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My gf has stolen money from me and I don't know what to do about it.

I had a little more than 90€ including some 1€ coins in my wallet yesterday night, she slept here. She left today morning to her parents just like every other friday and she took about 30€ I believe, as I only have 60€ now and none of the 1€ coins. I found out a few hours ago, I told her through whatsapp and at first she denied it but of course after some pressure she kind of admitted it, only she says she took 20€.

She smokes weed/hash and she only works 1 day a week so she obviously can't afford anything else besides weed/hash and tobacco. That's the excuse she came with, she said she took 20€ to buy hash tomorrow because she isn't getting paid until sunday.

I sometimes felt like I was missing money in my wallet, but I was never sure about it. So well.... I think it isnt the first time she has done that.

I want her to stop smoking but she is stubborn. Should I make her choose between weed or me?

What do I do? I don't want to dump her, she is the future mother of my kids, but I can't just pretend that didnt happen, I am mad.

Pls help.