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>that (almost) 32 year old boomer who lives in a constant state of anxiety because he spent all his free time in his 20s on a computer when he should have been out socializing, making memories, and finding a suitable marriage partner

>> No.10926609

>>10926575
If I'm in my mid-20's, is it too late to reverse this course?

>> No.10926663

>>10926609

Not at all by a long shot.

You are still in the "late bloomer" stage at this point but not hopeless yet.

Start taking care of yourself and get the fuck off the computer bro. It only gets harder with each passing year.

>> No.10926722

>>10926575
Im 26, i spend all my time at school and playing video games. I know that going out is just not for me, i get anxious and i feel bored around most people. Why would i put myself in a situation where i would feel out of place all the time having to hide my personality? ( I hate everyone, non burger).

>> No.10926730

>>10926663
I'm considering joining the military to make friends. Is there another plausible route?

>> No.10926841

>>10926575
That's me

>> No.10926861

>>10926575
Sup fellow boomer. Is it too late now to make friends? I also need to stop dating a negative nancy

>> No.10926882

>>10926730
yes. do it. You will get physical fitness and character traits that will make you successful anywhere AND proud of yourself

>> No.10926888

>>10926575
Fuck you got me

>> No.10926902

>>10926575
Hits home so hard I want to kms.

>> No.10926908

>>10926882
thanks for the encouragement man

It's hard to watch myself get older but nothing gets better

>> No.10927195

>>10926861

i dunno but probably

most people by their 30s already have an established group of friends

>> No.10927221

>>10926882
Ever notice how people join the military to become something theyre not? What's the number one reason why the military is so full of dropouts and weirdos

>> No.10927234

>>10926575
Fuck that is me man

>> No.10927366

>>10926575
how did you do this

>> No.10927410

>>10926575
>suitable marriage partner
Kek
I'm a 32 year old boomer who's seen my parents and closest fren go through divorce. Seen another fren divorce and about to remarry and a few kids I grew up with are literally raising their wife's son.
Me, I'm just a humble wagecuck who's dumping extra cash into crypto and avoiding all the drama and bullshit and expense of marriage. I just bang random sluts I meet on bumble when I need my fix. Both paths kinda suck but I won't be suckered into giving a roastie half my fortune if I ever make it. And I'll have ultimate freedom if I can escape wage slavery.

>> No.10927443

>>10927410
Thank you based boomer

>> No.10927474

>>10927410
Are you me? Except I bang sloots off pof...much easier. Sometimes I feel a little empty inside but at least I'm no tied down to anything which is my greatest fear

>> No.10927564

>>10927410

Yeah you can’t win. Either you marry with more than 50% chance of it all going to shit and getting fucked emotionally and financially, or never marrying but regretting it when you’re 70 and dying alone with no offspring.

World’s fucked m8

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>>10926575
>hurrrrrr i shoulda played the normie game

ironic...
you broke free from the shackles of virtual normie reality and yet you long for it. you already made it and yet you cannot see.

>> No.10927703

>>10927564
>As if the connection between ballsack and body suddenly becomes discontinuous at any age between 30-70.

Come on do better fucker.

>> No.10927719

>>10926575
unironically me

>> No.10927750

>>10927221

It takes a special type of idiot who will kill someone because a banker told someone to tell them to.

>> No.10927774

> still in school at 26
get a fucking job

>> No.10927784

I'm 25.75 years old, finished college 2 years ago, been enjoying the neet life and will never get a job

