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I make literally 10 times more than my future wife. So we have split budgets. Love her n shit but let's face the number of divorces.

How do I protect assets I am going to buy once married?

>> No.10429884

Put shit in a trust dog

>> No.10429885

>>10429875
You can't. That's the point of feminism and the cultural marxist war on white hetero men

>> No.10429899

>>10429875
not really possible without seeming like an asshole or just not ever marrying her. Theres no way out once you're in.

>> No.10429903

Dont marry but buy bitchez for your nice income nigga!

>> No.10429906

>>10429875
Assets before marriage are considered separate property.
https://family.findlaw.com/marriage/what-s-mine-is-mine-what-s-yours-is-mine-who-owns-what-in.html

Honestly don't know what to tell you though, many good men have been burned personally through divorce, even prenups aren't bullet proof.
It's best to just keep it separate and not talk about it unless your wife is financially literate and worthy of trust.

>> No.10429927

Don't get married you dumb cuck.

>> No.10429952

1. Prenup. Separate lawyers from separate firms for you and her.
2. Always file “married, filing separately” for taxes.

All of this is utterly undone by either having children or remaining married longer than 10 years.

>> No.10429961

>>10429875
Best way how to protect yourselves against consequences of divorce, is never get married

>> No.10429967

>>10429927
Too late.
>>10429899
>>10429885
But what about 'loopholes'?

>> No.10430226

>>10429875
Do you live or plan on living in a community property state ? Go get expert legal advice honesty. Don’t rely on hearsay.

>> No.10430232

>>10429875
this picture always reminds me of MGS2 for some reason.

>> No.10430237

>>10429967
>loopholes

Bury your money in the woods. The boomer way. Noone thinks of doing this anymore so it's more likely to work.

>> No.10430284

>>10429875
If things start to look like divorce Is imminent put large sums of it into assets like gold and silver so you can just burry them to hide it from lawyers. Im not sure if it would work the same way but you could try putting large sums into crypto. I don’t know if it’s protected but considering it’s tax exempt it might just work.

>> No.10430388

>>10430284
Monero would be best.

>> No.10430401

>>10429875
Is the joke of your filename that it's a lossy image?

>> No.10430465

>>10429875
dont tell her how much you got. when shit is hitting the fan just monero up and come up with a meme excuse like you lost keys or they got stolen or simply ditch everything and run to a different place.

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10430487

>>10429952
>undone by either having children or remaining married longer than 10 years
What the dink

>> No.10430524

>>10429875
just hire a hitman when SHTF

>> No.10430543

>>10429899
>just not ever marrying her.
she can get 50% of your shit without even marrying you, and without even having sex

>> No.10430575

>>10430284
They will just subpeona any receipts or documents you may have documenting your purchases and if you can't produce the documentation they will have someone make reasonable estimates of your assets and then proceed with whatever narrative they want.

t. guy who has heard quite a few stories and read some court documents regarding divorces

>> No.10430609

>>10430284
>put large sums of it into assets like gold and silver so you can just burry them to hide it
where are you going to get large sums of gold anon
>There is a purchase of 10 kg of gold in registered your name, where is that gold anon
>errm idk
>jailed

>> No.10430629

>>10430609
>There is a purchase of 10 kg of gold in registered your name, where is that gold anon

yuropoors have to register their PMs?

>> No.10430671

Decide how much money you need per year to live a poverty life. Save that much away/ have it invested/ or set up an annuity.

then tell youre wife you love and trust her and give her your money

>> No.10430829
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>>10430465
Monero up and tell them you spent it all on expensive drugs to deal with all the feelings of your marriage falling apart. Bonus if a DNM exit scams between you buying XMR and the courts investigating.

>> No.10430859

>>10429875
don't get trapped into marriage you fucking autist

>> No.10430924

>>10429875
Use foreign jurisdictions unless you are mutt

>> No.10431292
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>>10429875
Been married biggest mistake of my life.
She cheated on me when my son was 1 year old.

Costed half of MY savings(she could only spend), half of the current worth of my house (which I restaurated with my own hands), my motorcycle, my 401k.

And then I don't talk about the kids , have to fight like crazy to be in their lives .

Don't be me, getting married don't give you any advantage in your relationship.

Give her a choice, a purely ceremonial wedding or no wedding . If she pushes or want to break up you knew you made the right choice .

>> No.10431338

>>10429875
if youre going to marry her then you AT LEAST didnt tell her about crypto, did you fucktard? hide your money.

>> No.10431354

>>10429875
Once you get married, there is no more "mine" and "yours" really, everything you have will be split between both of you. My lawyer told me this because my ex was trying to sue me to get back half of her entire yearly salary during the time we were married
OP just don't do it because money will absolutely make you want to divorce her

>> No.10431377

Smart marriage contracts on the blockchain to protect against thots. If the API it's connected to finds that she messaged Jamal, no payout for her.

>> No.10431961

>>10431292
Just got back from LA yesterday, and during my visit I spent a lot of time hanging with a close college girlfriend of mine. Awesome girl, showed me the entire town in just under a few hours. Showed me a LOT.

Anyhoo, we're at the bar and we start talking about old relationships. She started mentioning how, sometimes when she's dating someone, a rare opportunity will come along that she'll have to act on....a guy she's always been into but he never approached until now...the make-out guy at the company party...obviously things like celebrities and wealthy guys....so many exceptions to the rule that it can scarce be considered a rule.

She probably found it easy to be candid with me because we've known each other for years and have developed a level of comfort without any expectations besides having a good time.

