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>>58010659
pain desu.
regret desu
suffering desu
these are the delimiters of value.

That said.
take 15 minutes or so with pen and paper, and write down your feelings about such money matters.
Put it away and let your mind gel on the feelings
in 24 hours. come back and look at it.
Evaluate them as valid or invalid feelings.
meditate on that for another 24 hours
Write down for another 15 or so minutes where you think these feelings come from. Ask your mind if there are any memories associated with this.
Write it down.
wait 24 hours.
ask yourself again the basis of these feelings.

For instance. my grandmother unconciously installed in me the spendthriftyness she learned from her mother in the depression.
her values are not my thoughtful values and are largely inappropriate for my life and goals.
There is no amount of chipped beef and gravy sandwiches I need even though its a cheap meal.