/biz/ - Business & Finance

peepee poopoo haha

Don't be sad, fren. It's not too late to change your ways.

>>10906901
seconded

>>10906884
Same kek I’m gonna kms

I haven't had sex in 4 months

>>10906901
absolutely fucking based

>>10906931
I haven’t had sex since I was born

>>10906884
you probably have avoidant personality disorder like me.

>>10906953
Kek

>>10906953
its not a disorder. only what harms other people is a disorder.

OP there are people who would give up their hand to be in the position youre in rn. Do all you can to change your obviously skewed perspective of what life should be. Take a walk downtown to see how other people cards were dealt and realize even if you werent dealt great cards, your hand is still better than most. Faggot.

>>10906979
I don't care about the cards when the game aint fun

>>10906884
Your not social because you don't want to . The easy way is to sit inhome the whole day. Finding new and mainting existing relations.

Also social media generates a negative feedback loop.

I will give you some genuine advice
- stop social media
- set a monthly goal, for example having one date in the month. Reach that goal even if you need to date an ugly girl.
- contact every friend you want to meet them in the next 2 months

>>10907010
Then fucking kill yourself...youre wasting not only your time but now our time because you dont have enough brain cells to figure out just being alive is a blessing..fucking idiot..rope is on sale at home depot go and cop some ungrateful dick

>>10907073
this whole "hey somebody has it worse" is such a retarded argument, like somebody who is not me that suffering worse is supposed to make me feel good wtf. This life could have been designed in such a way that made every moment better then the last but it isn't. Is being tortured a blessing? because people have legitimately been skinned alive and pissed on ouuu such a blessing fuck you for thinking this shit is a net good

>>10906901
lmao

>>10906953

nice made up affliction

don't put yourself in a box, man.

>>10906884
its overrated my dude. trust me on this. its actually way better to just do the things you do. only thing you may do differently is you should invite some female company over who is also introverted so you guys can drink chill and watch movies or whatever. best thing ive had was that situation in the past. i dont like to go out too often. everynow and then is nice to go out and have a drink but its fucking expensive.

>>10906884
I wish I was you. I chose the normie life and now I’m broke.

Go have a drink with some Male friends OP.

>>10907035
this is actually good advice. you should try and get a date or two a month. it really does help to meet people. also try and join a club if you like sports or another hobby

>>10907035
>mfw no social media
>mfw missing out on all the events cause no contact with anyone

I feel the same a lot of times. Then I try to be social and it sucks.

Some people are just broken. We are the ones who are meant to lead but are not able.

>>10906901
based and redpilled

>>10907229
if you can't or aren't able to lead then you weren't meant to in the first place.

who the fuck uses snapchat unironically?

you grew up with shit friends
none of my friends use snapchat or twitter
they advertise their businesses on facebook and that's it

if someone tells me "add me on snapchat/twitter" it's a big red flag to stay the fuck away

you can buy all the whores, have a harem and fake friends when you make it

>>10906884
come on man you know you're better than them

>>10907292
I remember for a week I started wearing wacky clothes and dressing differently just for the fuck of it to see what would happen. People that would never make conversation with me before would stop and talk to me. I realized then how superficial everything is and how all the coolest people in high school just dressed like they were cool. Money is all there is

>>10907229
>>10907231
So what is your perspective on life then ? Shitposting on this toxic board till 35 and then off yourself?

>>10906884
Go do something-take a hike somewhere cool, go to the ocean, go fishing at a remote stream.

>>10907224
I don't have an instagram

>>10906884
Wow what a fucking loser

>>10907073
>be happy because other people have it even worse
kys

>>10907503
Fucking true.
The same with >muh you have 2 arms and 2 legs and you are not terminally ill - you have all the opportunites in your favor.
Like fuck the niggers who say that its the same fucking hypocritical thinking. We shouldnt compare with people who are rich, successfull and have everything they someone can dream off because this shows bad character but it makes fucking perfect sense to the the opposite and just be fucking happy for my life because I compare me with people who have it worse.

