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>>11634314
A bit too politically correct

>>11634306
fuck outta here

strangle her, obviously

>>11634306
Fuck a whore and get herpes. Then fuck your girlfriend and give her herpes, leave her before she finds out she has herpes. Go live your life for 5 years and then go back to her and marry her since she won't find another guy who will want her

where would you travel alone and what would you do? as long as you aren't a sex-tourist i don't see why you can't take a trip alone and still keep your girlfriend. and the truth is you can focus on your school/work and still keep her as well you just don't want to put in the effort.

In that case I recommend a murder-suicide.

>>11634306
Btw you are right you won't find another girl like her because you sound like a completely boring faggot.

>>11634329
spoken like a true NPC. when your mind is limited you can't see the difference because there's a theoretical maximum for any activity; hence managing gf + school/work makes sense to you (wagecuck mentality). OP has higher abilities and wishes he had the freedom to truly pursue something 100%

>>11634306

I had the same thing anon. My gf was lovely, thick, pretty, cooked for me, wanted sex all the time, tells me she loves me etc.

I want freedom. Guys like you are me aren't meant to be held down. Either tell your girl you want freedom and she needs to accept that. Or leave her.

Me personally, I couldn't break up with m gf either. So I just let the relationship slowly fall apart. I'm gladly and happily single again with no harsh feelings against my ex.

>>11634306
here's something to mess with your head. she's that attached to you because she senses you aren't attached to her. if you were to decide to stay and began giving vibes of committment, then she'll change. she'll be the one wanting to go see the world, "not even for sex, man."

>love is either masochistic or sadistic. always.

>>11634306
>I want to be alone 24/7
>my gf has separation anxiety like a poorly raised chihuahua
fuck you retard

>>11634336
This, you sound like a boring nobody OP. Odds are she is pretty lame and low IQ too. It doesn't matter what you do OP, you both are losers. Hope I wasn't too harsh you idiot, but it's most likely true.

>>11634306
I assume you are young (early 20s). I’m 31 and let me tell you one thing about relationships. When you start getting old, you go into compromise of telling yourself that she is good enough. High expectations are gone, you find a balance between love, personal space, doing things together and spending time with your friends. Right now you might feel like you want to travel alone and when you are in a relationship it’s not possible. It is possible. Tell her you want to fuck off for 6 months alone. I’m pretty sure she will be ok with it. If you want to concentrate professionally or on your health, you can ask for more personal space. These things don’t mean you don’t love her or you want to fuck other women and if you communicate clearly, it should be no problem. If you break up, you’ll find other women, you will forget about her, you will settle down with someone else who is good ebough. It all depends on if you want to keep her in your life or not.

>>11634349

yeah he's gonna pursue masterbating to cartoons 100%

you type like a weak man

>>11634306
50 year old dad here.
Based on my years of experience, I can tell you unequivocally that eventually you're gonna fuck up and she's going to have enough and leave. After a week or so you're going to start looking at your phone, start moping around and wonder how it happened and after a few bad dates (who don't even compare to your current girl) you're gonna realize you fucked up royally and NO other girl will ever satisfy you the way she does.

Don't expect better...its not out there.

>>11634350
this

>>11634389
Do you have a hot daughter?

And does she fuck a lot of guys?

>>11634389
typical Boomer, OP isn't even happy which invalidates your argument

>>11634389
Also do you cheat on your wife?

If you break up with her soon you will realise just how fucking RARE a good girl like that is but by that point she would have already hooked up with (multiple) more exciting,attractive and all round better guys than you, leaving you with lots of pain for the rest of your life.

Enjoy.

>>11634323
This

>>11634418
op doesn't know or has forgotten what unhapiness is.

>>11634418
Bullshit Op has just gotten used to and takes for granted a good,healthy relationship. He has tricked himself into thinking that he will be not just as good but better if he wasn't attached.

>>11634326
Real /biz/ advice.

Maybe less S O Y in your diet would be a great start wrt not posting non business related blogs on /biz/.

>>11634351
unironically this

>>11634418
>he fell for the happiness meme

>>11634306
are you me? having exactly the same thoughts sometimes. but im nearly 4 years together with my gf

>>11634333
nice trips.
I, however, recommend skipping the murder and going directly to the suicide.

a home office saved my marriage, once that door is closed and im 'working' it never opens.

