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Anyone on here happily married? I only ever see people bitch and moan about what a scam marriage is and how they regret it, but is that really true? I’m 25 years old and dating a cute Chinese girl, she’s wealthy, well educated and all that but she is demanding that we get married eventually and I don’t really feel that way due to aforementioned concerns. She will most likely break up with me within a few months if I don’t change my mind. I have a decent job and I was planning in early retirement by around 40 yo or so, afraid that might not be doable if I have kids. What do?

>> No.11373082

>>11373061
if you get married in the age of social media, with an increasing divorce rate, and militant feminist ideology corrupting the minds of women all over this country, you are without a doubt a sub 100 iq poor cuckold.

>> No.11373103

>>11373061
Do you love her? And if, HOW MUCH?

>> No.11373109

>>11373061
People who are happily marriage dont visit a racist mongolian basket weaving forum to escape from their lives.

>> No.11373124

>>11373061
I'm married. If you want children then it's better to be married. Otherwise it's not.

>> No.11373186

Is she actually Chinese or American Chinese?

The issue with marriage is to find someone who actually genuinely believes in the concept of lifelong marriage otherwise u are just on an open ended date imo.

Of course marriages breakdown but at least u and the woman need to commit to the idea that its for life. I asked about here nationality cause in the West the only women who really wont break a marriage are genuinely religious. Much of the world especially asia doesnt really do divorce. Asian americans are more committed to marriage but still if she is brought up in America then they got the media telling them everyday divorce is liberty.

Sounds like she has the right idea though. You should fucking marry women u are fucking. Otherwise u are fucking somone elses future wife.

>> No.11373224

I'm happily married. Want to know the trick? I sold out the white race and married a Chinese woman. Best decision I ever made.

>> No.11373237

>>11373186
Haha this guy gets it.

>> No.11373244

>>11373061
Marry her

>> No.11373249

Marry for children only.

>> No.11373299

>>11373224
Best decision you've ever made. Yet you're still here lol. telling us about how it was the best decision you ever made.

>> No.11373328

>>11373299
I don't know why you think simply because I have a nice life I can't hang out here. I like being on a forum where people can say whatever the fuck they want.

>> No.11373332

>>11373082
I agree
>>11373103
I love her, but I'm not sure if sealing my future fate for the rest of my life is a decision I am qualified to make at this moment
>>11373109
What do they do then? Surely there must be at least a few out there, you don't see them on R*ddit much either
>>11373124
Half white half chink kids, hmm I've thought about it and I'd rather just raise pure white or pure chink kids to be honest, not a big fan of racemixing despite how hypocritical that may sound
>>11373186
She's Chinese chinese. Not "westernized" at all unless you count being able to speak English and taking (my) white dick as westernized. This is probably why she's so adamant about getting married
>>11373224
Elaborate. What's so good about it

>> No.11373710

youre fucking 25
you think you have you already reached your peak?
Is she the best you can do?
if so, pretty pathetic desu

Keep on improving yourself

>> No.11374869

mfw my only bumble matches are chinese or black girls.
im a white caucasian with middle eastern decent/facial features

all i want is a white cutie 3.14 roastie

but i know them roasties will act like their shit dont smell. and that is a turn off. i might pick up a chinese cutie, if shes small and tiny and cute and humble respectful ect. might be worth it. idk abotu the cultural clashes tho.

>> No.11376173

>>11374869
Online dating is a scam if you’re male, go seek out girls outside. Women’s protective instincts make them distrust online interactions

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>he involves women in his life in any way

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>>11376173
It's not unwarranted, have you seen how fucking creepy the general male populace is over the net?

>> No.11376232

>>11376187
Cope harder you incel

>> No.11376285

>>11373061
Lol almost the same situation, except my gf is not rich and western born Chinese. Do you live in China?

>>11373332
>Half white half chink kids, hmm I've thought about it and I'd rather just raise pure white or pure chink kids to be honest
This is something I've been thinking about too

>> No.11376302

>>11376232
Do you know what incel means?
fuck you are dumb, those incels what woman so bad they have there own group. They want women....Anon is smart, he is not a incel
Why the fuck would you involve women in your life?

>> No.11376364

>>11373332
I also don't think I could connect to my child if it would be racemixed.