>>10907625
*to do the opposite

>>10907224
I don't have social media. When I was single I would use tinder for roasties. And friends sends me an WhatsApp for going to events.

>>10907224
you don't need social media to be social. the smartest people in America are being paid $200k+ a year to addict you to that shit.

>>10907267
>if you can't or aren't able to lead then you weren't meant to in the first place.

post hoc, ergo propter hoc fallacy


You dumbass

>>10907503
>be sad because youre a loser who is responsible for all his/her own failures and shortcomings
Kys.

>>10906884
One of my friends is a broke line cook, one of them became a tranny, and I'm pretty sure the other one wants to fuck a tranny. Being alone ain't so bad.

>>10906978
If it harms you it’s a disorder

>>10906949
But hey, I guess it still counts, even if it is your own mother

>>10906884
me too anon, i only have some online friends i talk to regularly but i hate myself for not having any desire to interact with people irl. i grew up without any extended family or any sort of social interactions so that's how i've been for most of my life. i can be alone all day and it wouldn't even hurt me, i don't know what's wrong with me

i use to feel the fomo of not being in the social events all my friends talk about but then i realized i prefer being alone

>>10906884
you are gonna be the best kind of rich, you will be rich and still lonely and then u will undertand all about money. its really nice to have a lot but you really need more in life..

>>10907224
This is a meme. I made a social media, got a bunch of friends, still none of them added me.

>>10906884
at least you have friends...i have no friends fren

>>10906884
same. seriously considering killing myself

I used to go out and do that shit, got married and it had to stop. I was pretty bored by then. My real life is completely cut from social media. I don't follow a single coworker, friend, family... sometimes they ask me for my mail and I just tell them to pick the phone if they need me. I've had Facebook and LinkedIn with my identity but closed both it just felt tedious as fuck, you can leave (but your data stays even if you deactivate hehehe)

>>10906901

KEK

>>10907127
This

>>10907376
THIS THIS THIS!!!!!

>>10908082
that argument is just a device to wake you up. even if its logically retarded you still can feel the truth. why are you focusing your attention on the darkness instead of the light?

come

home

Delete social media, thank me later loser.

>>10906884

/biz/

I love how 4chan neets think being rich is going to solve their problems

>>10906884
i know this feel friend

>>10908127
how will I be able to post pics of my lambo and collect roasties

>>10906884
Are you me? My friends don't invite me to go out more than once a month because I flake out so much nowadays. I blame my career for putting me in this funk. The money is great but it drains me and all I can think about is retiring with investment gains.

>>10906901

Top jej

/thread

My social life has its ups and downs.. i haven't been making much of an effort to make it more active. To be honest most people's social lives aren't what it seems even if you see them on social media its probably what they want you to think.. you'd be surprised most people are just full of it.

>>10907898
This desu. Every time I attend a social event I just end up feeling awkward and can't wait to go back home. Anything more than 3 or 4 close friends/family once in a while is a garbage time.

>make it
>need to go alone on holiday
>get homesick

>>10906901
Thank you for your service

>>10907073
Yeah cmon OP if you don't have the same realisation as the rest of us your just wasting our time and you should totally kill yourself because your stupid, did you ever stop to think just how fucking stupid you must be to not realise things that literally every other person who isn't dumb as shit realises?

>>10908557
This. This thread is fucking depressing. If you want friends, go out and make them. Get rid of your social media. It’s cancer.

I used to be like you OP. It took me years to build a friend group. I’m good at socializing now. It just takes practice

>>10906884
One of my very good friends who has since gone into finance once remarked that he wanted to genetically engineer himself to be sexually attracted to money. Maybe that's the answer.

>>10907224
sign up, get your m8s phone numbers and then delete it again.

