't for the "marriage is a meme" meme. From what I've experienced it's perpetuated entirely by bitter NEETs and washed up boomers currently on their third wife. Late marriage and falling birth-rates will be what cucks millennials the most when all is said and done, and I personally can't wait another second to start building a family. Everyone else can enjoy their washed up single life living in a studio apartment at age 30.

>> No.12146817

>>12146761
she's cute now, but she's got that "blow up in 10 years" look. Sorry anon, enjoy it while you can

>t. guy who's seen girls blow up

>> No.12146857

>>12146725
That is low t soyo boyo shit right there. The urge to fuck other women is perfectly natural. Acting on it is what makes someone a degenerate.

>> No.12146874

>>12146641
gf, live together, no marriage because I have been putting it off since we started dating in 2012, saying I don't have money for an engagement ring or wedding (I don't)

Best thing: Companionship, and having someone to help you out. She wakes up before me every morning and makes tea or coffee for me.

Worst thing: Lack of privacy. Any weird fetishes you have, she's probably not going to be okay with, but you also won't be able to look at hentai or porn of it as easily as you'd like because she'd say things like, "Why are you locking your bedroom door? You never have your door closed."

>> No.12146886

>>12146641
>the best thing
at the start it seems nice, just like in the past when our grandparents had no internet
she tries to cook for you, she wants cuddle and girly thing and men like this, she wants to do things with you like traveling, watching movies, playing games

>the worst thing
at some point it doesn't feel nice anymore, feeling of commitment, turns to a feeling of lacking freedom. you start fapping to other women. for the girl it's a bit different, because she doesn't have the need to get fertilized by multiple men, however if she feels that you're not the man and a better man seduce her and he's better than you and intelligent, skilled, then on the long run she could have sex with another man. if she has kids with you she will also focus on them instead of you and this can cause major annoyance because with routine she could totally ignore the nice things of the start.
nowadays, relationships never last, it doesn't exist, anyone thinking otherwise is delusional.
after 45/50, this stops being the case and you could have lasting relationships, and usually people have kids from other partners at this point. this will get more and more common. if you're single at this point, men could find young women (20-30) with older man fetishes, women doesn't have it that easy.

>> No.12146910

>>12146886
>t. Virgin neet incel

>> No.12146943

Been living with my chick for 7 years. I'm 35, shes 36. I just got her a ring. Havent proposed yet. Still trying to figure out when and where.

It's better to be with someone that be alone. It's nice having a woman to cook your meals and maintain your home. She does all the bill-paying.

Financially it makes way more sense for 2 people to live together and share expenses than for 1 person to live alone.

>> No.12146991

>>12146814
>Everyone else can enjoy their washed up single life living in a studio apartment at age 30.
And you can enjoy being in debt over 6 figures to the bank for your wife’s dream house. I think the marriage/ single debate always boils down to the grass is always greener on the other side. 2-3 years into a relationship/marriage you will wish you were single more times than not. Flipside a few months or a year of being single and seeing your ex jump from dick to dick or straight into another relationship and you will miss having a S.O. I can attest that random hookups are empty and all those red pillers are mostly larpers, it’s human nature to want a mate I really wish I could kill desire because my experience with women has been awful in my own relationships and those I’ve witnessed with family and friends. I really hope to find a worthy woman one day but only time will tell.

>> No.12147037

>>12146991
>worthy woman
For you that would be the homeless one with no teeth on the street you pass by every day.

>> No.12147038

>People talking about their woman
>Only had conversations with woman here and there
>Never had a gf
>24 kissless virgin
>don't want to accept the fact that I'll die alone
It sucks, it really does. I just don't understand how people even get in a relationship. It's alien to me. The thought of me being in a relationship with someone is strange to me. I wish you all well.

>> No.12147039

>>12146641

I proposed last weekend, feels good lads.

>> No.12147093

>>12147038
WTF are you me ?

>> No.12147101

>>12146991
Don't be bitter fren, you can definitely make it happen. Just by reading your post I can tell that you regard most women as soul-suckers and money-grubbers that will retard you fulfilling your own goals. While this is true for some mates, it's up to you to judge if someone is worth building your team with. Also, you'll be shocked by the motivation you'll discover when your own goals for success also have bearing on the welfare of your SO/future family.

I'll be happy to take out a mortgage one day because it'll be for OUR dream house, not hers. You start thinking differently after being in a committed relationship for a number of years, and working together makes goals like home-ownership possible.

>> No.12147131

Status: had couple of gfs, fucked around 12-15 in toral, 29yo, gf 30 yo since january last year, she came back from australia so we can be together (didnt workout her visa stuff, had one year visa to NZ, valid till march 2019)

Best thing: you can expierience and share life with other person due to common interest I did travel all around the world and done so many things in my life yet after some point it starts to seem pointless. Its nice but U dont enjoy it as u used to do.