>> No.11377266

>>11376173
>not chad
I am killing it out there

>> No.11377319

Yea no one has answered OP’s question ITT. Ask yourself OP what do you gain from marriage? Seems to me like the only reason people do it is to fit in with the rest of society. If you found your soulmate that’s one thing but I’ve alse seen and experienced women’s “light switch” effect where they completely switch off their once “devout love” for their significant other. I think most of us here are jaded but logically why would you risk half your shit just because someone says they “love” you?

>> No.11377528

>>11373061
Ive been with the same girl since high school. I know I sound like a faggot but she really is my best friend. Together 14 years....not married. The main reason she puts up with it is because I run a business and have since I was 19 so she know I have great work ethic and she knows I’m more interested in working then getting my dick sucked by strangers. If we ever have kids people really should be married, if one person needs a visa and you know she’s not scamming then the same applies. Lastly if one of the two needs health insurance...I find it hard to find a reason to marry other than one of the three of those.

>> No.11377716

>>11373061

Marriage depends on you and the woman you marry. If you're going to sign a contract that you're going to only have sex with and support a woman for the rest of your life and allow her to totally control you, lest she take half your shit and get years worth of alimony payments when you split up, go for it. She gets your stuff even if she simply decides she doesn't want want to remain married or becomes abusive or cheats on you. The only time it makes sense is for economic reasons if you meet a rich girl and are marrying for her money and status, which few women would ever agree to because marriage is a way of a woman to move up in class and wealth. Remember: you don't need to be married to have kids

>> No.11378012

As a white dad to three sons who look primarily Chinese (even Chinese people think they are just Xinjiang / Chinese) until they see me, the OP has a point. Xinjiang people are seen unfortunately as low status in China for being predominantly migrant people.

My wife has an issue with race. I didn't know about my wife's issues with race until after we got married. She said she was disappointed that they did not have blue eyes like me. She said that she hoped for this after three children and just gave up. Our youngest actually has the lightest color hair, and she likes to take him out the most. She also does things like speak English very loudly in public, so that others can see her language ability. This really disturbed me. This is their mother, for Christ's sake, and now we are having issues in our marriage for other reasons. Most of you are aware women oftentimes marry only for social benefit and I learned that too late. I don't doubt that she loves me, but I'm positive that race plays a benefit that I'm very uncomfortable with. She always makes comments about my small face, big eyes. I admit that I was nothing special back in America. But I would rather not be with a woman than to be with one where my only appeal to her is my race, and as much as I try to get her to explore other cultures, and find other interests, she always seems to focus on my race.

Another thing is that I see other WMAF couples around and no AMWF. Many times the WMAF either "nod" at me, or they give me the stink eye because I guess I fit the white "nerd" archetype and I make them "look bad". Seeing so many WMAF makes my relationship oftentimes feel, yes, cheaper and less meaningful. It will hurt me so much for my sons to be rejected by Asian women, when they come from Asian women. And I believe that in the US, they will be treated as Asian men. I have looked into this subject, and "no dating Asian guys" is something many Asian looking Hapa men experience.

>> No.11378034

>>11376364
Just say it's adopted, it'll probably feel that way tbqh

>> No.11378050

>>11378012
Even I would be more comfortable seeing more AMWF. I find it more disturbing that so many white men deliberately ignore these subjects, because they find it to be personally insulting. It's more personally insulting for me to find that so many WMAF view me as "winning" against AM or WF, especially since my sons will identify as AM. It's so heartbreaking for me to look at my sons who I love dearly, and see that there are a lot of people, including the woman I swore my life to, who view them as not worthy of basic relationships. I do not post on any of the Chinese English language websites because the amount of really ugly things that are said by men with Chinese SO's really upsets me a lot, because my sons look and identify as Chinese (except for the youngest). I'm not even sure if the older two have classmates who even know they're mixed and I really try to tell them to say what makes them feel comfortable, and they say they are Chinese.