OP here. thanks for everyone's input. I'm usually studying all day. After not seeing my gf for almost the entire day, it feels bad to go to friends or something, this has caused me to hardly see my friends anymore. My life is currently gym, study, explore some business ideas, spend time with gf, and sleep. Ideally it would be something like study, gym, more time exploring business ideas, spend time with friends, go out every now and then, spend time with gf. But this would mean not seeing my gf everyday, which would hurt her.

>>11634572
as you grow older and begin to build your own nest, you naturally grow distant from most of your friends. one or two will remain, and you'll see them rarely, but its all par for the course. it'll happen to your friends, too. they won't have time for your single dumbass once they have their nests. it happens to everybody.

>>11634572
you could move in together to solve that issue

>>11634306
>Also, she is so attached to me

this won't last. I had the same thing, telling me how she was going to marry me and loved me more than the world etc. she eventually called off the wedding to "find herself" because she felt like she didn't know who she was without me. lmfao

do yourself a favor and do what YOU want. don't stick with something that you don't want to do because you think you know the future (that she will be like this forever). you don't, and she won't

>>11634610
How long did it last for you? Because it has been like this for a year.

>>11634572
Hey man been through hell and heaven as well. It seems from what you are writing you are young.

The more you spend time with your girlfriend the more this feeling gets. I wasnt the person who had these feelings like you are, but i was the other side. Had the same stuff like you had but on the opposite side. You see what will probably happen (if you dont fix your mind up) is that your gf is going to dump you. I did it. The sad part is that you will be crawling back to her once you realize how fucking hard it is to find the perfect partner. There is no perfect person waiting you out there. You are young and only 1 year together. It gets harder and harder the more you spend time with her. Best bet here is to break up and see what happens or put more effort into your relationship.

I can say already a mile away that you are dumb and think with your youngling brain, but honestly the older you get the more stability and peace you want. You might get these feelings right now, but there are always solution. Live separately, have your own room that closes and doesnt open for a week. Talk to each other occasionally but it doesnt need to be fucking clingy. The interesting part here is that if you somehow manage to fix this problem of yours, your relationship will be stronger. Due note that everyone has their limit and so does your girlfriend. When i dumped my girlfriend she was banging the door 1 week later, crying, calling like a psycho. You will probs do the same.

>>11634306
IDIOT. Marry her get kids and enjoy life man!

>>11634306
So she's ugly

>>11634306
OP, I don't even want to hang with my 'friends'...i left on Friday night around 8...They called me when i got home but i could not be asked to go out drinkin...i am old now, 35. Fucked if i can be asked to listen to some GF & her mindless shite. Keep your freedom!
t. wizard

>>11634629
I'm 21 she's 23. This is an additional downside for me because if we want kids (which she surely wants, I probably do too) it will have to be before she is about 30, meaning I will be 27 (at the latest). My biggest fear is having children wihtout having accomplished some of my dreams and end up resenting them for it.

>>11634694
28* brainfart

>>11634306

Get her on the same page as you are so that your goals are aligned with hers. Otherwise you have to find a girl that has the same stuff in common with you and want the same stuff in life regarding travel, uni, business and health.

I'm 31 and still trying to find that girl and threw out a bunch of roasties that don't fit the bill. I never settle until she is the one.

If u r around 20-22 years go for solo travelling. The. Best. Thing. Ever.
Ive travelled around the world almost for two years. That was so fuckin awsome (was working while traveling: ski/windsurf chad-instructor here).
Ive even almost fucked a trap in bangkok (set up for coach surfing accommodation, arrived, fuck she is a TRAP, lolololooo wuuuut to do? We did nothing. Wasnt into traps back then. Now I would fuck her hard xdxdx). This were the very best and life changing years in my life.
If u even think about it, just do it.
If u wont u will end up as a boring NPC cunt

>>11634306
How fat is she? Post pics

>>11634619

several years

also this >>11634351
is spot fucking on. that's exactly what happened to me. once I was the committed one the power balance shifted and suddenly she was the one that needed to find herself and see the world. just skip that terrible process and cut the cord. otherwise you'll end up in the same situation (free), except you'll be the one getting left after wasting a few more years not doing what you really want. so don't waste those years. do what you want now for yourself and don't hold back because of some hypothetical future in which this girl doesn't ever change

>>11634694

>older woman

Leave her leave her leave her right now, get out anon escape ASAP.