Bad thing; if u r semi beta semi alpha guy (I am in between) it is a constant fight. u try to not being pushed around, used and dominated, they r like fuckin kids: pushing ur limits every single day. If u r aware of their dominant nature yet u dont allow for it u r going to have a though fight.
I am ex alco, weed, cigarette addict trying to man up. I like this girl but its tense.

>> No.12147145

>>12146814
nobody is saying its bad dickhead, we're saying its very expensive and its very VERY hard to find a good match. consider yourself extremely lucky, youre in the minority of happy couples.

>> No.12147171

>>12147101
It’s something I really need to work on you’re right I certainly don’t let stuff like what I typed slip in any convos IRL. I sometimes wonder if my negative thought process of women from my past relationships/ browsing the ch0n attracts more broken souls and continues the cycle. Gonna work hard at my own goals this next year atty to limit my negative thought patterns and hope I meet a nice girl organically after I’ve put the work in on myself. Funny I’m not a bitter virgin or incel by any means and have actual had far more success with women than most men yet I’m still single and still bitter at times.

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>>12146814
>Everyone else can enjoy their washed up single life living in a studio apartment at age 30.

>> No.12147204

>>12147038
are you autistic by any chance? do you know how easy it is to get a gf? everywhere i go i see desperate women, obv none of them are that hot but if you really are desperate you can easily get a desperate gf. especially fat girls, they will take literally anyone

>> No.12147274

>>12146694
>There is a reason why married men live 3-5 years more than single ones.

Prob because healthier men have an easier time getting and keeping women, not the other way around.

>>12146747
>best thing about having a gf is she always has your back

kek. I had a gf until this summer. She was obsessed with me, full on crazy soulmate shit (I didn't quite feel the same way, but that's a good thing), plans to quit our jobs now and spend all next year doing whatever, worldwide.

I got sick this summer and was fucked for about a month, maybe less. She saw me in a very weak state, physically and emotionally, and couldn't hack it. I knew she would bail when she started talking about how if we get through this, we'll get through anything, shit like that.

I can't blame her, in fact I knew it would happen as soon as I started getting ill, and said it to some friends. She was so obsessed with me because I was a very certain kind of person, and when I stopped being that person, why would she like me again?

I got better and returned to my old self, but it's too late by then. Once a bitch checks out she's GONE, you can never get that back.

I can't imagine how people stay in a "relationship" indefinitely, it always hangs by a thread and relies on him holding a very strong frame.

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12147348

If you’re really married then post the rock. Having a wife wear a bigger ring is more intimidating to other men than having a bigger cock. Also all the divorce cucks itt made the mistake of marrying white women.

>> No.12147464

>>12146761
50% gypsy
20% mongol
30% white

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>>12146814
>Everyone else can enjoy their washed up single life living in a studio apartment at age 30.

>> No.12147519

>>12147274
>Once a bitch checks out she's GONE, you can never get that back.
if you make her realize that she made a mistake with you, and women can start having doubts very easily, you can have any girl. same with every girls.

>>12147348
>big rock
white women care about not looking stupid

>> No.12147568

>>12147348
what the fuck did you marry a tranny
>those hairy knuckles

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>>12146721
>throwing insults at the void
Me gusta?

>> No.12147615

>>12146641
I'm married.
Pros: kids and regular sex (by regular I mean at least once a week, so don't expect to fuck everyday). Also, tax benefits.
Cons: it gets boring. My wife doesn't suck my dick anymore. It's very repetitive and emotionless. You feel like you're missing out. I could be fucking younger tinder bitches on a daily basis and having a lot more fun.

>> No.12147625

>>12146814
>I'm engaged and life is great
Enjoy it while you can, you are experiencing the peak of your relationship. Not saying it's doomed to fail but don't be so quick to assume that marriage isn't a meme.

>> No.12147640

>>12147615
Meh you say that, tinder bitches get old real fast too my man. That and they are flaky beyond believeable and all have over inflated egos that are hard to deal with.

>> No.12147666

>>12147640
who cares if they have nice ass, big boobs, nice face, and can be fun to chat with, multiple partners gives pleasure and satisfaction. don't date average

>> No.12147669

>>12146943
>7 years
>Haven't proposed
Dude, you're running out of time. I'm 36, my wife is 32 and we have 3 kids. You're going to run out if energy really quick if you have kids. If not, you're a reproductive failure.

>> No.12147694

>>12146790
>4channel
what a dick move to change the name

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>>12147348
2.43 CTW

>> No.12147796

>>12146641
Engaged
I found a very low n-count daddy’s girl late bloomer from a loving family after I spent my 20s slaying tinder THOTs. Did not think I would find someone worthy of commitment, but got lucky and locked it in. I want kids and grandkids. Getting hitched at a vineyard in June. Sex has slowed down, but not boring or emotionless. Since she isn’t a roastie, there’s a lot of uncharted territory in the bedroom for me to sherpa her through in the years to come. Couldn’t be happier relationship-wise. Would recommend

>> No.12147803

>>12146641

am 30 now, never married, but had many girlfriends, last gf lasted nearly 2 years.

but i am an INTP, so i am 10x happier alone than being a relationship. shitposting on /pol/ and /biz/ on the weekends, playing vidya, fucking a 10/10 prostitute every 2 weeks and going to solo vacation on colombia with hookers and coke is just amazing and i will never go back to having girlfriend in the near future.

maybe when im 40-50 i will get bored and find myself a mid twenty girl, but i dont think so. having a woman gets very boring very fast.

