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10521351 No.10521351 [Reply] [Original]

Serious question /biz/

Marriage is one of the most important financial decisions you can make in your life so it should be here

>Dating 9.5/10 girl for 6 months
>We have wild sex, great times, etc. (Literally anal every day for months)
>We start talking marriage and I buy a ring and we move in together

Problems start...

>She starts feeling like we spend too much time together and we aren't "growing"
>Starts making lots of guy "friends" and hangs out with them a bunch
>Spends hours of our time together on Instagram; editing and uploading pics of herself
>She is starting to go clubbing

We have great times together but I have insecurities around her new habits. Should I dump her now, keep fucking her for a few months and dump or marry her?

>> No.10521363

I should also mention that I go through about 3k a month towards her and she never pays any of my bills

>> No.10521378

You have already gotten the most you could possibly get out of this relationship. Quit while you're ahead

>> No.10521390

>>10521351
That’s the Price of anal everyday faggot. If I can sustain the financial burden, I’d keep the relationship. But she doesn’t seem like the marriage material. Also, don’t ask a Woman to marry you before the love drug wears off. Once it’s gone, you need to make sure you also enjoy coming down to reality.

>> No.10521391

I’d short it.

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>>10521351
>wild premarital sex for months
>lol let's get married
>sry anon, I am just not ready to be so committed. We'll talk about it more later. I'm going off to hang out with Tyrone right now, don't wait up
retard

>> No.10521414
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10521414

Do it too, make her jealous and hate anal fuck her

>> No.10521428

you fucked up

>> No.10521437

Fuck her as long as you like and dump her, this isnt the right one to marry

>> No.10521441

>>10521351
She is trying to get across to you that you need to get a life outside her. Give her some space, be away from her and do something productive. Than you will see her chassing after you.

>> No.10521448

>>10521351
you already lost.

she's bored and wondering if she could do better, and your betaness is leaking

lesson learned in 3 months when she destroys your heart

>> No.10521449

I'm pretty sure you already know the answer...>>10521351

>> No.10521450

>>10521351
Do not marry a girl with a bunch of guy friends who goes clubbing lmao.

>> No.10521465

Why amerifags are so obsessed with marriage? Seriously, i have only like 3 of my friends married and they did like after 10 years together. Marriage is something you choose to do, its not mandatory.

>> No.10521468

>>10521378
this.

>> No.10521507

You have a gf that likes to be fucked in the ass everyday and wonder why she's the cheating type. Your a fucking loser OP

>> No.10521527
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10521527

>>10521351
>literally anal every day for month
Thats how I know OP had tiny dick, my horny ex bitch needed to recover at least few days after my 7 inch fat member penetrated her ass on weekly basis

>> No.10521528

You’re the one getting ass-fucked now OP. Get ready to dump before she does it first.

>> No.10521544

>>10521351
This question is like asking should I buy bitcoin at 20k, no and dump your bags now

>> No.10521583

OK, morons, here is how this works:

0-) No exceptions.
1-) Three months without spending real money on her (split every fucking bill, no gift over $9.99).
2-) Minimum of one year fucking at least thirty times every month without any sex-related drama.
3-) Two years before living together.
4-) Three years without serious fights.
5-) After four years, make sure that you have no big issues with any of her friends or important family members. Also, be sure that her career has been advancing every one of those years.
6-) If everything checks, marry her, making sure to have a strong prenup anyway.
7-) NO EXCEPTIONS!

>> No.10521609

>>10521583
> Also, be sure that her career has been advancing every one of those years.

The last thing I want is the she is career driven and wants to work.
Children and family first.
> I don't want more then 2 children or else I won't have time for work
Holy shit that's a fucking no-go

Fuck women pushing into work.
That is the main reason for so many issues.

>> No.10521626

Take the red pill

>> No.10521629

>>10521378
This. Sounds like she is only good for taking a dick up her ass. You want to have kids with a person like that?

>> No.10521640

>>10521351>>10521363
Your dumb as hell, my fiance had to wait 7 years before i asked and the wedding is still a year and a half out.. but you did all this in 6 months. Young dumb and broke bro. I bet she won't even sign a prenup

>> No.10521666

>>10521609
>The last thing I want is the she is career driven and wants to work.
You want the girl to show that she can thrive on her own, if she cant, she is just not marriage material and it will create all kinds of fucking issues.

>>10521640
Any commitment beyond monogamy at six months is utterly retarded.