I am a tall guy and feel like I have no energy left. From the beginning I thought things were strange, she would bring me to show off to her friends, I ignored it because I had been on a long dry spell since college so I was happy to be intimate again. Then she would pretty much always constantly belittle me at home, making fun of my nose, saying that I wasn't handsome and that women only thought I was handsome in China. I thought that Chinese women really were sexually attracted to western men, so I did not question it. I realize now after getting married that they use us pretty much as a status symbol. She is not ugly by any means, but is in shape and very beautiful, but she is very cruel to me and to my children, who look Chinese, but she always prefers to take the whiter one out, and when we are in public, she always tries to show either me or my kids off, even to other AWWM. She even brags that she is better looking than most women in AWWM, but always insults me for physical things.

>> No.11378054

>>11378012
Nice blog post Elliot Sr.

>> No.11378058

>>11378050
When I try to argue, she goes from childish to extremely high pitched, nasally, screaming and nagging. There isn't any middle ground and it's either childish or screaming nagging. She will constantly nag me about my posture even though she literally just pulls me down when she walks because she wants to dominate me. I feel afraid to talk about any serious subjects because she has no concept of anything serious and just spends most of her time on Weibo and on Chinese social media websites, watching movies, watching TV shows.

Then there is always asking me to buy things, over and over, buying different shoes, handbags, clothes from the higher end brands if we can afford it, but then when we barely can't she goes to the middle brands. She makes sure to make me sit there and wait while she picks through dozens of outfits, while I sit there blankly staring at the wall.

It's impossible to suggest anything, like where to go to eat, because she will just say AGAIN when I suggest something and then when I ask her for advice on what to eat, she says I DON'T KNOW. YOU DECIDE.

Then there is the family issue, dealing with screaming matches with her mom and her poor dad who is just happy to have her out of the house. She will have moments where she just insults me and criticizes me for such small things and if I try to argue she will become very cruel almost immediately. When Chinese women get angry it is maybe the worst thing in the world.

>> No.11378076 [DELETED] 

>>11378058
As for sex, many here thinks Chinese women are sex dolls.

No. Chinese women are not sex dolls. They do not like or initiate sex. They will lie there like a star fish for the first year, then the sex will stop. I think maybe this is what makes many expats anger and vitriolic, like one of the moderators said. It can be very bad to go without sex, but I have researched this and many Chinese women marry foreign men because they think we are "charming" and won't demand so much sex. I will talk about this more later in this post. I have never had this experience with anyone but Chinese women, and I have been here for about 12 years.

Never expect a Chinese woman to initiate sex. I don't care how many of you white guys think your 6 incher is big for them (that's a stereotype about Asian guys and anyone who has lived here sees floppers all the time since these guys whip it out like they don't care in the urinals). But a Chinese woman will NEVER initiate sex. She won't get horny. She won't randomly give you a BJ, or kiss, or do anything.

What you can expect is for her to spend 2-3 hours in the bathroom doing her mask and makeup, before refusing to kiss you before you go to bed. As for sex, I'm pretty sure Chinese a women are completely disinterested in it. 0 sex drive other than for conniving for what they want from a man. Expect her to roll her eyes when she gives even a handjob. And blowjobs are not on the table. They're "dirty." After my first son was born sex completely stopped and went to once a year.

>> No.11378093

>>11377319
This. It's a really bitter pill to swallow, but marriage in this day and age exposes more risk than forex trading your bitcoin losses blindfolded. At any moment they could dump bags on you that will keep dumping for life because marriage to a woman is a lifetime financial commitment even though the actual marriage no longer is because women and men are equal hahaha. But seriously, no man in the 21st century should ever get married until its treated by the law like it's treated by women of this era

>> No.11378106

>>11373124
this is exactly how I feel about it, I'd only get married for kids, because growing up with married parents is a lot better than not. otherwise as a man it's just getting the government involved in your sex life for no reason

>> No.11378107

>>11378058
As for sex, many here thinks Chinese women are sex dolls.

No. Chinese women are not sex dolls. They do not like or initiate sex. They will lie there like a star fish for the first year, then the sex will stop. It can be very bad to go without sex, but I have researched this and many Chinese women marry foreign men because they think we are "charming" and won't demand so much sex. I have never had this experience with anyone but Chinese women.

Never expect a Chinese woman to initiate sex. I don't care how many of you white guys think your 6 incher is big for them. But a Chinese woman will NEVER initiate sex. She won't get horny. She won't randomly give you a BJ, or kiss, or do anything.