But I think her view of relationships is quite common among women. Not only did she not consider hookups with those guys "cheating" -- even though she admits, on an intellectual level, that it was -- but she didn't feel the least bit bad about it AT ALL. This was a guy she loved and clicked with considerably. But she separates love from sexual fidelity, and even when sexual fidelity has been agreed to, when the rubber met the road it meant a ****-ton less than that hard dick she gobbled up at the party while her boyfriend was home sick.

>> No.10431981

>>10431961
Women don't operate on "codes" the way we -- Men of Honor -- do. This was one of the things I had trouble understanding in my early mASF tenure.

Do you REALLY think your girlfriend is so different? That she'd NEVER gag on another guy's cock, just because she's so devoted to you? Do you think that she can't be truly devoted to you if she does **** and suck other guys?

(And wouldn't YOU take a blowjob that your GF would never find out about, from a girl you'd wanted forever? Thought so. Difference between us and them? We KNOW we're breaking the rules. They backward rationalize that the rule somehow didn't apply in that case.)

One of the great things the Relationships board has done for my life is separate Relationships from Monogamy.

A girl can love you and have a great time with you and be a total team player for you and still slobber on another guy's dick from time to time. event A has ****-all to do with Event B. Only EGO and broken commitments, both man-made constructs, make that link. If we can bypass this myth of monogamy, we can have the chance at happier relationships.

We wouldn't have as many guys asking how they can MAKE THIS GIRL LOVE ME and more guys thinking about how they seem to only see their girls when they feel like it, that they have more free-time, and that they can catch random blowjobs guilt-free. The exact opposite of the AFC relationship, which goes from Intense Coupling behavior to Controlled Hate (or, worse, Known Apathy).

>> No.10432001

>>10431981
So we have a choice. We can buy into "the Fantasy of Purity" (credit: 60 years of challenge) and pretend that our sweet little babies could never go weak at the knees for another player.

OR. OR.

Or we can understand that monogamy is a **** deal because womens' relationship with the truth is so different than ours. Women are not accountable to the truth the same way we are.

If we're going to fully appreciate a woman and her sexuality -- not to mention respecting ourselves and our own sexuality -- then that means we need to let our women go free. If my GF chooses to not **** other guys, GREAT. If she chooses to **** them, it's NATURAL.

Let her do what she wants. She will anyway.

>> No.10432010

>>10429952
>Prenup.
Those get thrown out all the time.

>> No.10432015
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10432015

>>10431377
this will fix the thot epidemic

>> No.10432049

>>10432001
>>10431981
fuck you why are you censoring yourself this is 4chan

>> No.10432077

>>10432049
Dude it's probably Reddit Pasta.

>> No.10432118

>>10429875
buy bitcoin

>>10430575
can they subpeona your bank account to get records of you buying crypto?

>>10431961
>>10431981
normies. not even once

>> No.10432124

>>10432077
gross

>> No.10432126

>>10429875
get her to sign a prenup. also get this /co/ shit out of here.

>> No.10432145

>>10432126
>get her to sign a prenup.
Dude those can get thrown out routinely in court for any bullshit reason a Judge thinks of.

>> No.10432157

>>10431961
>>10431981
>>10432001

>reddit spacing

>>>>/r/TheRedPill/

>> No.10432159

>>10429875
put it in a trust in your parents name.

>> No.10432174

>>10430609
Why can’t you just buy with cash?

>> No.10432177
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>>10429875
Use monero to put a contract on her if she goes bad.
That's the only way to be sure, aside from not mingling with women at all, since not marrying is no safeguard as was already pointed out.

To lessen the chances of that, make sure she's never on the pill, and make sure to turn her into a baby factory.
Women, women on the pill and active mothers are three different beasts. Understand that.

Beware of menopause.
If she keeps using make-up after the wedding, red flag.
After menopause, prepare moneros.
Make-up is a sexual signaler, there is no need for that in a marriage.

Don't think of her as an equal, and treat her like a dog.
If you're human and not some shitskin, you'll understand what it means.

If she's not a virgin, pic related.
The more partners, the more you need to accustom yourself with how to put up a contract.

>> No.10432932

>>10432177
>no female pillar on the 20+

its at 0 isnt it?

>> No.10432973

>>10432177
>that drop after 1

>> No.10433023

>>10429875
neat pic. is there a name for this type of composition?

>> No.10433101

>>10429967
You can only apply for loopholes if you're jewish

>> No.10433141

>>10432973
that's why you only marry a virgin.

>> No.10433193

>>10433141
desu, i live in a 1million city where everyone my age just wants to party, do drugs and enjoy casual sex. fuck as soon as i have the money im gonna fuck off, the chances of finding a good conservative virgin here are close to 0

>> No.10433279
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10433279

>>10430232

>> No.10433671

>>10432118
>can they subpeona your bank account to get records of you buying crypto?

You should always have your own private bank account with your fun money in it.

>> No.10434401

>>10432001
>we need to let our women go free
Literal cuck. Now that we can do DNA testing, every baby should be tested at birth and if the father isn't the husband of the mother the baby should be killed and the husband cleared of any financial obligations in any future divorce scenario.

>> No.10434502

Move your savings to crypto

>> No.10434529

>>10429884
this anon has it right.

>> No.10434555

>>10429875
Don't just do 50:50. I like the following:
The bills you share you split according to your relative salary (you earn double, you pay double compared to her. in your case you pay 11/12). This would be for rent, gas money, groceries, etc. For everything else, you have whatever is left of the money you earn. That is solely yours.

>> No.10434730

>>10429875
There is this one post about marrying in italy. I don't know how the legality behind it really is, but it sounded pretty reasonable. I can't dig it up right now, cause I'm on mobile but perhaps someone else?

>> No.10435267

>>10433671
as in, simply one the wife doesn't know about, and they will only subpoena that which they know about?
still seems risky if she sees another bank card or something