>> No.10521669

>>10521640
Your fiancé signing a prenup?

>>10521351
Your girl likes that you pay for everything but is probably such a freak that she wants other men now and is bored of the same guy for sex. Dump her before she cheats behind your back and continues to have you spend 3k on her per month.

>> No.10521685

>>10521450
Simple as
>this

>> No.10521720

>>10521583
welp. Looks like alot of people won't be getting married.

>> No.10521728

>>10521391
Underrated post

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>>10521351
>6 months
>ignoring 3-year rule for chemicals
oh boy

>> No.10521752

>>10521720
If you adhere to the code, some whores will leave you to seek losers willing to be their servants, and your life will be better because of it, even if you end up alone.

>> No.10521768

Lol u noob?

You hook up with a random girl, she is easily into anal 24/7, and you are surprised that she is not going to go all-in waifumode with the ring and kids after some months? Rofl.

>> No.10521772

>>10521351
Dump her

>> No.10521773

If you want waifu, why go for roastie?

>> No.10521789

>>10521363
Depepends on how much do you make.

>> No.10521820
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>growing
get out. Now.
That is literally the gateway to polygamy. Stop going into denial.
Growing in a relationship should mean something like touring the world with each other, starting a business together, doing something together.
Growing in this case is pure polygamy.
also
>9.5/10 girl
sounds like youre with her for the looks and anal sex, and you two dont really have compatible personalities.

>> No.10521827

>>10521527
What matters more, girth or length?

>> No.10521839

>>10521827
Girth for pussy, length for anal.

>> No.10521871

>>10521839
what about wowness factor?
Would a girl be more turned on seeing a 7 inch skinny dick or a 5 inch wide dick. Which would make her more excited in your opinion?

Cause i feel like dick size is 50% psychological

>> No.10521905

>>10521351
keep fucking her until you find a replacement - it's basically free sex.

>> No.10521918

>>10521871
That has to do with your body proportions, anon.
I got a legitimate 22cmx19cm cock, but since I weight 120kg, it is often underestimated until the girl actually gets fucked by it. Also, that is why a lot of shemales seem to have big dicks even when they are average or smaller - tiny frame make everything look big into comparison.

>>10521905
He is paying $3K to have her around, that is hardly free.

>> No.10521932

>>10521737
>>ignoring 3-year rule for chemicals
^

>> No.10522016

>>10521918
thats pretty interesting

>> No.10522477

>>10521737
What is that rule?

>> No.10522540

>>10521409
This. This is why western civilisation crumbles and why Muslims are taking over. People think women will just switch into housewife mode after months of thot mode. Lmao.

>> No.10522611

>>10521351
>anal everyday
Thats what you get for being a degenerate faggot. What did you fucking expect?

>> No.10522689

>>10521465
Because society is trying to destroy the longstanding nuclear family unit and flood our country with refugees and illegals.

>> No.10522832

>>10522689
Stop blaming illegals holy shit. Ugly brown people are not making white thots hungry for a different white cock each week.

Fucking retards.

>> No.10522867

>>10522540
>western civilisation crumbles and Muslims are taking over

In your dreams, incel.

>> No.10523064

>>10521351
9.5/10 gold diggers make the worst wife material. Keep creaming her anus till she dumps you.

>> No.10523077

>>10521351
Reversal, sell the top

>> No.10523086

>>10522867
Sweden, France, UK, Germany have already fallen. This is not a dream. This is happening while you roasties spread your feminism cancer and while you vote for more immigrants and socialists who promise you gibs.

>> No.10523105

>>10521351
what is this baby's first relationship?

If you've been around the block, you know that after 6 months things start to become routine/boring/stale, especially if you move in together.

If you make it to 7 years, the 7 year itch is no joke.

We're just not meant to have long-term relationships. Best to date girls for 3-6 months stints then move on, serious talk. The first couple of months are always the best then it's always downhill.

>> No.10523124

>>10521441
Leaving a married woman alone is just asking to be ntr’d.

>> No.10523210

>>10521351
Anal everyday would be pretty fucking hard to walk away from

How common is it to find girls who will let you do it even once a week?

>> No.10523281

>>10522832
This anon is right. What's doing that is feminism and liberalism.

>> No.10523292

OP is the definition of beta bux. Any girl that does anal is molested trash in the first place.

>> No.10523309

>>10521351
Breeders actual think anal everyday is a rare thing. Fking str8ies if you want anal go and get yourself a twink plenty of fags willing to take a Str8 cock.