What you can expect is for her to spend 2-3 hours in the bathroom doing her mask and makeup, before refusing to kiss you before you go to bed. As for sex, I'm pretty sure Chinese a women are completely disinterested in it. 0 sex drive other than for conniving for what they want from a man. Expect her to roll her eyes when she gives even a handjob. And blowjobs are not on the table. They're "dirty." After my first son was born sex completely stopped and went to once a year.

>> No.11378128

>>11378058
Take your kids and come back to America. The bitch can't follow you there and your marriage to her over there won't matter here. Win/win

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>>11373082
BASED and REDPILLED

>> No.11378143

>>11378012
>he thinks """his""" children are """his"""

>> No.11378146

>>11378058
Is this real? Are you really
That beta? If no LARP you are fucked. You’re only hope would be to start dominating her in bed, fix your beta, body language, improve yourself and if all else fails smack the fuck out of her if she disrespects you.

>> No.11378147

>>11373061
Chinese women are fucking stupid, she’ll want a traditional wedding where you spend at least $10k with all sorts of retarded shit. Then she’ll make you buy a house so you two can settle together. They will never understand what financial independence means and will happy to see you wage cuck for her forever. After all she is pretty mich set after this marriage.

>> No.11378149

>>11376173

Are you fucking delusional? Online dating is like shooting fucking fish in a barrel if you get a halfway decent profile pic and just send out as many messages as possible. All dating is a numbers game and online dating allows you to exponentially increase those numbers. Plus any girl who meets you from the internet is already going to be DTF on the first date, so you have that, too. If you look to meet women IRL, women' protective instincts vs. meeting strangers are much, much stronger. Most successful IRL pickups come from within social circles ("He's friends with my friend's friend so we were all hanging out together...") because of the trust factor that brings, so if you don't have a lot of friends you'll never make it that way besides getting an occasional bar skank or something.

>> No.11378162

>>11373061
Been with the hoe for 1.5 years.
Inlove
Trips & gifts
Ask her in the fucking Altitude 98 Restaurant in Eiffel Tower
Marry her
180 degrees personality instantly
Follows me in fucking Budapest without me knowing, call me cheater 4times/day
Threats of stabbing me.
Literal monster.
Pour child (also hoe)
Divorce after 1 year.
Didn't get rek'd b/c I had nothing on my name (bless my parents)
Alimony simbolic+ no extra shit.
Never again.
Now live with another hoe for 7 years or so (didn't count)
Perfect relation
Tl;dr
If you put a ring on it the hoe goes fuking insane and you are fucked.
If she loves you she doesn't care.

>> No.11378168

>>11378107
You dumb fucking virgin, Chinese girls get horny as fuck, they are keen to try all kinds of deprived shit.

>> No.11378175

>>11378107
>She won't randomly give you a BJ, or kiss, or do anything.

Why would you ever marry a woman who doesn't initiate blowjobs?

>> No.11378187

>>11378012

Your sons won't just be rejected by Asian women, they'll be rejected by most women for being Asian and having the small penis stereotype. I know exactly one AMWF couple and she's kind of ugly--like maybe a 6--and she always had a thing for effeminate guys growing up. Sorry, but your lineage may die with them.

>> No.11378203

>>11378168
Wait till you get married and have kids fren

They are coldly calculating and only having sex with you because you have something they want

>> No.11378206

>>11378107

But Asians will do anal. If you find the right Japanese, Korean, Thai, or Vietnamese woman she'll take up the ass on demand. Chinese women are far more sexually reserved than the other Asians. Sorry you married badly, anon.

>> No.11378237

Marriage is a contract between a man and a woman for the biological role of raising children and planning estates.

If kids and/or a sizable estate are not in the picture, there is no reason to get married. Ignore the shitty and artificial reasons like saving money on taxes.

>> No.11378241

>>11378203
Marriage is a scam for the guy. No reason to get married.

>> No.11378245

>>11378012
>>11378050
>>11378058
>>11378107

I don't think you're LARPing which is unfortunate but dude what the fuck happened? YOU HAVE ALL THE POWER IN THE RELATIONSHIP fucking trust me but you gave it all to her.

Follow these Anon's advice

>>11378128
>>11378146

For anyone genuinely worried, I live in China and have so for 3 years, I have not heard of this before though the status part might be true with a low class Chinese person.