>> No.12147816

>>12146641

I’m married best thing about it is the dual income allowing me to live well above my individual means. Just marry someone with a career

>> No.12147870

>>12146761
Not bad, pretty cute, but you can tell from the upper arms/neck that she's carrying some extra fat and isn't super fit. Seriously doubt her ass is 10/10.

Still though, could do worse. Good for you anon.

>> No.12148293

>>12147519
Based retard, divorce cucked by a Wh*teoid Daddy’s Princess. Please keep posting in this thread.

>> No.12148308

>>12147171
Sounds like me. Have fucked over 70 girls (the vast majority of them at least fuckable), my sex life looks like something out of hardcore porn most of the time. Still no gf for years, and at my wit's end for finding one. Feelsbadman.

>> No.12148537

>been with gf for over a year
>I'm too needy to leave her
>she's too ugly to do better

Shit is hella cash. We're literally made for each other.

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If my gf is not a virgin when we met, am I a cuck?

>> No.12148560

I’m a lost cause but own 100k link. Maybe I’ll have time after link goes to zero but in the meantime could careless only want chainlink to succeed.

>> No.12148681

>>12146761
Pretty good
What are you charging? I'll pay 450
Gf experience? I hate condoms
Also I cant cum if I dont hit her a little that's ok I assume

>> No.12148707

>>12148537
something like this. Gf moved in with me probably too soon, but otherwise she would have had to move out of the city so I made it possible. It’s very different living with her vs dating. I don’t know if I really love her, but it’s nice not to be as lonely as I once was. At least the physical intimacy (and birth control pills) is nice. It’s not like I’m without my own problems that she puts up with too. But I wouldn’t marry her the way things are now.

>> No.12148716

>>12146641
Divorced cuz marriage is a scam and I decided I'd rather have freetime than an expensive fucktoy

>> No.12148738

Gf for 4 years. Im american. She's a foreignger. She told me she needs papers from the getgo. She's been with me through thick and thin mostly- poor and a few dollars to my name. We had verbal fights. Now my career is starting to finally take off after 5 years of grueling. Hers is slowly taking off too. Now she wants to get married asap.

>Pro
she cooks, cleans, organized as hell, she can get by being super cheap. She always checks if im hungry or not hungry. We know how to have a good time on a cheap budget. We question a lot, get into good debates and conversations. Having a family is something I would be open to in the long run once Im financially stable.

>Cons
You see other women. You want to "still have it" and test the waters, but im too much of a bitch to try. I fantasize about going to europe and colombia and smashing amazing hoes, and living like i was 26 again. She wants to get married when a death in my family just happened. I don't watch porn or fap. Still have urges. I don't want a family as IM not sure whether our different cultures/language/traditions can come together in the long run for our offspring.

>thank you for reading my blog post frens

>> No.12148760

>>12146641
gf since three years, getting more and more regrets that i wasted the best and funniest 3 years of my life with a lot of nice girls with her, dunno what to do now

>> No.12148775

>>12146725
whiteknight virgin detected

how is the friendzone treating you?

>>12146740
this

>>12147038
getting 10/10 instagram thots is hard yeah, you're gonna have to go with someone fugly and you're gonna regret it anyway

>>12148308
well boo fucking hoo

>> No.12148784

my gf is a fat fuckin hoe
I hate her ass
slap her, cheat on her, make fun of her fatness. shes still with me wtf

>> No.12148882

>>12148760
get the fuck out, it only gets worse, i have a gf and a kid with her, it's cool and all but fuck, i would just rather fuck bitches, do drugs, party

we kinda got together just before tinder was a thing and now im never gonna get to try it, no netflix and chill for me ever

anyway,
what it boils down to is sex, i love my gf and shes great in all aspects but shes so vanilla in bed and im horny all the time, i want sloppy blowjobs, i want her to swallow, i want her to be a huge slut.. but its not happening, i've tried

it really sucks cuz otherwise we are made for eachother, i wanna do all kinds of nasty shit with her and since she isnt into anything except some light oral sometimes and plain old sex once a week, im daydreaming about other sluts and jerking off... but if i cheated on her i would lose her so everything is terrible and all choices are bad and im stuck in limbo of never being truly happy

>> No.12148906

>1 post by OP
>65 replies
>not /biz/
Kys, all you fucking newfaggots. Do it. Fuck all of you. Just die.