>> No.10523366

>>10522611
Also this. Anal is for closet homos.

>> No.10523380

>>10523309
We were talking about girls here faggot

>>10523292
>>10523366
Lol enjoy missing out on the best kind of sex

>> No.10523392

>>10523380
Shut the fuck up you literal faggot. Go fuck your dad you won't feel a difference.

>> No.10523402

>>10521351
>Starts making lots of guy "friends" and hangs out with them a bunch
and does "anal" with them too.

>> No.10523413

>>10523392
Look at this fucking sexually insecure bitch

>go get a blowjob from your dad you won't feel a difference
Shit argument

Anal>bj>pussy

>> No.10523425

>>10523413
You're degenerate scum. Enjoy your pozzed crackwhores, those are the only ones that will do anal.

>> No.10523438

>>10523425
All my gfs have let me fuck their ass, just not every day like op

>> No.10523452

shes fucking you over. gar-un-tee-it budd.

>> No.10523463

>>10523438
you should stop wasting all your money on whores anon

>> No.10523467

>>10523438
This.

>> No.10523482

>>10521351
Those are literally classic signs of a girl being tired of you.

I'm going to let you in on a secret; to keep a girl long term you have to abuse her. Not necessarily physically, but mentally. You need to drill in her mind that you are better than her, you are the better half of the relationship and that she could not do better than you and any other attempt at a relationship will be a miserable failure compared to what you have.

>> No.10523493

>>10521583
>Ok check
I will merry her...bonus check blonde aryan virgin

>> No.10523495

>>10521669
such a good point. you'll be paying her to fuck other guys, if it come to that op will khs

>> No.10523506

>>10521351
Think about her incentives for staying with you even though she is out actively shopping and probably sampling the wares of other men.

3K a month. A free place to live.

She has already decided that it's over between the two of you. She is just cruising on free housing and 3k extra a month because why drop that branch before she has a firm grip on another?

Damn why did I respond to this obvious bait. Fuck autism.

>> No.10523524

You fucked up the moment you moved in with her. Too cucky

>> No.10523533

>>10523506
Girls aren't rational, they don't calculate numbers 24/7 and don't have the goal of making it.
All they care is love, alpha genes of a chad for the babaies, social aspects (which obviously food and shelter drops into)...

>> No.10523539

I fuck all my girls in the ass. Lets you dominate them emotionally and shows em whats up.

Last gf was almost exclusively anal. Prolly why I keep dipping back in.

I like to turn them over, get them to try it out a few times and make them cum during it. Let their inner whore out. If she doesn't fuck you like a filthy slut then she's not even comfortable around you. Or youre just not chad enough.

>> No.10523554

>>10521351
If she’s hanging out with guys and clubbing, she is fucking other guys on the side and sucking their dicks when you're not around.

You're a cuck

Only marry a girl who will wait to have sex with you until after marriage

I feel sorry for you anon, you're a cuck.

>> No.10523594

>>10523533
They are rational when it comes to socially derived exploitation of men. Much more so than men tend to be.

She isn't trying to "make it", she just wants to not have a period where she can't live her relatively lavish lifestyle that she probably can't support on her own wage, if she has any.

They are very conscious about their monkeybranching behavior, whatever you may believe. She will present what she told OP like "we aren't growing" as the reason when she has found someone else to attach herself to. She is completely aware of what she is doing.

Many women pretend to not be aware of what they're doing, because it's the rational thing to do. Apparently they fooled you.

>> No.10523611

>>10523210
Most girls I've hooked up have been down for anal.

>> No.10523613

>>10521351

>anal every day for months

Anon I’m not gonna go moralfag and tell you it’s degenerate. But do you have any clue what anal sex does to rectal tissue? No joke every day for a month, at that rate she’s going to be wearing diapers in her 50s. Why the fuck would you marry that? Or do you have some microdick?

>> No.10523626

on the off chance this isn't bait, how can anyone be this stupid?

>> No.10523656

>>10523611
>>10523210

Why are girls now so willing to do anal? It’s fucking depressing because the thought of dating a girl who’s had anal with other guys is just too much for me. I’d legit rather date a girl who’d dated a string of black men before me than a girl who’d done anal because there’s something so degrading and humiliating about it. Internet porn really ruined everything.