I've dated numerous white, black, and asian girls and right now my Taiwanese girlfriend IS THE EXACT OPPOSITE as what this guy described, so maybe you guys need to check out Taiwan.

Asian girls are unironically the best girls, buddy here got a shitty deal, daily reminder get a Taiwanese waifu


Wish you all the best brother, hope u find redemption

>> No.11378248

>>11373061
doe she legitimately have money? beware of the ugly chink childlock scam

>> No.11378270

>>11378093
The truth hurts. I remember when I believed in all that Disney shit about how women are princesses who want a Prince Charming. It’s really important young men lift, and work on improving themselves and their finances and learn to game women. In today’s world you need to play the field and build the skills and confidence to be able to get new woman at the drop of the hat so you don’t end up like >>11378058. If he was capable of getting other woman and didn’t succumb to Loneliness you think he would put up with that shit? Fuck no he’d dump her, fuck one of her friends and get back to making money/pursuing his passions. Feeling lonely? Get a dog. If you’re a fat loser who never tried to improve himself you don’t deserve to swim in pussy and will succumb to female manipulation. Pandora is out of the box thanks to the sexual revolution, we aren’t in the 50’s anymore and won’t be going back anytime soon. Us as men need to adapt to survive in this climate.

>> No.11378272

>>11373061
Enjoy your school shooter sons

>> No.11378289

>>11378270
Ain’t no stop losses on marriage when the position starts to move against you.

>> No.11378301

>>11373061
Get your wife a black boyfriend and you will avoid divorce.

>> No.11378359

>>11378289
Why do you even need to sign paperwork To get married? You can still give her the princess party ceremony without signing ZOG documentation entitling her to half your shit if she decides to be a bitch.

>> No.11378364

>>11378054
kek

>>11378058
You need to raise you self esteem ASAP or be forever cucked

>> No.11378401

>>11378359
You think she’ll accept that? You think her Chinese parents will accept that? Even living with her becomes you become de facto partners in the eyes of the law and entitles her to half of your shit.

>> No.11378441

>>11378401
It’s not about what she’ll accept it’s what you accept. Are you the breadwinner? Than you make the fucking rules. You should be the prize and she should be afraid of losing you, not vice versa, any other dynamic is setting yourself up for failure. But hey if you’re a beta loser with no ambition or drive don’t expect to be able to make your own rules.

>> No.11378443

My advice is only to marry someone who makes just as much money as you do if not more. Don't marry some thot and carry them through life. Only enter into an equal partnership or one where you are the one being carried. This way you have nothing to lose. This is /biz/ look at it from a business perspective. Marry someone whose family has money.

>> No.11378543

Calling marriage a scam is an oversimplification, in my opinion / experience.

Going from my sample size of 1, in your 20s you're lucky if you know who you really want to be and what you want out of life. So in most cases, it's easy to fall back on the default "get married". And, after that, especially if you have children, your options get limited very quickly and if you figure out you want something else out of life, you're then stuck between divorce (again a much harder choice once kids are involved) and compromising what would fulfill you.

My off the cuff advice: cut your losses with the current girl, spend the next 5 years making every effort to wake up each morning asking yourself who you want to be (for you, not for the impression it makes on others). To be cliché, "finding yourself". Work toward that, and once your're comfortably on that path, you'll have a better feel for if a given relationship / marriage would be a fit that doesn't compromise what you want too much (all relationships do to some degree, that's a normal tradeoff).

>> No.11378619

>>11378543
Hmm i have been finding myself for 3 years so far. I think I pretty much just want to be alone most days. One more relationship fuck involving kids and I'm in an hero territory. Might get neutered and seek out lots of hookups as a personal 'fuck you' to society but haven't decided if that's truly who i am yet.

>> No.11378637

>>11378443
Muh future earnings

>> No.11378651

>>11373082
Percentage of divorce is going down

>> No.11378692

>>11373082
>an increasing divorce rate
>not stratifying by iq and income
Poor dumb people get divorced frequently

>>11373186
>You should fucking marry women u are fucking. Otherwise u are fucking somone elses future wife.
>wife
>been fucked by another man

OP, has yours already been with another man? The answer to whether or not you should marry her is the inverse to that question.

t. fell for the nothing is wrong with non-virgin girls meme

>> No.11378762

>>11378012
>>11378050
This is my fear. Even if you found yourself the hottest ebony nigress that ever existed, the fact that your kids can come out looking like they came straight from the plains of Africa is a NO NO. Plus chances are her family are full of bonafide niggers

>> No.11378778

I've been very happily married for four years now (been together for seven) but then we're a lesbian couple.

