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>>56981555
You're correct, but it has to be stated that you don't want to have kids with just any woman hoping it will subdue that testing instinct. The worst case scenario there, which tends to happen quite often, is the guy has kids with a pain in the ass and the woman and also usually now her family use the child as a battering ram and bargaining chip to really sweep the guy's legs. This is the idea of escalating demands which happen typically from women, but with a kid they can REALLY dial this up and punish you for failing to comply.
>baabe we need diapers...OMFG BABE YOU GOT THE WRONG FUCKING DIAPERS!!! YOU ARE HARMING OUR CHILD BY GETTING THE WRONG DIAPERS YOU'RE ABUSING OUR CHILD AND OMG LOOK HOW ANGRY YOU'RE MAKING ME, YOU'RE ALSO ABUSING ME! OMG MOMMY DADDY HELP ME!
Now multiply that by several times a week, sometimes per day. Every flaw, every misstep, can and will be used against you. The key takeaway here is make sure you have kids with the right girl. I have seen men reduced to charred bones in the wake of having kids with the wrong girl thinking it'd shut her sluttiness down, or she'd suddenly turn everything around and become mommy of the year. The logic was something like
>She just has a lot of anxiety, but if I make her happy, if I show her commitment, she will change and she will be great! I know she really wants a baby, so if I have a baby with her she'll be happy and she'll love me for it and everything will be like the Disney movies I watched as a kid :)
And lo and behold these men make the mistake of failing to understand these types of women will NEVER be happy. They are happy in the moment the needle goes into their arm, but as soon as the high fades, they need another hit. The guys dig themselves into a hole, deeper, and deeper. They shouldn't have even moved in with the girl and now they have a marriage, a mortgage, and 3 kids and they're doing 90% of the work while their 185 lbs. wife serves as basically the 4th kid in the family.

>>56493766
Of course. There are 3 variables: quality of civilization, the idiocy of men, and the whims of women. As the idiocy of men grows, the whims of women are satisfied, and the quality of civilization crumbles. Or maybe it's the quality of civilization crumbling which is making idiot men, which is leading them to cater of the whims of women. Or maybe women erode civilization to make men dumb so their whims can be satisfied. Who knows, we could debate it up and down, but it is a thing. I'll speak to it even on a personal level. I broke up with my last girlfriend about 3 months ago now. At the start of the relationship I already outclassed her (as is typically the requirement these days), but leading up to the breakup I was getting in better shape than ever, my earning power was just growing, and so the gap between us would have been growing by the fact I was improving alone. She didn't contribute to this at all mind you. She hopped on a train already moving in the right direction.

Meanwhile, my girlfriend was getting fatter, lazier, more annoying, etc. which was just widening the value gap between us at an even crazier rate. She LOVED my muscles, she LOVED my money, she LOVED my ' social access', but in all of this you could just see this entitlement. It was like "OOO LET ME FUCK YOU AND YOUR BIG NEW MUSCLES! ME? I JUST TOOK A SHIT BUT YOU LOVE ME RIGHT?" It was revolting quite frankly. You don't even want to know what the straw that broke the camel's back was. But the point is had I been dumber, you could easily see where this would lead. We've all seen the end game of this. The fit guy with a fat pig wife and 2 retard children while he smiles like a guy trying to smile while someone saws his testicles off. The guy who is like "I IS A GOOD BOY AIN'T I?" The sort of guy that has good boy stickers and shit. In short, an idiot who allows his growth and potential to be sapped off by some living vortex and never even notices.

Those men are the bane of quality.

Why did getting rich made me miserable?
I had a normal mechanic job before that paid well and i was debt free

My grandfather was a fisherman with a trawler boat and some quotas.
He died and i inherited it.
Sold everything. The boat was big but didnt yeld much except 200k euro. The fucking salomon quotas sold on auction for fucking 3 mill euros...

>all friends got greedy
>family got greedy

Dont want a lambo or anything fancy
Made me fucking miserable

Are females a good investmeny?