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>>10523482

>> No.10523677

>>10523611
Nice

>>10523613
That's a myth

>> No.10523681

>>10523594
OP hasn't done enough then... obviously women want the best of the best and in the time of internet, the competition raised drastically. Only chads are winning from this shit...and Beta fags tend to bound asap with a fucking wedding. Get better and growth

>> No.10523714

>>10521351
Send her my way OP. I will fuck her in the ass for 6 months and pass her to the next guy. That's what you do with thots. You don't marry them.

>> No.10523807

>>10523671
I wish there was an appropriate way to communicate these types of things without being shunned.

I'm sure a lot of kids grow up watching their feel good cartoons and think life actually functions that way on some level, and have it reinforced by their parents and teachers trying to show them all the positivity in life; but at the end of the day things like emotional manipulation, deception, fraud, etc. are all valuable tools in life that you should utilize to get ahead.

Of course you should weigh the risk and reward of any given tool, but in this example there is no negative repercussions for mentally abusing a female to ensure she stays loyal to you.

The worst case scenario is that within her group of friends/family, you end up getting ousted and you move on from them. If you're any good at what your doing, you'll be working them too; to make them believe you're the best thing to ever happen in her life. If you can't; practice makes perfect, so get to it champ.

>> No.10523816

>>10521583

Autism in one post

>> No.10523876

Sounds like a LARP, pretending it’s not if she has a bunch of guy friends and is going clubbing it’s fucking over. Party girls will cheat on you and say it doesn’t count “cuz like I was drunk!!!”. I also don’t understand why people like anal it doesn’t feel any better than regular sex and you run the risk of getting literally shit on your dick and it smells.

>> No.10523935

>>10521351
>>10521351
>Starts making lots of guy "friends" and hangs out with them a bunch
>She is starting to go clubbing
>Still doesn't get it
WTF run faggot are you a brainlet?
I'm an autistic who got my first gf at 25 yrs old, and she met a guy friend once the week we started dating, and I made clear it wouldn't work with me so she hadn't done it since.
Motherfucker you're considering to marry a roastie, I bet you 1000 linkies she's already sucked one of those said guy friends

>> No.10523955

>>10523876
>I also don’t understand why people like anal
they're virgins who've watched too much porn and it has warped their view

>> No.10523972

>>10521351
quit, now, buttlarp, kek

>> No.10523976

>>10523876
>it doesn’t feel any better than regular sex
It does though

>> No.10523990

>>10521527
also this, dicklet, kek

>> No.10524028

>>10521351
>Dating 9.5/10 girl for 6 months
>We start talking marriage and I buy a ring and we move in together

*gulp*

your fault retard

>> No.10524045

>>10521414
Literally this

>> No.10524070
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>She is starting to go clubbing

>> No.10524086

Drop her. Anal is disgusting anyways. Poop comes outta there ffs.

>> No.10524090

>>10523482
>THIS
OP take this guy's advice, I tried every redpill shit but THIS is the only thing that works.
I just broke with my gf the other day (total act, I was drunk and didn't gave a shit, the truth is that i love her like crazy and would never do this sober) and insulted the shit out of her, and we're still together, bitches will forgive everything and somehow they'll just love you more.
bitches be crazy

>> No.10524108

>>10521391
This desu

>> No.10524109

Kill her OP. Rape her skull.

>> No.10524142

>>10524090
This. Women are emotional creatures who respond to energy.

>> No.10524152

>>10521351
Fuck her until she cheats on you. If she won't marry her.

>> No.10524200

>>10523807
too bad some most of us feel compassion and empathy and actually don't want to hurt other people just to go ahead.

You will get what you deserve in the end. Enjoy your dysfunctional relationships where you are in "power".

>> No.10524229

>>10524086
anal is amazing

>> No.10524266

>>10521351
Your dick is too small for her, anon. You're being cucked. Jesus, don't you watch porn?

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>>10524229
shut up gaylord

>> No.10524334

>>10521351
This is probably bait. If not, you should 100% dump her. Unironically. Gl beta bro.

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>>10521351
KEK you fucked up, have you ever had a dog or watched some parents at the MacDonald's ?

Girlfriends need boundaries like children and animals. Letting her clubbing and hanging around with guys is stepping over those boundries. She is probably doing that because she is insecure about marrying you, looking for a way out or have some "fun" before wearing the ring.


Got some hot pics to share of your gf to compensate your cuckery?

>> No.10524383

>>10524200
On the flip side of this, most people also feel anger and epicaricacy. Like how you feel towards me, hoping I get what I deserve.