>> No.10927883

>>10927564
Yeah it's sort of a no win situation but I do figure there's a chance I lose big time if I get married and it goes awry. My life is actually what a lot of fellow boomers wish they had. I go to work and outside of those 40-45 hours a week I have true freedom. No nagging gf or wife, no huge mortgage, no needy kids. I can do a fantasy football draft, sit around my apartment naked and smoke some weed, I can go out and meet friends, I can work out, I can fuck someone new with no guilt or regret, I can work on a side hustle for more money. Meanwhile most people I work with seem absolutely miserable. They never have enough time to enjoy themselves because there's some cousins birthday party or their kid has a recital or some shit. And then I'm sure they're broke because they're paying for their wives and kids. I'm not rich by any means but I have enough money to support myself with some leftover. And my path out is crypto, if it moons then I can become an early or mid 30s NEET living on passive income with literally 0 responsibilities.
Also, it's very possible technology saves me later on. If we get radically better sex bots, or some sort of crazy anti aging cure, or gene editing or something then I could possibly get the best of both worlds. I can enjoy myself now and then have a family much later. The average boomer normie fag totally underestimates the value of freedom and keeping your options open in regards to getting married and having a family. Once you start its too late to go back, you're stuck for life.

>> No.10927975

For example I'm gonna spend a bunch of time this week doing research for week 1 nfl fantasy football. I'm off Saturday Sunday and Monday. I'll deposit about $500 and play some contests. Saturday I'll sleep in, probably bang some random slut. Sunday I'll smoke weed and hang out with my best fren and enjoy the games all day, if things go well I'll make some money. Monday I'll just sleep and relax all day, maybe run some small errands if I feel like it.
If I had a wife or kid this would be very difficult. I'd get nagged about spending hours researching the nfl, I'd get nagged for gambling, I'd get nagged for watching the games all day, etc etc. I love being single.

>> No.10927977

>>10926575
In my 20's got a BSc, two masters, and a decent professional exp. rather than to waste my time and money on "memories". I have already 30 y right from the last August and have a nice house, a car, I spent my time on my Ph.D. and into making money.
BTW all the other "making memories robots" of my generation are graying or balding, with kids that suffocate their freedom and many are divorced. Life is hard if you follow the herd.

>> No.10928035

t. (almost) 32, description fits my life perfectly

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>>10926609
YOU STILL HAVE TIME

LEAVE

t. depressed as fuck 35 year old boomer who spent all his 20s on the computer

>> No.10928113

>>10926575
>32
>best friend fucked my girlfriend ~2011
>ditched everyone i knew
>bought bitcoin
>fast forward to now
>rich as fuck
>depressed
>trade all day trying to egt enough money for a girl to love me

>> No.10928191

>>10928113
Stop watching porn, start working out 3x a week, cold showers

>> No.10928232

>>10928191
i actually have been working out lately. started keto 3 weeks ago- down about 15lbs. spent about 500k on house close to a college in a weed legal state. figure ill just grow pot and fuck myself, go for runs at campus and maybe find a qt grill that wants me to be her sugardaddy. if not i hate people anyway.

>> No.10928354

I can at least say that I tried it in my 20ies, so at least I wont have any regrets in that regard.

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>>10926575

This hits a little too close to home..

>> No.10928406

>>10926575
just turned 18. what are my options?

>> No.10928495

31 year old boomer here. What helped me was scraping 25K together in a brokerage account and daytrading. I started to learn more and more about finance and took a few online classes, Damodaran & the Wharton MBA intro courses. The full courses, not the watered down versions. After that I started building financial models and ended up landing a job in a very small private equity firm. All in all it took about 2-3 years to turn things around. Im making low six figures now although work hours can long at times.

>> No.10928512

>>10928406

don't be an aspie, try to form a social circle.

as much as we don't like being normies, it gets old and someday you will regret missing out on shit and it will be too late to fix it.

>> No.10928519

>>10928512
thanks for the info. i will use it in the future

>> No.10928522

>>10928495
>>10928495

This thread isn't about money bud

>> No.10928565

>>10926663
>I'm considering joining the military to make friends.

lmao you people can't fucking stick to a normal schedule, what makes you think committing yourself to life in the military is a good idea, especially if you only want to "make friends".

Just get a job, volunteer on some social cause, fucking going to church is better if you want to meet people.

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10928586

I'm doing the book, OP.


Just send me a e-mail, I'll help you for free, because other anon helped me too.