>> No.12148947

>>12146709
Kek

>> No.12149063

>>12148308
The Jews sold us a lie about hookup culture brother, nothing worse than rolling over after nutting in a slam pigs mouth and still feeling alone as you watch her text her beta orbiters or “guy friends”. As a 28 yo boomer it seems like most of the good girls are taken, young girls just want to ride the CC and party, and what’s left is single moms or fat losers. Sadly the LTR I was in a few years ago with a gorgeous girl went south in a way most wouldn’t believe and left me with an intense distrust for women. Like I said I’ve got some work to do on myself and then I can worry about finding a good woman. I’m just sick of being the one that has to do fucking everything for girls while they just get to play “he’ll do”.

>> No.12149349

i've got a side question, how do i convince her to swallow, she hates cum and even starts complaining mid-blowjob about precum

>> No.12149511

>>12148906
I'm still here, reading every reply, appreciating most. Lurk more fa gg ot

>> No.12149513

>>12146790
>4channel
m00tles wouldn't have done this

>> No.12149553

>>12149063
Word, I fucked 120+ girls in just a few years recently and now I basically want a gf for social proof and to actually do stuff with. I still try to get hookups but only because I can't for the life of me get a gf-type thing. Not at this age.

>> No.12149569

>>12149553
how do you even MEET 120 girls to fuck in the first place? I dont even meet any new people lmao

>> No.12149622

>>12146641
There is no correct answer. When you're in a relationship you want to be single when you're single you want a gf. I'm in my early 30s and have dated dozens of women. My longest was 5 years. Currently single. I think if you have a good career and are relatively good looking your best bet is to focus on money and just date younger women until you're like 40 and ready to settle. Once you get married your wife will get fat and you'll stop getting sex so why rush into it while you're young and your value is still increasing?

>> No.12149658

>>12149569
Women are 50% of the population.
Everywhere you go there are women.
Talk to them then date them then fuck them. If you go to the grocery store once a day that's already 50% chance of getting a woman if you talk to 1 . Just fucking be charming and funny and the pussy will flow. They are everywhere.

>> No.12149779

>>12148760
How old are you? I did that in college and then we broke up when when I was 24 and I was so fucking pissed I wasted my best years on her. Fortunately I put all the extra time and money I used to waste on her into my job (tech sales) and started making a shit load of money about a year later. Got into the club scene in my city and managed to run through over 100 women the next few years. TLDR it's never too late to capitalize on sluts

>> No.12149855

>>12148784
Based

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>>12149779
>TFW when my ex cried that I wasted all of her best years on me while my life is getting better by the month
Still lonely sometimes but man it could be a lot worse.

>> No.12150134

Just got out of a seven year long relationship. It's funny, when you're in a relationship you want to be in a relationship. When you're single you also want to be in a relationship. Don't believe the liars and larpers who say otherwise. I'm trying out the dating thing but still call my ex sometimes when I feel horny or lonely. Officially still broken up but I kind of string her along and make her think I might take her back. Who knows, she's nothing but trouble but I know how to manage and she does pretty much anything I ask. She just looks like she's seven years older than when we started dating.

>> No.12150517

>>12146709
the best thing is when she is out of your house and in my, giving me a blowjob, amirite

>> No.12150535

>best thing
Someone to check your back for basal cell carcinoma
>worst thing
Literally everything else

>> No.12150537

>>12147870
shes actually very thin idk what you're talking about. she's like 120 pounds

>> No.12151201

In current times it is unfortunately not a good value proposition for men.

>> No.12151323

>>12147038

I'm the same even though I've had gfs. It stems from low self-esteem. Speaking to a professional has been helping me. As has reading 'Overcoming low self-esteem', which is a behavioural therapy book by a woman named Melanie Fennell

>> No.12151365

>>12146761

Hot as fuck, I am jelly

>> No.12152065

Pros:
People listen to you way more
Talk to way hotter girls, probably because you don't feel as awkward
Those hotter girls will be alone with you but don't freak out
Make more money
More gifts from parents
Tax bracket is lower because it's a "household" income. Even if she doesn't work, it's like making $8k a year.

Cons:
- Social Life Booked, not many weekends just sitting around
- Can't bang random chicks, or try

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>>12146641
breddy great i make her work for food.

>> No.12152625

>>12147615
this is pretty much it. it's comfortable, but not that exciting.

any married anons here have a mistress? I've come to see this as being the ideal situation, I don't know if I've got the balls to pull it off though. a stable wife at home and an exciting side lover out of the house.

>> No.12152799

>>12146725
>, kek.
Outsider detected. The typist here is female.

>> No.12152808

>>12146725
cuck

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>>12146641
Technically single. Dating multiple women. The aim is to get them to meet each other. They are open to it. We will see how it goes.
>inb4 I am eaten by vipers

>> No.12152831

>>12146761
I’ve fucked her
bet

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I'm married.

Never get married.

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>>12146761
>doxxing yourself
Retard. Ur gf is an ugly piece of shit kid and now she’s fucked by urs truly

>> No.12152851

>>12146910
>femanon detected

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>>12146943
>dating older women
Anon, I...