Older women are only for fun in flings with milfs when you are young. You do not start relationships with them.

Anon where you are in your prime as an absolute wealthy chad at age 38, who has the life experience to pull any stacey he wants, you are going to be married to a dried up 40 year old mother.

>>11634694
Hey man happy to help!

It really depends what you want in life. Relationships DONT have to be the classical lets spend time together 24/7 and be cuddly etc. Relationships are more like friendships but with trust. If you have a friendship with someone then you can or cant do stuff what ever you like. Being in a relationship is like level 2. You kiss, touch each other, have sex, cuddle but more important have trust. If there is no trust in a relationship then its friendship.

That being said you dont have to have a clingy relationship. You can have your own time and she hers. It needs to be settled when and what. You DONT have to have kids before 30 if she agrees. You need to find a compromise. Is she ugly? Get her into the gym. Fix the relationship. Thats whats boring and fucked up in this world is that people dont want to fix relationships anymore. Its sad. Ive seen 5 peoples lives get destroyed and they are just sad, unhappy, angry all the time. If a problem arises in a relationship they just dump it and find another one. Unironically those are the people who have drinking problems, look slutty, unintelligent etc. They actually crave people who have good relationships but they just dont admit it.

I told you mate, you are going to regret this. If she is fat or ugly, fix it. Fucking push her on the treadmill. If she is clingy, fucking say it. Be the leader of the relationship. Be firm. If you believe you want to be single then fucking be. Dont waste her time. Thats the asshole move. She could make someone happy in life and you are being a total dick about it. That shows immaturity actually. That shows you are a dumb person. You need to understand do you want her or not. But do note this, if you have had a good relationship, then odds are you might never find one like that or you will settle with something shitty and continue swapping partners. We are all going to die anyways so dont expect anything to last forever.

Ive fucked a girl and had a blowjob in this park in china. Since than I bang girls on scenic points;D last time ive fucked a girl at australian coast. Damn that was ludacris, can swear ive seen jumping dolphins lol

>>11634744
>not having kids before your wife turns 30

It’s like you want your children to be autistic

>>11634306
Women pick up on that shit. Tell her how you feel without the leaving her part. Let her get mad for a day worst case. You'll resent her less for not knowing how you feel and you can make your decision properly.

>>11634757
Dude did i say i advocate this? Damn this board is fucking dumb as hell. I said if you dont want to have kids before 30 you dont. Big fucking deal. Who cares about what society thinks. Yes i also think that getting kids at 25-27 is normal bcs then you have time for yourself after they grow up.

>>11634744
Thank you. Lots to think about. I wish I met her a bit later in life, but oh well. I will start being more honest about certain things.

>>11634768
First part is right, she will pick up on it, but terrible advice.

If you don’t love her she will feel it consciously or unconsciously, and sooner or later she will leave with someone who actually cares.

I was in a similar situation to you, OP, and this was what happened.

Find out whether you really want her or not, but don’t drag it out. It will eat you both alive.

Being single can be nice and all IF you are attractive, but you will never find anything close to that first innocent love.

>>11634782
Yeah just you need to be the person to understand what you want. Dont get me wrong the break-up is going to be a fucking nasty one. She will totes go crazy on you. Expect shit to be flown.

That being said if you truly believe this is just a fling then say it to her. "Hey lets meet up 4x per week and 3x per week do our own stuff". The risk here is though that she might find another man. I had the same situation where i was actually starting to talk to another interesting woman. Shit man my gf went totally cray cray on it. I dont know why people have these feelings. I've just accepted that love is just a thing that can or cant last. I want to believe there is such a thing like love but obviously it can all change so fast.

The mature thing here is to enjoy that time you have with her and make a firm decision. I want to be with her and fix this by having OUR relationship or i want to go solo and let her make someone else happy. Dont be that 50:50 guy because odds are your relationship is going to take a very weird turn of you not spending time with her and believe me, she will fuck another dude while being with you. Then you get angry and sad and its going to fuck up you as well KEK. Then you try to fix shit but it feels weird from that point on etc. You will have more peace if you make a decision because expect a lot of shitty scenarios happening if you choose to be the 50:50 guy.