>> No.10928686

>>10926722
It's conceivable you just don't like being outside your comfort zone, and that's where growth happens. You're call, bitte you're probably just deluding yourself

>> No.10928713

>>10928586
cringeado e azulpilulado

>> No.10928720

>>10926575
i turn 32 soon and this is me
but it's not a constant state of anxiety, i feel at peace with my life when i'm alone

>> No.10928732

>>10928713
What you mean?

>> No.10928757

>>10926575
>tfw 29
Oh god make it stop. I just now am beginning to do the right things to get my life in order. If only I hadn't drank my twenties away.

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>>10926575
>you'll never be able to fix your high school years or your undergrad college years
>you'll never be normie
>buy books about fantasy sports
>study them hard even though they're SO fucking boring
>listen to AM sports radio trying to learn more to be able to join normie workplace chatter
>oh you haven't done this or that before anon?
>you were a late bloomer huh? heh heh. They know.
>be late 20s or 30s now it's too late
>too late too late

>> No.10928822

>>10926575

Being a loner would be great if it wasn't pussy repellent. I've wandered among the normans enough to know I'm not missing much there.

>> No.10928827

>>10928787
This. You can’t fix it and everyone can tell what your past was like by the way you hold yourself. I balled early too so I never had a chance. I have a good job but my life is meaningless.

>> No.10928837

>>10928827
Balded

>> No.10928848

>>10926575
>>10926663
>tfw almost turning 31

i know your pain man. Im in the same spot

>> No.10928874

>>10928787
you know you can hang around other nerds outside right?

>> No.10928880

>>10927750
(((banker)))

>> No.10928904

Are you all fucking idiots?

I'm offering you all help, I have studied more than ten years of human psychology and even deeper shit like MKULTRA, if I say you all can change its because you can.

Stop being a PUSSIE and SEND ME A FUCKING EMAIL.

Just that, from that moment on I'll guide you till you are functional again.

Stop being a fag, just send me a email.

I'm giving you mine hand and mine arm so I can drag you out from this fucking hole you got into.

No, I wont ask for your money.
No, I dont need anything back.

I just wanna help because another anon helped me when I needed.

FUCKING
SEND
ME
A
EMAIL

princeofcrypto@protonmail.com

>> No.10928905

>>10928822

Yep, that's the only problem really. Honestly going to the gym 4 times a week is enough social interaction for me and I usually don't even talk to anyone there lol. My dick feels kinda lonely sometimes though.

>> No.10928914

>>10928827
>>10928787
Stop caring about what you think you're supposed to do or get out of life and focus on what makes you happy. I'm like you guys except I always liked social stuff through my twenties as long as I got drunk. I realize now that normie shit is actually boring as fuck. Who fucking cares about sports or other gay shit. God I hate socializing sober. People are fucking boring. Just fuck a hooker a couple times a month and play video games. What else even is there? You seriously want to spend your remaining prime years raising some shitty little mongoloid or getting married. Fuuuuuuck that. Enjoy your life because after this you're dead and that's the end of it.

>> No.10928958

>>10926575
I'm just 18. Can someone please fill me in with this "curse" stuff?

>> No.10928978

>>10928958
Send me a email, faggot, I assure you that if you believe me and do everything right I'll make you functional again.

>> No.10929018

>>10928914

>Stop caring about what you think you're supposed to do or get out of life and focus on what makes you happy.

This.

I honestly think a lot of you faggots aren't going out all the time because you actually don't want to. You just feel the peer pressure to do it because everyone else is doing it. I mean if you REALLY wanted to do that shit why aren't you doing it? Really think about this. The peer pressure feeling gets weaker and weaker the older you get.

t. 30 year old boomer

>> No.10929079

>>10928904
Post the tl;dr.

>> No.10929098

>>10929079
Send me a email, fpussie.

>> No.10929112

>>10929098
sent ;)

>> No.10929117

>>10929098
sent!! please respond quickly!

>> No.10929124

>>10929098
Sent 100k.