>>10907127
If you feel that life is so shitty and you're not greatful for the chance to experince life to its fullest than unironically kys. No one is forcing you to be alive and you should't be alive if you don't want to. You'll be doing the world a favor. Nobody is going to miss you and nobody is going to give a shit because life is your own experience and no one elses

>>10907229
>We are the ones who are meant to lead but are not able.
You might not know how right you are. Neoliberal Jewish nepotism has stolen your rightful glory before you were even born. No lie I think legitimate kings post on these boards occasionally. People who would lead the masses to glory if only given their rightful chance. Meanwhile degenerate idiots out there get everything good handed to them chiefly because they effectively tow the line. It's like how I've always secretly felt. Why do I have to fake liking nigger music to be 'popular.' You just have the misfortune of living as an 'undesirable' in some of the most subverted, clown world times imaginable. In any other period you would probably be satisfied. Just declare eternal spiritual war against all the power that currently 'be' and be content. World is a fuck.

>>10906884
which state are you in?

Im alone too, i just moves to a toronto for a job have been here for half a year too everyone asian every indian cant afford to live closer to downtown where all the white people are. How do the hipsters afford it. 2000 loonies a month for a shitty basement 500sqft no windows. How afford? I go downtown all these stuoid girls? How does everyone grt by? Im smart im struggling i have an ok job in labaratory... I make maybe 50k

>>10907035
Just use antidepressants. They work wonders if they fit you.

My worse mistake was leaving prozac. I literally had a social circle after it and it magically disappear when I leaved the pill.

I fell I cannot go back because 4chan ruined it as a Jewish trick.

>>10909001

WE

>>10909226
WERE

Just send me a email.

I'll make you guys social functional again, you just pay me when you see the results.

princeofcrypto@protonmail.com

Just try it, its free.

>>10909029
You have to go back

>>10909001
There is literally no situation where you have to fake liking popular music

>>10907176
"My dude" shut the fuck up you pathetic parrot.

>>10906884
Go hit the Gym OP and start lifting, you will feel loads better releasing all that pent up negative energy and do a little bit of cardio while you are at it. The worse you'll have to deal with is the occasional normies with their beats headphones and that one autist who you just know is from /fit/

>>10906901
Alright, you win the internets

>>10907073
So would you be willing to trade places with a fetal alcohol syndrome adult?

Get one of your normie friends, go to a 1-day music festival and do MDMA. Then a few months later do LSD by yourself.

This will expose you to feeling more social, and feeling more open. You'll carry these memories and feelings forward. It worked for me.

>>10910098
Open your mind but don't let your brain fall out. Always remember that half the therapeutic effect comes after you stop using (don't chase the high, learn from it).

>>10906931
Kys normie

>>10910115
Exactly. It doesn't provide any answers, just sets you on beginning of the path.

>>10909001
>>10909226
>>10909238

kangs 'n shit

>>10906901
fpbp

>>10906901
holy shit were all gunna make it

>>10906884
go hang out with your friend and drink alcohol. you'll be fine anon. go my son

>>10910098
good advice also. do psychedelics. ten years of therapy in six hours.

I'm always alone but I don't give a fuck, actually I like it.

>>10907073
based and redpilled

>>10906901
B A S E D
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>>10906884
I didn't go out with people since at least 5 years, I always hated this shit but I forced myself in my early 20s, sometimes it was good, most of the time it was dogshit having to discuss normie topics, pretending you are interested all of it becoming more and more pathetic as everyone drink.
I was more comfortable when the social activity was on top of an activity like doing sport or playing a game instead of just sitting in a room and doing small talk.

The real problem too is that you can never discuss something meaningful or controversial because normie's brains will either shutdown or chimpout the moment you challenge political correctness, so you just crack jokes and make people laugh without ever creating more than a superficial bond because if you ever dare to reveal yourself it will come to bite you in the ass at one moment or another.

I think it's inherent to modernism overall, in the past people used to bond much more deeply because it was a matter of survival, you had to reveal yourself and others had to do the same, today since you can live comfortably with barely any human interactions and associations are extremely shallow since people are completely panicked at the outcome of suffering ostracism.
That's what make 4chan so attractive by the way, you can discuss with other humans without all these social conventions and potential devastating social consequences for just speaking your mind, in a way it's cowardly but it's liberating too but it doesn't make people bond either because of the anonymity.