>> No.11378798

>>11373061
I got married and got divorced a few years and two kids later. Now paying 25% of my money to her for the next 15 years. It sucks but I never thought her soul would become so corrupted. There were red flags in hindsight though. Personally I would never remarry unless it was a devout Catholic or maybe Christan with an intense fear of God who thought she would go to hell if she filed for divorce. Women initiate 70% of divorces. They are insane, irrational creatures. Without the fear of God there is literally no way to predict how marriage will affect her.

>> No.11378812

>>11378798
What were some of the red flags

>> No.11378832

>>11373061
>wealthy gf
>might not be able to retire early
What

>> No.11378845

>>11378798
Redpilled

>> No.11378868

>>11373061
Is you're more concerned about the money, the marriage isn't for you

>> No.11378889

I told my gf I have no intention of ever marrying her or having kids. Don't think she took it too well..Did I do good brehs?

>> No.11378905

>>11378812
The biggest is her mother was a miserable person and she ran her family and pussy whipped her father. She was extremely manipulative and almost refused to engage with me after a while because I'm sort of a take no shit say what I want kind of person. I like confronting issues head on where she would talk shit about me behind my back. My ex said not to worry about her but she eventually succeeded in sowing enough doubt about me to my ex that she had contempt for me instead of being by my side during really difficult times like getting laid off and having a parent die. In the end my ex turned into her mom and became just as loony and self rightious as she was.

>> No.11378925

>>11376285
>>11373332
It's more of a last resort in an attempt to achieve successful copulation not a first plan but it is a second

>> No.11378927

>>11378905
They always say to look at the mom before you get with a chick because they all end up like their mothers.

>> No.11378967

>>11376302
You see anon people who use incel as an insult are the same people who were called cucks when it was a trendy buzzword

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>>11373061
im a lesbian (male) and happily married to my 2d lesbian (female) wife, nadeshiko

>> No.11379057

>>11373061
Happily married with a young son. Wife is loyal and Asian

>> No.11379489

>>11373061
If she's wealthy then do it, it will help you retire early.

>> No.11379528

>>11373061
>chinese
Remember, you're marrying her entire family. If you can't deal with stress, run.

>> No.11379589

>>11378206
Tell me more about your anal experiences with asians

>> No.11379664

yes, enjoy some goblin taking all your hard earned money so you can get regular pussy, but then not really because women actively hold their pussys on a pedestal over your head to get what they want

people who get married are morons

>> No.11379687

>loves you
>will break up with you over a financial contract
breedgroid npc detected

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>>11378651
OH NO NO NO

>> No.11379742

>>11373299
>someone who is successful can't spend time on an anonymous image board because it's the only haven from NPCs, group-think, and censorship

you are actually a massive brainlet if this isn't b8

>> No.11379749

>>11373332
>replying to six posts like he's an important person doing an AMA

kys

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>>11378012
>>11378050
>>11378058
new /biz/ copypasta just founded?

>> No.11379821

>>11378012
this is how Golden Retrievers always feel

>> No.11380073

>>11373061
>Yellow fever
Anon, pls

Gooks are for only sex as concubines

>> No.11380118

>>11380073
>sex

plebian

>> No.11380140

>>11377528
Based. Most of my friends that married young did so because they were pressured into it by the woman and they are almost all divorced already.
If have-kid=true {
get-married;
} else {
Pump and dump;
}

>> No.11380219

>>11373061
I'm a chinese dude and I'm gonna impregnate a white women

>> No.11380234

married ten years, we've been together a total of 16 years. we have 4 kids. its comfy.