>> No.10929143

>>10928732
CRINGED AND BLUEPILLED
.....>>>>>/REDDIT/R/normalfags

>> No.10929149

>>10928904
Wait weren't you the guy larping as a Brazilian for money

>> No.10929157

>>10926575
>regretting that you didn't fall for the normie meme
Pathetic. Same age and satisfied.

>> No.10929162

>>10929124
>>10929117
>>10929112
I have already answered the ones who sent till now, No I dont "copy paste" generical answers, I just read then I do a unique answer to everyone.

>>10929143
What the fuck dude?

>>10929149
Yes, an anon gave me 0.1btc and other an LOL account worth 3k euros, so I promissed then I would help you guys and here I am.

>> No.10929179

>>10929162
Tell me in short what you told the last guy to do and I'll send you another 100k. ;)

>> No.10929192

>>10929179
What you mean, anon?
I dont understand what you are asking me or what you mean when you said "sent you 100k"?

>> No.10929201

>>10929192
Quality. That's what I pay for. Sent another 100k. This business partnership is going to reach new heights anon, I feel it.

>> No.10929225

>>10929201
Bro, I'm not understanding anything that you are talking now.

I wont tell you nothing that others asked me or what I told them, this is something personal, I'm not a prostitute or something like that to backstab others when they trusted me, sorry.

My blockchain.info balance still 0.05 cents,lol.

>> No.10929246

>>10927750

Sadly, so fucking true. Still, at least it gets you outdoors and hardens you up a bit - although due to pozzing even the military isn't as tough as it used to be.

>> No.10929275

>>10929225
3 replies. All it took to detect the pajeet.

POO. IN. LOO.

>> No.10929278

>>10929225
Mestizo master race

>> No.10929312

>>10929275
Wut?

Dude, I never said I was the Queen of London, I already said I'm the same favelaguy that posted here yesterday.

Are you fucking aspie?

>> No.10929330

>>10929312
For an mkultra master you are very fucking retarded.

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>>10929312
>>10929312
Stop replying to him dude. Jesus fucking christ. Brazilians really are stupid.

>> No.10929368

>>10929330
I said I already studied MKULTRA, I never said I was "Alleister Crowley" and come here I'll break your chains in the cost of your soul, da fuck dude.

>> No.10929401

>>10928232
Stop acting like a cunt and you won’t attract friends and gf’s that aren’t cunts.

>> No.10929429

>>10929363
He is bumping the thread, anon, that was the intention.

If I was dumb I would be already dead as Brazil is a fucking hell.

>> No.10929448

>>10929429
>>10929429
If you were smart you'd be living in America like me. Or if your family was smart lel.

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10929486

I'm 21 and I already feel exactly like this. I didn't go to college and I feel like I already missed out on all the cool shit like college parties and I'm too old to start as a freshman. I'm still gonna try but fuck it is anxiety inducing knowing that my friends are all graduating this year and I'm just starting.

>> No.10929495

>>10927564
Love is the prize brother

Make somethingnof yourself and find a women that you actually like and not just settling with, most people Donny go for what they want then they expect te hardest thing finding the right women for them to be an easy first find on some sociel media site

Sucks man, had 3 girlsfrirnds nonr ofnthen lasted more then 2-3 months. 1 was really good and always thought i’d Marry her but now i’m Mid twenties and she’a With someone else.

Single sucks, companionship and company are important especially as age increases,. I feel like i’m Missing out on a lot but I want what other people cannot imaginenfor themselves

>> No.10929496

>>10929486
youll be a lil older and thats fine, just go to college

i knew 2 guys who were former military that delayed going to college and they got along fine

>> No.10929505

We are all fucked really. Western civilization is in decline. Marriage is fucked. and Not starting a family will just leave you empty and alone in your older years. It's like a damned if you do damned if you don't situation. I don't even see anyway out of it either. There really doesn't seem to be an easy way out. neetdom just leaves you depressed and alone without any social contact. Being a wageslave just leaves you toiling your youth away with little to show for it.

please note this post really only applies to regular blue collar people. If you're someone lucky enough to have a high paying job and a family then that's great but for the rest of us this life is a living hell.