>>11634700
leave her you thick cunt

>>11634572
Your thoughts are normal but you should stick with it. Once you're working you can leave your work at the workplace unlike with school where you're constantly carrying it around. Save and plan toward financial independence and you will one day enjoy all the freedom in the world with your girlfriend.

OP you don't click with your current girlfriend. I had the exact same situation you did and same feelings. Tell me, when you talk for a long time is the conversation flowing easily? Or does it sometimes feel forced, like you jut have to say something?

I don't think you're a good match even though logically she seems perfect. When you find the right girl, the conversation will flow so easily and your personalities will match so well that you both will want to spend every second together. You will not have these feelings with the right girl

From the perspective of the woman, this is the most optimal dynamic. The one that she actually wants. You barely give a shit, and she has to make effort to reel you in.
What kind of woman would you prefer to be with OP?

>>11634594

This is the worst part of 'making it', I don't need a job anymore so I hang out at a cafe I co-opened til maybe 3pm, then I'm free to hang out and all my friends are fucking busy with women and work etc. It's so fucking shit, I just end up going back to my place and drinking alone. Genuinely think I'm gonna blow my brains out when I hit 30 because I can't handle the isolation anymore.

That or I need to become friends with some younger degenerate losers who want to party all the time. I have NO hobbies and no interests, I hate travelling, all I want to do is hang out with my bros and smoke cigarettes. Someone please tell me there is a solution? Sitting on about 400k in my bank account, flat paid off in the UK (so no property tax), I just wish there was a tinder for friends.

>>11634326
Glad to see there are still some real /biz/raelis left. Based

My gf moved to NYC 2 months ago and I'm about to break up with her over facetime.

Became suspicious after decreasing chats this month and then she cancelled last minute on me visiting. Found her tinder last week after I changed my location to there.

Long distance bullshit never works I guess. The thing that hurts the most is that it's literally only been a couple months apart.

28 year old loser here lol, reminder to always stay chad and never develop feels for these roasties.

Fucked over 50 women at this point and I'm pretty sure she could have been the one.

But she'd rather ride the carousel and let NYC devour her. Can't blame her I guess.

>>11634889
Sucks mate. Im a firm believer that long distance relationships dont work out. Ive never seen one that actually worked. Its always the classical "One side decides to go out and have a good time" and fucks it up. Best chances is just to take a break for the long-distance relationship time and go back together while forgetting everything what happened during that time. IMO thats the only way it CAN again work, but alas the other possibility is that you both find your own path and continue that while never contacting again. Maybe a coffee and just talk about your fabolous life.

>>11634889
NYC fag here. Im fucking your gf. And if it's not me, it's Tyrone, and Juan, and Pedro, and 4 million other men. You're such a classic case of girl from small town moves to big city and starts cheating immediately. Almost as common as Innocent girl goes away to party college and starts cheating.

NYC turns women into whores because there's so many strangers that nobody passes judgment.

"City of sin, it's a pity on the whim
Good girls gone bad, the city's filled with them
Mommy took a bus trip, now she got her bust out
Everybody ride her, just like a bus route"

JayZ knows what he's talking about.

>>11634306
>what you should do
Dump her
>what you will do
Drags things along for years, maybe marry her, then slowly start to resent the shit out of her for wasting your prime years in a relationship you don't want to be in. All because you're too scared to be single. Enjoy your life of regret anon.

>>11634889
I live in NYC give me her number

>>11634881
no. either go bald, grow a ponytail and start hitting the clubs, or join the rest of humanity and build your nest and be happy with 2-3 good friends you oogle women with.

>>11634910
Haha yeah she finally texted me to talk today and she mentioned that exact "i'm finally meeting cool friends and going out!" thing

Funny enough the same thing has happened in my past. I've moved to San Francisco, Boston, and a few places and same thing happens but I was on the other side, having to break off relationships.

The thing is I always broke it off before "cheating."

But women are cunts

>>11634916
O trust me I know. Brooklyn is evil.

When I swiped my Tinder there I actually really just realized that she was nothing special and I was settling for an idea of this girl. There's so many hot girls in the world lol

>>11634853
>when you talk for a long time is the conversation flowing easily? Or does it sometimes feel forced, like you jut have to say something?

