/biz/ - Business & Finance

Vanilla anon here
Father, kids, wife all good people
Kids love me
Try to keep the wife happy and most often she is, but she's like all women and understands that the easiest way she can get ahead is through me

I'm planning an experiment over the next few months. Going to act as selfishly as possible so long as there is plausible deniability.

When I travel for my business first class and top hotels instead of main cabin extra and airBNB. When I cash out equity all spent on my financial goals and none allocated to her house decorating or semi-luxury goods.

I want to be clear with my goals. Everyone gets used to what is around them and starts taking it for granted. I think if I can get her to start thanking me every time she buys something non-essential (like she did in the past) I'll take that as a signal that I've regained hand in the relationship.

Any advice from anons who have done this kind of thing appreciated.