>> No.11380270

>>11379057
I’m fucking her while you’re at work wagie

>> No.11380288

>>11373061
marriage is comfy if done right - so like 10% chance of being comfy

need to be separate people living your own lives but just decide to live together and bone. One person trying to control or nag and it's all over

>> No.11380719

>>11378993
C O M F Y as fuck

>> No.11380760

Wow. This self absorbed R*ddit fag with a mail order gooker is ruining this bread. OP, I'm happily married. The secret is to not stop fucking other women. Also to never get caught

>> No.11380862
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11380862

>>11378012
>>11378050
>>11378058
>>11378107
>I married a yuuuge bitch and now think all Chinese chicks are exactly like the bitch I married
Top kek
t. White guy happily married to frugal, horny and fun Chinese girl for more than 8 years (with kids)

>> No.11380909

>>11380862
I found a clip of you and your wife on twitch
https://clips.twitch.tv/FineTallLlamaVoteYea

>> No.11380944

>>11380909
Based and alpha as fuck

>> No.11380965

>>11373061
yes but don't involve the state, state sponsored marriage is slavery

>> No.11380986

>>11378012
>Seeing so many WMAF makes my relationship oftentimes feel, yes, cheaper and less meaningful
at least you don't have a 30 year age difference so you look like you have a mail order bride, but yeah

>> No.11381007

>>11380944
>12 y/o tier jokes
>Tainting your superior white genetics with a literal 2/10 subhuman
>Alpha as fuck

Yikes

>> No.11381730

Marriage is more of a business proposition. You team up to bring up kids,you could very well end up disliking each other,but so what. Nobody said it was going to easy or pleasant.

>> No.11381878

>>11379749
I don't see the problem, keeps the thread interesting that way.

>> No.11382097
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11382097

Marrying a woman is like investing in a depreciating asset. Because let's be real here, a woman is only worth shit when she's still fuckable. Which isn't that many years, actually. After that, it's a worthless asset, one you can't even get rid of.

>> No.11382105

>>11373061
yes, i race mixed with an asian girl 5 years older than me and she payed my university tuition and now she is putting me through grad school.

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>>11373328
Bro, isnt your wife extrenely demanding amd annoying? I lived in China for a year and friends who got chinise gfs all complained about them being leeches and always wanting to know where they are what they are doing, jealous of friends etc..but at least they stick. Hard trade-off to make desu

>> No.11382224

>>11380862
Did u find her in China or in the West?

>> No.11382270
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11382270

>Be 30
>Be with girl I officially date
>We fuck and enjoy each other's company, but she doesn't want to date because she has trust issues
>Gets pregnant by another dude because she had baby fever and because I just started my career so I wanted to establish myself
>Can't date or fuck anyone else in my town because they're married or been dating the same guy for a million years

What do

>> No.11382293

>>11382270
*officially want to date

>> No.11382322

>>11382224
Chyna

>> No.11382324

>>11382270
>pregnant by another dude
did you even need to ask?
insta drop

>> No.11382348

>>11380862
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r2_K5koFGRY
watch the girl talking at the start
that's your kids future

>> No.11382362

>>11382270
>Can't date or fuck anyone else in my town because they're married or been dating the same guy for a million years
got out of town to find a girl?

>> No.11382407

>>11378012
You spawned three eliott rodgers? you fucking madman

>> No.11382446

>>11382324
Oh most def. Might use her for pussy later on, though.

>>11382362
>Long distance relationships
For sex sure, but not for dating.

>> No.11382460

>>11373061
get married, just don't get cucked into the monogamy for life meme

>> No.11382475

>>11382270
my friend in his 30s found a fresh 24yo from extremely wealthy family, has best relationship and is about to get married
my point is, it can be done, just look for girls in 23-27 range, they tend to be smart and ready for serious relationship + you're way ahead of competition (or at least should be)

>> No.11382587

>>11382475
>This 23 year old that I work with bought me a full lunch once because I told her I didn't eat before I went to work that day
>A 23 year old takes better care of me than the 32 year old I'm seeing

God has a weird sense of humor.

>> No.11382618

>>11382097
life is depreciating asset too go kys then
not defending roasties, but if you want to lock in appreciating gf
then you have to hunt for 15-17yos
good luck with that

>> No.11382635

>>11373061
my taxes drop from 32% to 22% after marriage. you arent legally required to feed them either, only kids. seems legit.

>> No.11382996

>>11373061
No matter what you do, have an exit plan. Marriage divorces are messy and men always get fucked by them, but there are ways to minimize the damage. If you must marry, have an exit plan for when things go south.