It's like that all the time, actually. Then again, I'm not a very good talker in general.

>>11634565
In the future I will have a significant other and I will spend 60% of my time in my life working

>>11634936

But I don't want a nest, and I don't want to be living with a woman. I sometimes crave the affection but for maybe one month out of a year, also I don't think I'll go bald, brother/father/uncles all had great hair til their 40s. I'm only 24 now but ALREADY my closest friend is living with his gf, and my second closest friend is working for some bank so he's always busy and then he goes skiing every winter holiday with his sisters so that seriously cuts into time.

I'm not a boring person, I've learned three languages in my free time, I read at least 3 classic books a month, I already go to the gym 5x a week, but that still leaves me free every evening wednesday to friday. I don't have the attention span for vidya, so I've just been filling it with 4chan shitposting but I'm starting to crack not gonna lie.

>>11634989
>doesn't have the attention span for video games
>reads whole books

>>11634916
>>11634910
As for strategy, should I even bother bringing up the Tinder thing? Is it even worth it to see if she admits to something like cheating? Should I just break up with her right away. I'm kind of weirded out by doing this over the phone/facetime. Never done that before.

>>11634966
Nah M8, you are a good talker with the right person. You know how I knew your conversation doesnt flow? I see the symptoms. I've been through this. You're in an identical situation to what I was in.
She's not right for you. You will know when you find the right one because it is a night and day difference. You'll just know. You will want to spend every second with here, I'm telling you.

The risk, of course, is that you break up with her and don't find that perfect one you click with. I was lucky. But, if you marry this one, it doesn't get better than what you have now. Your feelings towards her will never change.

>>11635001
Dude if you or her cheats in a relationship fucking end it. Its a miserable shitty relationship which clearly shows you are not meant to be together.

Man i truly believe you are a good person in IRL and think of a girl who could make you happy. There are girls out there who would say shit like "Fuck NYC i want to be with you and together, fuck it, i aint going". That already shows something that she is willing to do such shitty things. You fucking deserve better bro...

>>11634306
You know you don't deserve her. The answer is to become a man worthy of her. Now buy some goddamned stinky linkies.

>whole system about to crash and burn

>"muh gf is too good!"

>bunch of fags giving cheap magazine advice

this is why you will never make it,/biz

>>11635001
I wouldn't even bring it up. It won't solve it. It won't keep the relationship afloat. No point in accusing her of anything, you know what's up. I know what's up. She knows what's up. She is letting the relationship fall apart because she wants to be single right now. No point in forcing it. I'd just make it a quiet peaceful amicable breakup. I'm sure she will be relieved, and it will be on good terms. I'd just cite the distance (both physically and emotionally) and saying she should do her own thing.

Then give me her number so I can lay pipe and confirm if she was faithful or not

>>11635001
Send her a superlike and never talk to her again.

>>11634572
Damn OP in the same boat. Same boat. Inalways wonder if other people felt the same. We are not that couple that goes out together with friends like most I know. I like to do my own thing outside and spend time with her inside. Still trying to find my balance

>>11634369
This.

Fellow 30 year old here.

Is there a reason (other than being a faggot) you can't have both things you want. Think long and hard about everything you want and your ideal situation and why you feel these things. Address the emotion behind the urge and not the urge itself. Then talk to her with your thoughts in order.

>>11634306
Man, you sound like an idiotic roastie. Go ahead, dump her and be miserable the rest of your life, retard.

>>11635007
That's pretty cool that you mentioned that. I have had that exact thought before but never heard of anyone having the same thing. So it was kind of like I was dreaming when you said that. Anyways, thanks for your help

>>11634989
Lol find some hobbies u boring faggot.
Outdoors
Football etc
Board games
Rpg's
Amateur theater group
Photography (did it lame as fuck;x)
Sport in general
Sign up for free uni
Volunteer work
Travel
God, u ppl are so fuckin boring.

>>11635024
I know what you're saying. For context, the move was for her own good, it's her first job after graduating college and a great opportunity.

I wanted her to move fully accepting that something like this was likely. I was heavily considering moving to NYC these next couple months, I have an interview at Consensys in Brooklyn for example.

But I can scrap that idea if I want to now. It's all giving me a lot of clarity instead of all this doubt.