>> No.12152904

>>12147131
Why can't you just not write like a fucking retard? Just try typing the whole word and see how it feels.

>> No.12152909

I have a GF, she really loves me, I'm able to say that because she already passed all types of shit and didnt left when any normal woman would. Taken her virginity too, its good, she have dual citizen and I'll get a Italian Visa when we marry, she is rich and have visited more than 5 countries, her family have a good network I'll benefit from.

She have to pay almost everything because I'm broke but she doesnt care, atleast once in my life I made it right.

>> No.12152922

>>12146641
Married here. Best thing is I picked a great partner, in most respects. Worst thing is the in-laws who are asinine, "but they're family".

>> No.12152929

>>12147131
Well, all I can say is that you have to upgrade yourself so she fear lose you and stop the bullshit.

>> No.12152931

>>12150134
Speak for yourself. Not everyone is codependent.

>> No.12152962

>>12146814
Enjoy being part of the 50%!

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>>12152864

>> No.12152969

>>12147348
Having a wife wear a bigger ring is more intimidating to other men than having a bigger cock.
When I see men who buy ridiculous luxurious rings and other shit for their wives I feel warm inside as I realize how much I lucked out to not have a materialistic wife, and how big an advantage I have over other men who's wives spend every cent they'll ever make. At our wedding we had literally like twenty guests, only close relatives, and no phones or pictures taken except by our one photographer so that we didn't have a bunch of idiots holding their phones up for the whole ceremony.

>> No.12152984

>>12152969
mean't to > the quote

>> No.12152993

Been with my gf for 10 years now. I'm 28 and she's 27. One kid(4yrs old). Pretty much the perfect companion but you sometimes do feel like you're missing out. But those feelings go away quickly . Online dating is dogshit. Every one of my friend on there is fuckin miserable and needy.
Pros: >shared life with someone you trust and love
>gives you a sense of direction and a drive to provide for your family
>regular sex(we do it atleast 4 times a week)
>double the income
Cons: >can't be a selfish degenerate
>can't be a slob
>FOMO
Wouldn't trade it for the single life. Will be trying for the second baby next year. Tips would be: don't fall for the trad wife meme, stay away from daddy's girls. Don't do stay at home mom shit EVER. When the mid life crisis hits for them, they'll wreck your world. Lots of my married friends getting divorced by these 'Christian' girls who all have of a sudden have the itch to ride the CC.

>> No.12153001

>>12152969
Well.. this is just your opinion man.

Intimidating, there is no such thing as that, if you have a atractive wife the only way you aint cheated is if she loyal.

What a bullshit, lol.

I have seen many guys getting killed because they fucked the wife of the druglord, even when they know they can die they still cheat, lol.

>> No.12153018

>>12146641
Every relationship I've been tends towards me eventually feeling like I'm being suffocated. Women are so unimaginably needy and they only put their foot on the gas harder as time goes on. After this relationship I'm probably done with them.

>> No.12153044

>>12153018
Well, search for treatment, I'm not kidding.

>> No.12153046

>>12153018

This. I'm not quite done but I dumped a super qt3.14 because she didn't know when to shut up and because if you make more than her she's a huge financial liability if you get married or have kids.

Short women.

>> No.12153052

>>12146814
>Everyone else can enjoy their washed up single life living in a studio apartment at age 30.

37 here. Live in a 800sqft apartment. Use the master bedroom for my hobbies. Regular 10ftx9ft bedroom has my queen bed and my clothes in the single small closet.

I just wish I owned a house, which I did, but moved to another state right when the housing market peeked, and can't find an affordable one any more even with $50k cash sitting in my bank account. I really wish interest rates jumped back up 20% and all the faggots who over bid by $20k to buy a 1949 boomer shit box with 1970's wood paneling and a basement that smells like literal cat piss, can have all their equity wiped out over night.

>> No.12153057

>>12153046
You have mental problem,anon?

You know that for basic hipergamy unless you are mega chad thundercock a woman that earns more than you wont feel sexually attracted to you, right?

>> No.12153063

>>12147615

/ thread

This guy knows

>> No.12153079

>>12147615
No you couldnt, you are probably deluded, the sexual market have younger, stronger, taller, cooler and even richer than you.
You wont compete with the 80% of men, you would compete with 20% of the top ones.
There is no way you would win from Young Chad of their social cirles with a babyface and a sport car, dont delude yourself because you probably looks old and not fit nor cool anymore.
Stay on your wedding and good luck, you would probably end up with STD's because some gold digger than living an American Pie.

>> No.12153084

>>12147615
fucking young tinder bitches is a meme. If you're finding young bitches, theyre only after your cash. Better off with a prostitute.

Also, believe it or not, a lot of HS level teens are actually having less sex. I'm 37, and a lot of my coworkers who have Middle school and HS level kids say their kids dont date-- and its common!

Now im not saying go find pedo level shit here. I'm just saying this generation of kids, will most likely not be interested in fucking or dating as they move on to young adult hood. It's statistically dropping.

