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>>54509705
why do you need to be "loose"? what else have you tired to incur "looseness"?

seems like you might be young and a bit confused about how effective routine and how discipline actually works, without being rude about those assertations.

with a father being an alcoholic, ie a big demonstrator of coping mechanisms in your life you are going to have to go out of your way to establish better ones and reinforce them often.

my best advice outside of seek professional help as in 30-90 day programs of self submittal is to harness what makes you an alcoholic and channel that innate adherence to your actual nature to railroad in better coping mechanism/better reward systems. its not the easy and takes a good deal of effort to step away from the sauce then an intense personal honesty with what "works" for you. then gamify it for yourself in a productive way.

feel free to expand where you need, but actively seek to better your self. boozing is a long rough way to die