We hurt people no matter what. Is there really anything that wrong with having an understanding that what might be considered harmful (Loosely speaking; in some cases like the whore OP is dating, it would probably provide her with a much better life than she is likely to have) to someone else is beneficial to you?

What's so wrong with going one step further and instead of letting the emotional you hurt someone for no benefit, let the logical you hurt someone for benefit.

>> No.10524577

>>10523656
>It’s fucking depressing because the thought of dating a girl who’s had anal with other guys is just too much for me.
Anal is for gays.
>>10523656
>I’d legit rather date a girl who’d dated a string of black men
Those are the most likely ones to have done anal, and have extra stds.

>> No.10524588

>>10523976
>It does though
Do you have a tiny penis?

>> No.10524614

dump immediately anon, if she goes clubbing and has guy friends shes a whore

also since u had to ask u r not a man and arent even close to ready for marriage

>> No.10524637

>>10524277
>>10524588
>t. jealous because never gets anal

>> No.10524643

>>10522477
Passionate love starts fading in three years, then you can see if you're really compatible or not.

>> No.10524653

>>10521351
Can't make a whore a housewife fren.
A divorced guy on pubg told me that once

>> No.10524659

>>10521351
>"we" start talking about marriage
>I buy a ring

sounds like you were "needy" for her. so now she's going out to the club for the guys who don't care.

one day when she's at work move all of your stuff out and delete her number.

>> No.10524661

>>10521351
>9.5
>anal
9.5's don't do anal. They wear horn rims and have fish mouths.

Sage these summer break child future trap faggots. And report them, hopefully to get permabans.

>> No.10524671

>>10521351
pump and dump that hoe

>> No.10524675

>>10524637
if I wanted anal I'd go to a gay club you faggot

>> No.10524694

>>10521351
Obvious larp bait thread, it’s impossible to be this much of a cuck.

>> No.10524710

>>10523392
Raging faggot who appears to have been molested by his dad, cringe

>> No.10524934

>>10524200
He's larping and discussing the wrong techniques but there is some truth to his words. Relationships all have power dynamics and negotiation no matter what, and you will need to flex your muscle at times or else you'll end up like OP.

>> No.10525018

>>10524934
yeah fuck it i have no idea what im talking about im going to go watch anime and masturbate

buy chainlink

>> No.10525165

>>10523976
It doesn’t unless you have a tiny dick kek. Unironically.

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Anon never let a woman have emotional leverage over you. Call her bluff and tell her if she wants to part ways then that's fine. This could be a shit test or it could actually mean she wants to part ways. Either way don't put up with it because women don't respect men who don't respect themselves.

>> No.10525245

dump her you fucking idiot, there are so many red flags and the fact you are already thinking about it should be evidence enough that marrying this woman is a bad idea.

>> No.10525991

>>10521351
Dump her now OP before she takes half. I would bet 100 dollars she has already kissed another man. Monogamous people don't go to the bar on a regular basis without their partner. Once in a while is normal but if she's clubbing regularly without you I would assume she's already been unfaithful.

>> No.10526028

>>10521363
Sounds like she has one foot out the door already OP. I'd start testing her NOW, telling her you dont like what shes doing, seeing how she reacts to covering you when you "forget" your wallet at home, etc.

>> No.10526107

>>10521918
>I got a legitimate 22cmx19cm cock
Yes mate, you totally have a cuboid dick.

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>We start talking marriage
Why would you sign a paper that gives your wife 50% of your everything?
Just stay gf/bf forever so she can never fuck you over.

>> No.10527210

>>10525165
My dick is average and yes it does. Not sure what dick size has to do with it

>> No.10527493

>>10521351
Listen to Patrice O'Neal on relationships. You need to let her know you could leave at a moment's notice. She's built to strip you of your masculinity just as much as you want to fuck her. This is your fault.

>> No.10527521

>>10526162

>Just stay gf/bf forever

Does this actually work? Even if you both live with each other?

>> No.10527570

>>10527521
Depends where you live.

>> No.10528523

>>10522689
Ironically these cultures have a more cohesive family unit than whites. If You weren't retarded you'd realize that. Smh nigger.

>> No.10528544

>He has a gf that's open to anal sex
will never make it

>> No.10528591

>>10528544
this.
major red flag. is her thot already that used up that you need to make this nigger tier move and put it in her ass, in order to feel any resistance?