>> No.12153094

>>12153057

I never said earns more than you. However, in my case I might be earning 3x as much as her.

Regardless, I was only staying with her because she was hot, so not a great reason. Oh, she also wanted to spend a lot of time out of the workforce raising kids.

Ultimately, I'm just urging fellow anons to avoid falling for the tradwife meme because if you do, you might end up being nagged your entire life by an aging harpy who can financially wreck you if you tell her to piss off during one of her rants.

>> No.12153097

>>12146641
married. two kids.

best thing- kids are most important thing you’ll ever do. you can try to rationalise around it but if you die without children your life was pointless

worst thing- women are useless cunts. marriages are for the benefit of children only. if you are a man you are 100% better off by yourself or with another man. beyond popping out children and breastfeeding there is virtually nothing a woman can do better than a man. children/babies are not hard to look after. diapers are not hard. cooking is not hard. housekeeping is 99% easier and more enjoyable than any 9-5 job. women are essentially a pair of eyes to look after your kid while you work and they are far less capable than you at doing it.

i love my wife and we have a very active sex life i.e. she gets me off regularly as part of her wifely duties so im not bitter and i dont hate women in general. most of my friends are women as well cause ive been a serial philanderer and degenerate throughout my life but its hard to make an argument for women in general outside of childbearing ans being a cock sleave

>> No.12153118

>>12153094
Well, you can get fucked anyway and this is life, that is why you need to not be autistical Patrick Bateman wannabe and look for mentally healthier woman. You are just greedy and can't understand that woman doesnt even need to make cash, men need to, the more "feminine" she is the less probably she can earn tons of money in a "men market".
I dont know what you are searching, probably some virgin girl that is a white collar with 2 graduations, 5 languages a great family and will realize you are the right one and give her himen to you.

Search for treatment, you currently degenerate woman and still think you are right.

>> No.12153122

>>12153094
Exactly. Pls listen to us anons. Don't fall for the tradwife meme.

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>>12146641

>be married
>be married to another guy
>got a pre-nup so not worried about divorce

Advantages of marriage generally:
- It's like living with your best friend
- Save 50% on rent and utilities
- Can grab ass whenever you want
- You can't regress into too much of a NEET slob because your spouse and your spouse's family have expectations for you

Advantages of gay marriage specifically:
- It's like living with your best guy friend
- Liberals have been brainwashed into thinking that gay marriage > straight marriage so you get automatic GBP from libs

Cons:
- Living with the same person/roommate for the rest of your life can be difficult for some people
- Somebody is going to care more about cleaning than the other, somebody is going to care more about the pets than the other, etc., there will be disagreements
- Sometimes you will have to sacrifice; e.g. your spouse gets a high-paying job in another state and you have to move

Cons of gay marriage specifically:
- Automatically disqualified from like 75% of religions
- Need to be in the closet around some people
- Can't travel together in some parts of the world (Middle East, Africa)

>> No.12153141

>>12153131
You forgot the biggest con:
Smell of shit if you want to bang before a long night of sleep.

>> No.12153143

>>12153097
>die without kids your life is pointless
cope
just look at the length of best/worst part fucking kek

>> No.12153155

>>12153141
Before not, after.
>>12153143
In a primitive ways, its right.
But you can cope and pretend if your antecessors had been on a thailandese webcartoon forum they would still have a lineage.

>> No.12153157

>>12153118

Uhm, OK. Here's the real truth: a lot of women, especially the beautiful ones, are a royal pain in the ass.

You will get bored of fucking her. She will get old and ugly, and she will still be needy and demanding.

Maybe, maybe, the winning move is not to play.

Perhaps I'm being unfair to women, but if you want to spend your life being screeched at by an irrational hag, that's your call.

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>all these underage "MTGOWs" (really just incels in denial)
lol

>> No.12153175

>>12153155
cringe

>> No.12153179

Married guys. Have you ever licked your wifes asshole? Do you still do it after being married so long?

>> No.12153184

>>12153157
>12153157
If you get ruled by a irrational being you aint rational.
Every human can be a pain in the ass, this aint something new, I had already been backstabed in many ways and saw the worst possible scenario too, its not that woman sucks, humans sucks and men too.

The winning move is to accept truth and stop coping that maybe you are part of the problem and not the solution.
>>12153175
Whatever you need to accept to sleep.

>> No.12153194

>>12153169

I would wager a goodly sum I've fucked finer women than you. If you are a woman, they were certainly prettier than you.

No matter how beautiful they are, if they are whiny and irrational, dump them. Not worth it. Fucking them is only really ace for the first 6 months or so.

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>>12153169
cringe

>> No.12153216

>>12153194
Well, you want a dog to not behave like a dog..
Maybe the problem isnt the dog nature
Maybe its you
The scorpion nature is to sting, not to hug, but you want to be hugged.

Search for treatment

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>>12146641
Best thing

>> No.12153236

>>12153143
you're dumb if you don't understand the impact of children and your parents should feel ashamed of raising such a retard.

