/biz/ - Business & Finance

>>11518435
Those who are meant to see this will see this. They are the ones who understand themselves - nothing is spoon fed - the door is shown and the rest is out of my hands.

>>11471617
I wasn’t faggot - just responding

>>11433588
OP - I understand. I’m not a virgin anymore ( 20 ) but here’s my perspective that hopefully helps you. I have that sex drive urge but i channel it or try to in other things besides porn or trying to hook up. I was never afraid of women but I never chased them either.

Women are people. They shit. They piss. They bleed every month. They put on makeup and perfume. They wear clothes to gain social value and desire that they do for “themselves”. In the end - everything they quote is for themselves is only for what they desire. Validation and power over men. But keep in mind it’s only to men who are their preference. They despise what are not and are thus ridiculed. But the men they like or don’t mind are played off light hearted as a honest mistake.

Point being. Remove your ego. The money you want to spend on such a meaningless thing is better spent doing a project you want. A hobby that you take time off from the world and society and just read and go into it and what you need to do in order to achieve it. Trust me. You’ll develop independent mindstate that isn’t concerned about the value others perceive you as - you’ll realize the value you have is from the decision of the man in the mirror staring back at you. What you’ve done. What you’ve become. What you strive to become.


Women come and go. Also - after having sex with two women my entire life ( only done it twice ) it honestly wasn’t something I understood. After having done it - I understood the feeling and sensations but I didn’t understand why people made it such a big deal. I will admit the second time I did it - she wanted to be fwb - but I didn’t want to get lost in that lifestyle - but the cravings of sex are strong as fuck once you’ve done it after a short period and you urge to do it again. But it fades away. But you remain.