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ooh a thread I can relate to. found a woman in college circa 2008. she's a foreigner, was very conservative coming from a small town in central asia. this was important to me at the time (and still is). knew within 4 mos dating she was the one. married in 2010, had kid 1 in 2012 and she hasn't worked since. I have a crap government job that pays ok. father passed away in 2018 leaving not-insignificant assets. all this was kept separate, nothing commingled, because shitty divorce laws in commiefornia. I have practically no family left here and want to live where she's from, where the family is larger. I cut most people out after 2018... they're all drinkers, partiers, but have families. just trying to figure out how to get away with petty thievery or getting over on people. seems to be "the american way" where I am in california.
anyway, after spending 12 years here, she's too liberal to talk to about anything with current events - thanks, new mommy forums!

so now marriage is on the rocks, my fault of course. nothing to do with her not wanting to work in one of the most expensive states in the country. she's got a masters in medical biochem so she's not entirely an idiot.

you're not alone, op.