>> No.12153246

>>12153216

Dude, whatever. Boo hoo worst case scenario I don't have a traditional family, spending my life wage slaving for a miserable wife and resource intensive kids.

>> No.12153255

>>12146943
>>12147669
You're both 36 and on /biz/, with all the shrinking time you have and broken dreams, you choose to spend even a moment here? And I thought I fucked up by continuing to post for 8 yrs.

>>12146641
In threadly service to OP, sir. I have done the needful and got a mortgage before we got engaged. Not the usual timing. Best thing about this thing is, we compliment each other and work together to realize all our goals. I believe that's true love beyond just wanting to fuck. Worst thing, I would say the in-laws. They're all complete wastes of family, state, and local community resources. Utter failures.

>> No.12153273

>>12148557
Only if you marry her.

>> No.12153308

>>12153246
Or you die suffering in a hospital bed because there is no one to care for you.

>> No.12153318

>>12147038

What's your MBTI personality?

>> No.12153359

>>12149553
>I fucked 120+ girls

Jesus Christ that is enough women to gang up on you and #metoo you. you think you are safe now but they can accuse you of shit 10 years later and destroy your life.

>> No.12153376

>>12153308

... you mean how most people die even if they have a family?

I work in a hospital. I've seen plenty of old people die, man.

>> No.12153396

>>12146943
you've been living with her for that long? you're already basically married. your actual marriage wont last long

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Virgin loser, currently neet. To have or had is better than never having had at all.

>> No.12153562

>>12153084
True about the younger generation. The entire world is following the lead of Japan with respect to sex and relationships. And it won't end well for any of us.

>> No.12153603

>>12153179
Yes and yes. I still treat my wife like a fuckpiece and she likes it.

>> No.12153704

>>12146641

I’m married. Just had a baby. The best parts are looking into my baby’s eyes. The worst part is that my wife became a self absorbed spoiled cunt the minute the baby was born who broke every promise she made me and I am absolutely miserable being stuck with her moody, ungrateful, backstabbing ass.

Now I’m trapped in a shithole of a city to be close to her family, working a job I hate to support her so she can sit at home and work 3-4 fucking days a month and call that a career. I’ve had to turn down a series of excellent offers and saw far less-talented friends move on to success in fields I was better at while I have a dead end wagecuck gig that makes me literally want to kms.

Don’t ever get married, anons. Have children and fall in love, but keep the contracts and lawyers out of your relationships.

>> No.12153710

>>12146709

This is unironically true, sadly.

>> No.12153785

>>12152195
AEG, good stuff.

>> No.12153791

>>12153704
Why didnt you drag your wifes fat ass to the better job opportunities?

>> No.12153903

>>12153791

Because she refused to go and refused to fucking work while I would be getting established there. If I’d gone, she’d have stayed behind with my kid, who I would not get to see grow up, but she would still take 1/3 of my check to as child support and use that to pay her own fucking living expenses while living the NEET life at her parents house. I feel unironically bitter and scammed about my marriage.

>> No.12153938

>>12146725
get a load of this complete faggot.

>> No.12153956

>>12146641
tfwnogf and no hope of ever getting one.

>> No.12153968

>>12146641
>best thing:
Max comfy
>worst thing:
They can be so fucking annoying sometimes im
Surprised there aint more wife beaters

>> No.12153996

married

pro- never lonely, sex whenever, best friend, tax break, rent break. life is easier.

con- it's a lot of emotional work (is also a pro), you take on twice as many problems, might be further in my career without being married

all in all it's better than being single.

>> No.12154494

>>12146641
I'm never getting married and haven't dated in a few years. I still have hookups but I just prefer to be on my own and enjoy life. I'm quite happy. No financial problems. I never want to have children.

>pass on muh genes
Nice meme but no thanks, don't care.

Also have high functioning autism. It seems to me that neurotypical people feel they NEED to be in a relationship.

>> No.12154535

>>12146641
Once they get their tubes tied they get fat.

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>>12146709
The ol' ball-and-chain, am I right?

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>>12146709
based

>> No.12154601

>>12154551
>>12154594
dude

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>>12146709
for one brief moment i am free

>> No.12154719

>>12153079
I'm 6'2" and fit. My wife is decently hot. Last year I actually fucked a 21 year old Asian I met online (whisper). She had a boyfriend. And no, it wasn't for the money because I'm not rich and her boyfriend probably has more money than I. It was good but I got really nervous for putting my marriage at risk. I regretted it for a while, but now, more than a year later, I'm missing the thot.

>>12153084
Tinder is definitely not a myth. 3 years ago I went on a business trip and fucked 4 tinder bitches in a month. I got plenty of matches. Then I fucked another random one that I met in a store. The only thing preventing me from fucking more bitches is that I'm married and I can't have a tinder profile while at home.

As a married man I'm definitely missing out. Sometimes it's depressing. I keep meeting all those hot and needy women and there's nothing I can do about it. Anyway, at least I've got cute kids.