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>>10926575

>> No.10929543

>>10929448
Dude, I can live in Brazil but I still have friends, an gf and a prospect future.

What you have is your passive agressive mind disturb that will lead to your depression and coffin.

Congratz!

And remember: I can make money at anytime, then I will be richer, smarter and mind healthier than you.

Even when you win you lose. newbie from the real world.

>> No.10929553

>>10929505
This

Being broke ruined my /fit/ journey and when I work I don’t want to see anyone cause I hate my life

>> No.10929601

>>10929543
Sorry for being a dick brazil anon. I'm sipping some liquor and was just fucking around. Although I already bring in more money then you will and my future is looking very bright.
- Mestizo American anon.

>> No.10929627

>>10929553
it's also really hard to stay fit and have a job too because the job takes up so much of your time you don't have much left over to dedicate to working out. and the time you do have left over after a hard days work you really don't want to spend it doing more work... i myself am a neet right now and i workout and am seeing major improvements. girls are noticing etc. only one problem. im broke. so like i said. damned if you do damned if you dont.

>> No.10929648

>>10926575
>finding a suitable marriage partner
Girls only want Chad.

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>>10929601
>>10929601
No problem, you are talking things from yours perspective.

How much you would pay to take the virginity from the girl that love and adore you? That her heys sparks so bright when she see you? That she would lend you all her money without even a doubt if you would pay it?

I already have it, I already have friends, I already have a bright mind and money is something I can easily do.

These things you didnt had, this experiences, you will never be able to buy them back again, so now I'm the one that's asking you: - How can you, living in America, with more resources than me have lived a social poor life without any relevant experience?

Te Amo means I love you, how many "I love you" you ever heard in your life from girls you taken their virginity? How much you pay for your robotic sex?

You lost before even compete.

How much friends can you buy? Because I never had to pay mine.

>> No.10929674

>>10929627

Yea that really sucks. I don't know how to have energy for both. Would need to sleep like 8+ hours every night but then there's no time.

>> No.10929675

>>10928787
>>oh you haven't done this or that before anon?
>>you were a late bloomer huh? heh heh. They know.

I'm curious as to what exactly is the stuff you haven't done they are mercilessly teasing you with
Like, I didn't do shit on my high school or college years. I've done it all once I started working, and nobody made a big fuzz about it. I think you guys are too self-conscious. I know it sounds like shit advice but fixing yourself is harder than just not thinking that much about it.

>> No.10929733

>>10929668
Bro what are you even talking about? I have a great small group of friends from middle and high school that I still hang out with till this day at 24. Whether it's just having a bbq at someone's house, hitting a bar, getting a few beers and a great meal at a restaurant, hitting a club(don't really do that anymore), or taking our dirt bikes to a track and riding all day. I've had some great times and memories I won't forget. Although not much with girls. You got me there anon. :(

>> No.10929735

>>10929668
You are very wise. How much money for you to be my life coach?
I'm 29, highly educated, and make great money. I have a handful of really cool friends but I can't be bothered to hang out with them often because I get anxious. No gf.

>> No.10929790

>>10929733
I dont wanted to put you down, anon, is just that sometimes we need to bring people back to the real world. It's just that someone on real life wouldnt try to make you back they would just ignore you.

It's like Sun Tzu say.
>>10929735
An anon donated me 0.1 Btc, other gave me an LOL account worth of 3k euros, I promissed they I would help any anon that were searching for help.

Dont need to pay me, I'll recommend you things and that money you will use to upgrade and become a better version of yourself.

Send me a email if you can.

>> No.10930487

>>10929675
In my experience as a 34 year old lower class boomer it’s:

traveling abroad. Lots of Normies have studied abroad or done a shit ton of traveling through 20s.

College events and frat sorority life