I do deserve better than her having Tinder I agree. That shit is wack af.

>>11635047
Yeah I like the emotionally mature route too bro. Thanks for this. I don't really have many people to talk to about this but I have a good head on my shoulders as well and have learned to be bitter is not the best approach in the long term. I'll see if it gets brought up, I'll try not to.

>>11635053
considered this too kek

Don’t mess up. Just keep her and find other things to have fun with. Go get a fucking dog or something. You’re gonna fuck yo big time though that fairly clear. See if you’re a baller with money or a chad then it’s ok you have more leeway in life. But I don’t think you are.

>>11634572
I did this too in college. Exact same thing to a T. Kek. We both graduated finally and a year later she cheated on me.

>>11635115
Im dead serious.
Ltr doesnt work, been in two and it the last one ive forced my gf to come back.
Modern world is crazy and it is one big stimuli. NYC? Dude I get boner like 3 times a day on a gym alone in my eastern europe city with <200k ppl than I go to theater and see the fuckin cute student (amateur student theater), on the weekend I go watch futsall match of local team and there is another one. They r everywhere. Fuck ltr. Half of the marriages fell apart. And u think ltr has higher rate of success?? I doubt

>>11634995

>reading a book takes more attention than spending hours doing repetitive tasks that you have to actually get better at to progress

It's a stupid comparison to begin with but you must be delusional if you don't think vidya requires a lot of attention. The only reason ADHD kids love vidya is because hyperfocus is a side effect of attention deficit, also why autismos love vidya because they have crazy attention spans.

>>11635109
90% of those will just fill my days, it's the evenings when I get lonely. Besides all they do is distract me from the obvious vacancy that my friends aren't filling. Even social hobbies are weak substitutes since you don't interact much beyond the scope of the activity.

>>11635115
Ha. A succubus has you. They usually take the form of motherly nurturers too. So I’m guessing single mom raised, gf has surface level qualities you think are good. Meanwhile she’s emotionally/physically cheating and knows she has complete leverage over you. Get out now. You won’t though, she has you 100%.

>>11635226
>spending hours doing repetitive tasks
are you speaking about playing video games or reading books. Reading a book requires doing autism level task repetition. You literally sit there, and read. For hours. Motionless. That's fucking catatonic.

With video games you have a multi-sensory experience at least. One designed to be attention grabbing.

>>11635211
Yeah bro I know. I've been a savage. I fucked 10s of girls when living in San Francisco and Berlin.

Life's on easy mode. It's fun but at the same time a hollow experience. And I found that I did it mainly to help me cope with my mother's death due to cancer. Spoiler: It didn't work.

I moved on and try to live a virtuous life mostly now. I don't like hookup culture but it feels like it's the only choice I have.

Wading through these shit girls until 1 finally clicks. Took me a couple years to find this one so it sucks having to restart lol and feel like this relationship investment was such a waste of time.

You are completely right regarding modern life. As I work in tech and blockchain it really makes me question wtf I'm doing. it's an eternal and internal debate I've had for years.

all i know is we're going to make it

>>11634989
>I'm not boring, I read books and go to the gym
Lol nigga u 50 yrs old already

Not being boring would mean crazy party every weekend getting lit with friends, smashing random slags, going on 5 dates a week with 5 different women. You're old

>>11635115
Sounds like it's run its course. Unless you were talking seriously about marriage, long distance with her in a big city will almost certainly ruin it. Make a clean break, move to NYC, go hit up a few random dive bars per night on Fridays and Saturdays, see how easy it is to game chicks here. There's so many women at these bars, and getting laid is a numbers game, that it's really difficult to strike out because you can have literally 50 attempts a night. After you smash every weekend, realize your gf was nothing special and she got gamed the exact same way because she has 50 guys to choose from. Just another cog in the 8 million part machine. It's nothing personal, nothing against you. It's just on Halloween night when you start off with 1 lollipop and have 500 pieces of candy to choose from after trick or treating, no one finishes their lollipop.

>>11634881
>(so no property tax)
Wait, is that an actual thing?