My advice is: get married for the kids. If you don't want kids and if you're reasonable successful with women, just enjoy life.

>> No.12154760

Long-term gf (6 yrs)

BEST
>those cozy moments curled up on the couch together, totally comfortable and satisfied
>random bjs
>making me soup and kissing my forehead when sick
>doing little chores for me
>feeling proud she's with me when we're in public and she's looking sexy as hell
>comfort when something traumatic happens
>serious, passionate sex

WORST
>almost never having a whole week or just weekend alone to focus on personal pursuits
>not being able to take whatever job I'm offered wherever it is
>mindless prattle when she's with other women
>forced stuff with her family that I have to pretend to be neutral about going to
>financial cost (dinners; frequent lame dates she really wants to do like going to a winery or something)
>regular dumb relationship bs, little fights and dealing with passive aggressive nonsense on a rare occasion

>> No.12154793

Gf.
Good: Have someone to shoot the shit with and fuck.
Bad: They want to be commited forever

>> No.12154981

>>12153460

As a loser NEET non-virgin: That's where you're wrong, kiddo. Ever heard the phrase "chasing the dragon"? You're better off without that first hit of heroin that is being loved.

>> No.12154990

All these fags complaining about women. Why don't you see that the problem lies with you for choosing the wrong bitch?
>muh all women are whores
Fuck off. You're retarded for not knowing who she really is before you commit.
>but they're pretty good at lying!!!!
Admit it, you're just a blind faggot with a nigger monkey brain if you fall for deceit.
And if you end up in divorce, it's your fault for being with a whore/gold digger. Jesus, men have no more backbone these days.

>> No.12155065

>>12154990
scorned roastie detected

>> No.12155180

>>12155065
divorce cuck detected
Does she fuck BBC now? I bet she at least fucks bigger dicks because yours is obviously micro.

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>>12147039
I don't maybe.

>>12151323
>>12147204
I honestly don't know. I don't think I'm autistic, I'll give you a quick run down. Any time I go out with friends to a party and there is a drinking game or anything, everyone finds out I've never had a GF or had sex. They give me a confused looked. Some of the women will ask for my number or tell me if I want to go back to there place and I can practice on them. I just tell them no thanks. That's how most of my conversations with women will go. It's either sex or reality entertainment. I can't really connect to a female. Also, it could have something to do with my Mom walking out on my dad and I when I was 7. Haven't seen her since. Shit, maybe I am autistic. Maybe I haven't meet the right one. Who knows. Well see.

>>12148775
Not really my type. Since I'm 6'2, I do find women who are 5'10+ attractive. Not really into massive tits and ass hanging out the jeans.

>> No.12155235

>>12153057
>not being mega chad thundercock
step up your game anon

>> No.12155267

>>12155235
It's favelanon. You're just doing what he wants, getting those (you)s. He probably has a dog-faced gf at best, if none at all. Or maybe, he's using the dog he's been posting as a cock sleeve.

>> No.12155419

Dating for 15months now

Pros:great food, great ass/body, is good socially (wants to go out and try out places rather than sit at home and do nothing like a pos), common interests and same political views helps too.

Cons: periods, money will get spent fast since always wanting to do things.

Being single is shit, it's too shallow. It's like being unemployed. Yea you don't need to wake up in morning or get scared that you are losing business, but on other hand if you're unemployed all you do is nothing of value all day and please yourself with arbitrary things like TV or movies

Also I noticed that the best girls always have bfs, great single girls don't remain single for too long. Once you find a good one I suggest you don't take it for granted

>> No.12155529

broke up with a great girl in the final month of my sophomore year of high school. I really did love her. Sucks she turned into a whore but that's besides the point. I trading in my relationship for crypto and I've never looked back boys. It's a shame how present disappointment is in life. Like how pineapples don't taste like apples or pines. What kind of nigger magic is that? Anywho, I'm doing well fellow biz bros and the accumulation I wouldn't have been able to have had I stayed with her doesn't exist. Cock small, BTC wallet fatter

>> No.12155738

>>12153001
>druglord

lol
stop watching movies and go back to fortnite

>> No.12155770

>>12154760
Exactly this

Have a gf since 4 years

>> No.12155836

>>12147348
nice valueless carbon you bought your fat black nigger wife lmao

>> No.12155841

>>12147803
>maybe when im 40-50 i will get bored and find myself a mid twenty girl,
they won't want you

>> No.12155855

>>12153097
>its hard to make an argument for women in general outside of childbearing ans being a cock sleave

literally women are a retarded version of men build for this exact purpose and when we have artificial reproduction they'll be reduced to caged animals

>> No.12155861

>>12146641

I had one for 5 years, now I usually have about 3-4 and change em every month or so

>> No.12156258

>>12149349
Dump

>> No.12156275

>>12146761
post ass

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>>12146641
>how many anons are going to get divorced, the thread

(70% easy, btw)