>>11634306
>>11634350
i would kill for a women like this
>>11634389
unironically based boomer advice
you don't miss what you have until it's gone

>>11635259
haha i'm just naturally anxious right now because i know i'll be ending this part of my life in a few hours
but i have to give you credit, you did hit the nail on the head anon LOL
the great thing is being self-aware enough to be able to confront those feelings and move forward
going to roll up a fat joint later this evening and set up my own tinder again for some good old rebound sex as well

>>11635310
Same thing happened to me. I lost 8 years because of it. My life took off like a rocket once I got rid of her. It was difficult line to cross but my life 10x after. I can guarantee you won’t regret it so long as you cut all contact. She will pull out every conceivable stop she can think of to get you back after. She might even try to contact your mom or get to other people you are related to in an effort to gain sympathy or use them against you in other ways. Good luck.

>>11635281
the abundance of choice in modern dating is a real curse in that sense. i have done all these things myself and am no saint
this is why these real feelings i have almost feel foreign and i hate even having them. going back to being a cold, unforgiving chad is obviously ideal in these situations but i question the long term viability

>>11634326
>she won't find another guy who will want her

There will always be a guy more desperate for pussy than the last guy - desperate enough to get herpes, desperate enough to raise another man's kid.

>>11635291

In uncucked countries like the UK yeah, I only pay tax on the profit if/when I sell. My yearly expenses are literally gas/water/food. Feels good man.

>>11635360
You're supposed to be a cold unforgiving Chad while in your relationship. That's a mistake I made in the past. The minute you get soft or go a little beta they pick up on it and they will cheat. You gotta be the guy she wants to cheat with, and, since she already has him there's no one better to cheat with.
Never get soft. Never get vulnerable. There's no such thing as true love unless you and her were pair bonded from early teens. After a certain age it purely becomes biological attraction/lust. This is the sad red pill. You'll probably remain a Chad savage for life now that you know this truth. Life sucks

>>11635350
damn, 8 years that's crazy
i've been seeing her for a year+ which is for me a decently long amount of time
i've enjoyed my single life throughout my 20s way more than dealing with the idea of a gf
i hope she won't be vindictive in that sense, and why should she be? won't she be able to guilt free enjoy her city life while i enjoy mine?
thanks bro means a lot

>>11635277

This is the most delusional cope I ever heard. I don't know what books your english teacher forced you to read, but reading is not a 'repetitive' task, consider how many hours of your life you spend reading, you're even reading this post right now. A book is a story, each page is fundamentally different. A video game is a repetitive task you need to do and often they repeat. Whether it's RTS or RPG or FPS, you 'feel' like it's attention grabbing because you crave the rush of achievement and the sounds and the colours. But that doesn't mean it doesn't require a high attention span. If it didn't require a high attention span then the top gamers wouldn't be borderline autistic NEETs. Reading a book is like listening to a song, it just plays out, and when you're reading you're not even really conscious of what you're doing. Just because it BORES you, doesn't mean it requires a high attention span, these are different concepts.

High attention span = energy expended to focus, something that is boring may require more attention for you to actually force yourself to do it, but that doesn't mean the task itself is demanding. Vidya is demanding even if you enjoy it, as at any moment you could fuck up and lose etc. It's a non argument.

>>11635281

Do you even read my posts? I WANT to party and get lit every weekend, it's just my friends are always fucking busy. My problem is how can I meet new friends who don't have as many commitments. Even friends I meet through hobbies are always busy with boring shit like work and watching Netflix or whatever with their wives/gfs.

>>11635404
i guess you're right. i'm glad i didn't send her a text all sad and emo asking why we hadn't talked in a while earlier lmao. sobered up there quickly.

and this actually happened with a girl i was seeing for a couple months a few years back
she was a mid 20s PM at facebook and worth at least a few million because she had been there for a few years. a real catch in every sense too.
i quickly became infatuated and started opening up and i could see the attraction fall right away LOL
so fucking pathetic because these are the girls that consider themselves to be "soooo smart" yet they fall for this biological bullshit and can't even think about it like a real person

usually am pretty much cold by default though, thanks schizoid tendencies

i swear /biz/ has the most rational people left on the chanz

>>11635410
Hopefully she won’t be vindictive, but expect the unexpected. Succubi don’t like letting their prey go free and they’ll usually go to great lengths to keep them trapped. God speed.

>>11635369

>>11635438
>A video game is a repetitive task you need to do and often they repeat
Stop playing shitty video games. Non-shitty video games are much more engaging than books.

>you 'feel' like it's attention grabbing because you crave the rush of achievement and the sounds and the colours
I don't 'feel' it's attention grabbing. It is attention grabbing. It's like saying one 'thinks' one feels pain and not truly feel it. The feeling of attention is attention itself. What kind of depersonalized thought process are you having? Is this required to be able to catatonize yourself into rading a book for 5 hours straight?
You also seem assblasted over a minor thing, which is a red flag. You could be possibly narcissistic, which could explain this thread nicely. You don't want advice, you just want platitudes for your success.
Therefore kys.

>>11635446
Yo mate there are girls out there who appreciate what y do. Being this ultra Chad dude in a relationship fucks it up anyways. The ultra Chad play is to look attractive all the time but not cheat. You smell good, look good, be stable and strong mentally. I bet you millions that a girl will never leave y. Usually they leave bcs u get ugly, fat and boring. Just pretend like you are a single but dont actually fuck another woman. Thats the play here.

Mfw I was like you
I broke up with her and threw her out
2 years later I still regret it.

>>11635399
>uncucked
>UK

for real, bruv?

>>11634306
always greener on the other side
gl on your incel goals 2019

>>11635485

Look I think we got off on the wrong foot, I am not disparaging vidya, I actually enjoy hanging out with my friends watching them play. I also think it's good at developing the brain, many studies have demonstrated that people who play games are cognitively faster and better performing than other people. I also used to play a shit ton when I was 17/18. So don't think I'm being all high and mighty thinking I'm so patrician with my books. My point was enjoying something, ANYTHING, makes it easy to do, and not enjoying something makes it hard to do. Some people love cooking and can spend three hours meticulously crafting a recipe, some people just want to microwave a dinner.

My point is there is a subjective component to how easy it 'feels' to do a task, but objectively the way to measure something like focus/attention is to look at something like decision fatigue. Video games require constant decision making, sometimes those are reflexive like in shooters, sometimes they are strategic like in Civ4, but regardless the core basis of a game is you making choices to reach a goal. That requires focus, it requires processing and problem solving etc. Critical thinking.

Consider this, when you sit down at a game and then you look at a clock and realise you've been playing for four or five hours straight, that by definition means your brain was so focused you literally stopped perceiving time. This all means games require a high attention span, one that you are able to provide. When I was younger I had that, some people keep it, but when I hit around 20 I found myself getting more and more tired. And if I play any game now more complex than checkers I become exhausted. I didn't CHOOSE for that to happen.

You seem to think reading is tiring but that's only because you don't find what you're reading interesting. Whereas even if I find a game interesting it's tiring, because of the need to process and react. Whereas books are like music or movies, you can turn off.

>>11635551
>writes a whole novel about a minor tangent
This is what peak autism looks like. It makes sense now why you don't have a gf.

Also, your problem is that you live in Britanistan. Nobody can help you there.

>>11635502
Trust me man, I’ve been nothing but exemplary, although we’re here i am a catch. Everything was great.
I could have easily cheated too these last couple of months but chose not to.
That’s why it sucks, really the only reasonable explanation is as other anons have said, it’s because of the infinite choice for someone when they land in a big city like New York and that temptation is real as fuck when you’re not getting laid regularly.
New ID bc on mobile

>>11635634
Yeah man i get y. Shouldnt have let your girl go to NYC. Relationships are hard and there is no truth serum which is right and wrong. What i can say though is that there are girls out there who dont pull shit like that. Super sweet caring successful in life and want to chill and travel. They are out there. Y just need to catch one and love each other. Believe me i know because i have one. We are right now planning our next travel plans and what house to buy 50:50. Just gotta catch them.

>lives with girlfriend of 1yr.
there's your biggest mistake.

>>11635609

>he spends time on an taiwanese trading card forum
>complains when someone types 200 characters

I think twitter is more your speed pal

>>11635404
How to deal with the fact that I will never have the girl I pair bonded with from early teens because of reasons out of my control? Feels empty, like no matter how hard I try, I can't fall in love with anyone else. I thought it would get better with time, but my feelings have only grown stronger over the years. How cope?

>>11634710
why do you type like a 12 year old texts? You should fucking insufferable